The Pastor’s Pen – Christ the King Parish

The Pastor's Pen

April 14, 2024

In Memoriam

Rev. Msgr. Ronald A. Tosti
November 2, 1936 – April 6, 2024

 

Man Proposes But God Disposes: I thought that I would be waking up in Naples, Florida this morning, Tuesday, April 9th, and remaining there through the 18th as a post-Lent-Holy Week time of refreshment and relaxation before the busy month of May gets into full swing. However, last Saturday after the 4 PM Mass, I took a call that I have long dreaded receiving telling me that our former pastor and my mentor and friend, Monsignor Tosti, had passed away! I had received a call earlier before Confessions and Mass informing me that he had been admitted to Charlton Hospital in Fall River with pneumonia for a man of his age and underlying breathing challenges that are always serious, but he had certainly been down that same path before and always pulled through! This was the time though that he wouldn’t and that in itself has its shocking and stinging effect. There could be no question for even a second that I would have to cancel my plans as I have long known and happily accepted that I would have the sad duty of assisting his beloved cousin Carol in assuring that Monsignor’s final arrangements are carried out according to his wishes. That is something that those who aren’t part of the fraternity of the priesthood may find difficult to understand, but we who accept a celibate and thus childless life form spiritual bonds that are different but nonetheless often similar to those of blood with one another. Thus when an older priest takes you under his wing and lovingly supports you encourages you in your priesthood, mentors you through your challenges, and corrects you in your mistakes, you have a loyalty to him, and most especially a duty to him, based in fraternal affection and on gratitude, that compels you to assure in the end that he will be properly laid to rest. So I will have to rely on divine intervention and inspiration to even hope to do justice to a giant of a man and a priest such as Monsignor Tosti, but I consider it more of a great privilege than a daunting challenge. Yet please do not feel sorry for me that my plans for rest in Florida were interrupted because in hindsight I can see God’s hand in this; first that I wasn’t already there and thus didn’t need to fly back, and

above all, that my calendar was already cleared so that I would have the time needed to prepare as well as I can to fulfill my duty to the best of my ability. I truly feel that this is the very least that I owe to a man and a priest who has done so much for me! In all of this, I am learning once again that God knows better than me, and in his providence, he is taking a situation that would be sad and difficult whenever it occurred and by his timing, not mine, he is easing some of the burden of it to the extent that is possible! So I can say with Ecclesiastes – God makes everything appropriate to its time, and with Job, I can concur, “The Lord gives and the Lord takes, blessed be the Lord!”

 

The Real Presence: Do you want to learn more about the Real Presence of Christ in the Eucharist? Can you answer questions about why Catholics believe Christ is present in the Eucharist? Or how that belief helps us to see the Lord in others? Does your faith help you to believe? We invite you to join fellow parishioners to continue the lifelong journey of growing in your love and desire for God, recognizing Him in both the Blessed Sacrament and in the presence of your neighbors. Meetings will be held in small groups at each other’s homes to foster our ability to become better acquainted with others in our parish. The books we will be using will soon be available and it is hoped that the gatherings can start at the beginning of May. ALL ARE INVITED! ALL ARE WELCOME! