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By deeandmiles

We are married and a hot mess! Join us for conversations all about relationships!

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So, how's that working out for ya?May 16, 2024

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S3-Ep.46 Listen up! (and gain some of this wisdom)
May 16, 202433:49
S3-Ep.45 I Love My Life!

S3-Ep.45 I Love My Life!

Happy New Year! Join Dee and Miles as they reflect on how tough it was ringing in the new year.

* Mr. Miles discusses how he was broken over the holidays, but he persevered!

*Who's Mans is This? Dee rants about how a spouse should not beat your loved one at games on a date! (04:29)

*The Book of Clarence (07:00)

*Birds! yup, birds! (9:13)

* I love my life (11:53)

*Emotional Intelligence (18:40)

*Mr. Miles' Tool of the day (22:11)

Have questions or comments you'd like to share about this episode? Email Dee and Miles at deeandmiles@gmail.com or leave a voice message at 1-872-304-5683 (LOVE)

You can reach Dee and Miles on the socials @deeandmilespodcast on Instagram, Facebook and TikTok.





Jan 24, 202425:24
EP. 44 The Effects of Gadgets and Electronics on a Relationship

EP. 44 The Effects of Gadgets and Electronics on a Relationship

That phone can be both a blessing and a curse! Listen in as Dee and Miles discuss the impact that phones, gaming systems, etc., can have on your relationship.

Have you heard of "phubbing?" Maybe you're doing it!

Have a question or a comment about today's episode? Contact Dee and Miles at deeandmiles@gmail.com or leave a voice message at 1-872-304-5683(LOVE)



#podcast #deeandmiles #sohowsthatworkingoutforya #love #talk #relationshiptalk #emptynesters #gadgets #electronics #marriage #partners #fyp #foryou #friends #couples #atlanta



Oct 31, 202332:46
Ep. 43 Battle of the Sexes and the Sassy Man Apocalypse!

Ep. 43 Battle of the Sexes and the Sassy Man Apocalypse!

Join Dee and Miles in the discussion on how some of these men are being called out for displaying sassy behavior and the battle between the sexes on expectations! Also, Dee has a 'Getcha Girl" moment!

Have questions or comments? Contact Dee and Miles at deeandmiles@gmail.com or leave a voice message at 1-872-304-5683(LOVE).

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#podcast #relationshiptalk #emptynesters #love #marriage #blacklove #fyp #sohowsthatworkingoutforya #relationships #spotify #apple #talk #50s #battleofthesexes #sassymanapocalypse #gender roles

Sep 07, 202330:28
Ep. 42 Fellas, Dee has a special "Who's Mans is This," just for you in this Shoot The Sh!t episode!

Ep. 42 Fellas, Dee has a special "Who's Mans is This," just for you in this Shoot The Sh!t episode!

Fellas, Dee has a special " Who's Mans is This" just for you! Join Dee and Miles in this "Shoot The Sh!t" episode! Tune in now!

Have questions or comments about this episode? Email Dee and Miles at deeandmiles@gmail.com or leave a voice message at 1-872-304-5683(LOVE).

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Aug 15, 202328:55
Ep. 41 Letters from the listeners!

Ep. 41 Letters from the listeners!

Dee and Miles dedicate this episode to unanswered questions from the listeners! Have a burning question or something you would like to share? Reach out to Dee and Miles via email at deeandmiles@gmail.com or leave a voice message at 1-872-304-5683(LOVE)

Wanna see the faces behind the voices? Follow Dee and Miles @deeandmilespodcast on TikTok, @deeandmilespodcast on Instagram, @deeandmilespodcast on Facebook.

May 31, 202329:09
Ep. 40 The importance of setting boundaries. (Teaching people how to treat YOU).

Ep. 40 The importance of setting boundaries. (Teaching people how to treat YOU).

Dee and Miles discuss the importance of setting personal boundaries. It's hard but it's never too late!

Questions or comments? Share them with Dee and Miles at: deeandmilles@gmail.com or leave a voice message at 1-872-304-5683(LOVE).

Socials: deeandmilespodcast on Instagram, TikTok and Facebook.




#podcast #relationshiptalk #emptynesters #love #marriage #blacklove #fyp #sohowsthatworkingoutforya #boundaries #relationships #spotify #talk #50s #boundaries #anniversary




May 11, 202320:40
Ep. 39 RECAP: Break A Brotha Day! Just in case you missed it the 1st time!

Ep. 39 RECAP: Break A Brotha Day! Just in case you missed it the 1st time!

Recap: Dee and Miles discuss why he feels Valentine's is Break-A-Brotha day and give their  funny take on what happens to the brain when we're in love. They also talk about some of the old and odd traditions formed around Valentine's day!

Send your questions and comments to deeandmiles@gmail.com or leave a voice message at 1-872-304-5683(LOVE)




#love #marriage #relationshiptalk #emptynester #valentinesday #talk #50s #deeandmiles #sohowsthatworkingoutforya #spotify #applemusic #podcast




Feb 17, 202328:58
Ep. 38 Bodies on bodies!

Ep. 38 Bodies on bodies!

Join Dee and Miles as they discuss: *The Best Man: The Final Chapters    *Would you date yourself?     *Body count-is having multiple partners a bad thing?

Questions or comments? Contact Dee and Miles at deeandmiles@gmail.com or leave a voice message at 1-(872) 304-5683(LOVE)



#love #relationshiptalk #podcast #emptynesters #couples #coaching #sohowsthatworkingoutforya #blacklove #50sclub


Feb 03, 202322:46
Ep. 37 The love hormone and 8 things men do when in love!

Ep. 37 The love hormone and 8 things men do when in love!

Dee and Miles are back with the shenanigans! In this episode, the discussion is about oxytocin, the "love hormone." You know Miles had a field day with that! Dee runs down the list of 8 things men do when in love! Tune in and share some insight and laughs!

Questions or comments?  Contact Dee and Miles at deeandmiles@gmail.com

 or leave a voice message at 1-(872) 304-5683(LOVE)



#love #relationshiptalk #podcast #emptynesters #couples #coaching

Jan 27, 202324:36
Ep. 36 Can we be less judgy in 2023? Please and thank you! Regaining trust after infidelity.

Ep. 36 Can we be less judgy in 2023? Please and thank you! Regaining trust after infidelity.

Dee and Miles work on being non-judgmental and share their opinions on whether it's possible to regain trust after infidelity in a marriage/union. 

Reach out to Dee and Miles with your questions and comments at deeandmiles@gmail.com or leave a voice message at 1-872-304-5683 (LOVE)

Jan 20, 202321:41
Ep. 35 Do you Listen to Talk or Talk to Listen? (Get ya E.Q. up dawg)!!!!

Ep. 35 Do you Listen to Talk or Talk to Listen? (Get ya E.Q. up dawg)!!!!

Dee and Miles are back with a discussion on Internal vs. External Processing. Do you or your partner need to immediately talk things out or do either of you need alone time to gather your thoughts before discussing an issue? How does your E.Q. (Emotional Quotient) tie into your communication style? Tune in for some insight and let Dee and Miles know how that's working out for ya!

Email your questions and comments to deeandmiles@gmail.com or leave a voice message at (872) 304-5683 (LOVE)


Oct 01, 202226:15
Ep. 34 I choose peace! (But don't test me)

Ep. 34 I choose peace! (But don't test me)

Some people want that smoke, but in this episode, Dee is choosing peace. But don't push her! Join Dee and Miles on their nature walk while they discuss the importance of picking your battles. 

Have a question or comment you'd like to share? Contact Dee and Miles at deeandmiles@gmail.com or leave a voice message at 872-304-5683 (LOVE)

#love #relationships #podcast #deeandmiles #sohowsthatworkingoutforya #blacklove #emptynesters #ichoosepeace #50 #relationshiptalk #spotify #applemusic #amazonprime

Aug 15, 202224:41
Ep. 33 Growing [old] Together!

Ep. 33 Growing [old] Together!

Listen in as Dee and Miles respond to a wild letter from a listener!   Tune in for some insight and laughs with Dee and Miles as they share some of the advantages and perks of not only growing old but growing old TOGETHER!  Have a question or comment you'd like to share? Contact Dee and Miles at deeandmiles@gmail.com or leave a voice message at 872- 304-5683 (LOVE)

#love #relationships #podcast #deeandmiles #sohowsthatworkingoutforya #blacklove #emptynesters #growingoldtogether #50 #relationshiptalk #spotify #applemusic #amazonprime 

May 17, 202220:24
Ep. 32 Beef Part 2???

Ep. 32 Beef Part 2???

Do Dee and Miles have beef again? Did Dee have to drop another diss track? Are Dee and Miles set trippin'??? Listen to find out what's going on with these two!  For questions and comments send an email to deeandmiles@gmail.com or leave a voice message at (872) 304-5683(LOVE).


#love #relationships #emptynesters #blacklove #couples #marriage #talk #podcast #beef #sharedmeaning #gottman #deeandmiles #thehardertheyfall 

Dec 02, 202123:42
Ep. 31 Is withholding sex a form of infidelity?

Ep. 31 Is withholding sex a form of infidelity?

Is withholding sex from your partner a form of infidelity? 

Does marriage equate to lifelong consent?

Is withholding sex from your partner a violation of monogamy?

Tune in to hear Dee and Miles give their opinions on this controversial topic!

Dee and Miles would love to hear your questions and comments! Email at deeandmiles@gamail.com or leave a voice message at (872) 304-LOVE (5683)


#sex #love #marriage #infidelity #monogamy #deeandmiles #spotify #sohowsthatworkingoutforya #blacklove #emptynesters #podcast



Sep 17, 202125:03
Ep. 30 Shared Meaning-A tool used to grow your friendship and bring back that spark!

Ep. 30 Shared Meaning-A tool used to grow your friendship and bring back that spark!

Most couples have fun in the beginning of the relationship, but it tends to fade away over the years. Adding Shared Meaning helps create a deeper an more meaningful connection with your partner. Dr. Gottman did the research, now its time to create that Shared Meaning and have a happy and successful union!

Have questions or comments on this topic? Send your email to deeandmiles@gmail.com or leave a voice message at (872) 304-LOVE(5683)


#love #relationships #couplesgoals #couples #emptynesters #blacklove #marriage #podcast #deeandmiles #relationshiptalk #funny #sex #gottman #sohowsthatworkingoutforya #sharedmeaning #spotify #apple #music #talk #indianapolis

Aug 15, 202123:22
Ep. 29 Where y'all been?? On Tik Tok perhaps???

Ep. 29 Where y'all been?? On Tik Tok perhaps???

Listeners wrote in asking where in the heck have Dee and Miles been! Tune in for an update and find out what the duo has up their sleeve for the next episode!

Keep the questions and comments coming at deeandmiles@gmail.com or leave a voice message at (872) 304-LOVE (5683)



Aug 03, 202114:00
Ep. 28 A Father's Day Special!

Ep. 28 A Father's Day Special!

Why does Father's Day get the short end of the stick? Tune in to find out what Miles is taking off the table for Father's Day! It's a doozy!

 Dee and Miles would love to hear your comments, thoughts and experiences at  deeandmiles@gmail.com or leave a voice message at

 (872) 304-LOVE (5683)




#love #relationships #podcast #fathersday #blacklove #funny #sex #couples #emptynesters #gottman #sohowsthatworkingoutforya #spotify #apple #deeandmiles #couplestalk 

Jun 19, 202109:15
Ep. 27 Want answers? Ask the right questions!

Ep. 27 Want answers? Ask the right questions!

Outside is open y'all and Dee is out here finessing these questions to get better answers from Miles! Dee and Miles discuss the benefits of asking Open Ended Questions along with their Weekly State of The Relationship meeting. Find out how that's working out for them!


Wanna comment or share? Dee and Miles would love to hear from you! Email at deeandmiles@gmail.com

or leave a voice message at (872) 304-LOVE (5683)

Jun 15, 202124:18
Ep. 26 The Good Enough Relationship (Social Media be cappin')

Ep. 26 The Good Enough Relationship (Social Media be cappin')

Dee and Miles say 'Stop comparing yourselves to The Johnsons'! What works for them may not work for you! They answer a fun listener letter! Send your questions, thoughts and suggestions to deeandmiles@gmail.com or leave a voice message at (872) 304-LOVE (5683)

IG: @deeandmiles


#love #relationships #couplesgoals #couples #emptynesters #blacklove #marriage #podcast #deeandmiles #relationshiptalk #funny #sex #gottman #sohowsthatworkingoutforya #keepingupwiththejoneses #goodenough #spotify #apple #samsung #music #beckywiththegoodhair #cap #socialmedia

May 26, 202119:19
Bonus Ep. 5 Hanging with Miles in the morning

Bonus Ep. 5 Hanging with Miles in the morning

"Don't call it a comeback...!" He's back! Miles weighs in on mental health awareness and discusses the business of Cognitive Behavior Therapy and couple's coaching with Dee and Miles. 

To share your thoughts and feedback, email Miles at deeandmiles@gmail.com or leave a message at (872) 304-LOVE(5683)



#mentalhealthmonth #cognitivebehavior #relationshiptalk #love #men #podcast #sohowthatworkingoutforya #goals #couples #emptynesters #genx #marriage #deeandmiles #blacklove #



May 18, 202133:49
Ep. 25 Miles uses animal mating calls to initiate sex!

Ep. 25 Miles uses animal mating calls to initiate sex!

Tune in for the shenanigans and hear Miles' suggestions on creating rituals for initiating sex! 

Email comments, questions and your stories to deeandmiles@gmail.com or leave a voice message at (872) 304-5683(LOVE)


#love #relationships #couples #marriage #podcast #sex #animalsounds #deeandmiles #relationshiptalk #funny #sohowsthatworkingoutforya


May 05, 202126:32
Ep. 24 Outside Friendships (Friends! How many of us have them!)

Ep. 24 Outside Friendships (Friends! How many of us have them!)

Dee and Miles took a trip to New Orleans, 'ya' heard me!' Is your partner just as important as your friends? Are you treating your partner like you would treat your friend? Tune in and let's talk about it!

 For questions, comments and suggestions, email Dee and Miles at deeandmiles@gmail.com

Or leave a voice message at (872) 304-LOVE(5683)


#love #relationships #emptynesters #talk #couplescoaching #help #solutions #podcasts #indy blacklove

Apr 24, 202123:00
Ep.23 The Blame Game

Ep.23 The Blame Game

Dee and Miles discuss their issues with blaming your partner, why we do it and how to curb this blaming behavior! Don't know why Miles mentions Monkey Grease???  Miles has new Instagram followers! Send questions, insights and comments to deeandmiles@gmail.com or leave a message at (872) 304-5683(LOVE) 

#love #relationships #relationshiptalk #blacklove #why #emptynesters #talk #theblamegame #easter #marchmadness #thefourhorsemen #why #love #instagram #help #couplescoaching #solutions #podcasts #marchmadness #naptown #indy 

Apr 13, 202119:42
Ep. 22 'Tell me what you want without really telling me what you want. I'll go 1st.'

Ep. 22 'Tell me what you want without really telling me what you want. I'll go 1st.'

Miles wants to establish nonverbal cues in the bedroom and of course he mentions booty an insane amount of times! Tune in and let Dee and Miles know your verbal vs. nonverbal cues! Email at deeandmiles@gmail.com or leave a voice message at (872) 304-5683(LOVE)

Apr 01, 202124:54
Ep. 21 Don't GASLIGHT me bro!

Ep. 21 Don't GASLIGHT me bro!

Dee and Miles discuss the buzzword, GASLIGHTING and it's effects. Miles is triggered into unleashing his PIMP TALK shenanigans!

To comment or share your thoughts on the topic, email Dee and Miles at deeandmiles@gmail.com 

or leave a voice message at (872) 304-5683(LOVE)

#love #relationships #emptynesters #blacklove #couples #marriage #talk #podcast #gaslight #deeandmiles

Mar 22, 202119:31
Questions from the listeners!

Questions from the listeners!

Miles gets a little shook when a listener wants Dee to reveal a secret about him! Tune in for some interesting and fun questions from the listeners!

Dee and Miles would love to hear from you! Email at deeandmiles@gmail.com or leave a message at (872) 304-5683 (LOVE).

Mar 09, 202123:30
Ep. 19 We watched Malcolm and Marie! whew! Master Relationship or Disaster Relationship?

Ep. 19 We watched Malcolm and Marie! whew! Master Relationship or Disaster Relationship?

Dee and Miles discuss the film Malcolm and Marie and explore how they went from a Disaster Relationship to working towards trying to Master this thing! Email comments to deeandmiles@gmail.com 

#love #marriage #relationships #talk #emptynesters #relationshiptalk #blacklove #over40 #fun #couplescoaching 

Feb 24, 202121:55
Ep.18 Valentine's Day vs. 'Break-A-Brotha' Day!

Ep.18 Valentine's Day vs. 'Break-A-Brotha' Day!

 Dee and Miles discuss why he feels Valentine's is Break-A-Brotha day and give their funny take on what happens to the brain when we're in love. They also talk about some of the old and odd traditions formed around Valentine's day!   

#love #marriage #relationships #talk #emptynesters #valentinesday #relationshiptalk 

Feb 11, 202128:58
Ep. 17 Marriage journey part 2

Ep. 17 Marriage journey part 2

Here is part 2 of the Marriage journey!

#love #marriage #emptynesters #relationships #talk


Feb 05, 202140:11
Trailer/Intro

Trailer/Intro

Hey there! Are you ready for real open and honest conversations with Dee and Miles? Need to vent? Do you need a man's/woman's point of view? You've come to the right place! Looking forward to you tuning in weekly!

#love #relationshiptalk #marriage #talk #emptynesters 

Feb 03, 202100:54
Ep. 16- 2020 Recap Prt.2 Ep. 9-14

Ep. 16- 2020 Recap Prt.2 Ep. 9-14

Dee and Miles reflect back on episodes 9-14 of 2020. Stay tuned for more insight and couples interviews for the new year! And yes, Miles is still talking about booty!  deeandmiles@gmail.com, 872-304-5683 (LOVE)  #relationshiptalk, #blacklove, #genx, #emptynesters, 

Jan 29, 202117:55
Ep.15 2020 Recap part 1 (Episodes 1-8)
Jan 09, 202134:46
Bonus Ep.4 Hanging with Miles in the morning- Keeping that relationship train on its tracks!
Jan 05, 202131:20
Ep. 14 How to 'F' up a holiday! (Turkey day shenanigans)

Ep. 14 How to 'F' up a holiday! (Turkey day shenanigans)

Miles felt some kind of way when he came home from golfing and the turkey dinner wasn't ready! Dee and Miles discuss how using their tools saved 2020 turkey day! 

Dec 17, 202023:49
Ep. 13 That Rona Love!

Ep. 13 That Rona Love!

2020 has been a very interesting year! This pandemic has been a real eye opener for a lot of couples. For some, it's been positive and they've learned to work as a team. For other's, not so much. Listen in on how Dee and Miles are handling the pandemic on top of all the major changes they've endured.  Give them a call and leave a message at (872) 304-5683(LOVE) or drop an email at deeandmiles@gmail.com and let them know how you're dealing with "The Rona" and how it has affected your relationships. Looking forward to hearing from you!

Nov 24, 202030:05
Hanging with Miles in the morning- 3

Hanging with Miles in the morning- 3

Miles sheds more insight into Cognitive Behavior and shares an intimate and traumatic story about how and why his past has definitely affected his present! Share your stories at deeandmiles@gmail.com or leave a message at 1-872-304-5683(LOVE) Looking forward to hearing from you!

Nov 15, 202023:45
SUBMISSION. Does being submissive in the relationship benefit or hurt you? Tune in for our perspective!

SUBMISSION. Does being submissive in the relationship benefit or hurt you? Tune in for our perspective!

Dee and Miles discuss their views vs. @thejeanniemai  on the woman taking on a submissive role in the relationship. Who does it benefit? Is Dee willing to submit? We hear from a few of Dee's friends on this topic!

Oct 21, 202028:32
Sexual Brakes and Accelerators (Gas, Brake, Dip!)

Sexual Brakes and Accelerators (Gas, Brake, Dip!)

Dee and Miles discuss what they wish they'd  know in the beginning of their relationship about the expectation of sex.  

Science suggests it gets better after the age of 55!

Oct 12, 202035:15
WAP!!! (YES, we go there)

WAP!!! (YES, we go there)

Insecurities and ego can get in the way of that WAP! #dontwasteyourwap

Sep 23, 202028:00
So all of a sudden you want a divorce????/ I'm not crazy, its just my Anxiety/Depression...

So all of a sudden you want a divorce????/ I'm not crazy, its just my Anxiety/Depression...

Why do couples split after being together for so long?/ Dee and Miles share their battles with Anxiety and Depression. 

Sep 18, 202050:43
Hanging with Miles in the morning-2

Hanging with Miles in the morning-2

Miles is talking about core values in regards to relationships with our families, friends and significant others and how we deal with the past, present and future in our relationships.

Sep 09, 202025:11
80/20 Rule, The 5 Love Languages, 101 ways to earn points (Points system from Dee's POV)!

80/20 Rule, The 5 Love Languages, 101 ways to earn points (Points system from Dee's POV)!

Dee and Miles discuss the 80/20 rule, how learning the 5 Love Languages works for us and touch on some of the 101 ways to earn points! 

Sep 07, 202034:06
Sh*t we do that irritates the heck out of each other! AKA Pet Peeves!

Sh*t we do that irritates the heck out of each other! AKA Pet Peeves!

Dee and Miles discuss some of their Pet Peeves they have for one another! Let us know if you can relate! Contact info at the end of the episode. 

Sep 02, 202023:24
Hanging with Miles in the morning

Hanging with Miles in the morning

Just Miles here, talking to the fellas about cognitive behavior and how it relates to our relationships. 

Aug 20, 202033:52
Points system

Points system

We discuss what we do to earn positive points with each other. 

Aug 18, 202035:45
Contact us at deeandmiles@gmail.com or 1-872-304-LOVE(5683)

Contact us at deeandmiles@gmail.com or 1-872-304-LOVE(5683)

Leave a voice message or email if you would like to comment, vent or share a story! Remember, we will probably use it on the show so give a fake name or identify yourself as anonymous!

Aug 18, 202000:60
Beef/We need to talk/Love Bank/Translations

Beef/We need to talk/Love Bank/Translations

*We had some serious beef this week and I almost had to write a diss track! *Why is the phrase, "We need to talk," so scary? *Making deposits and withdrawals from our "Love Bank." Miles gives insight on translating "woman talk." Let's get into it!


Aug 10, 202021:24
Fighting Styles/ Pet Peeves

Fighting Styles/ Pet Peeves

We delve into 4 types of FIGHTING STYLES and talk about our PET PEEVES for each other! 

Aug 06, 202042:41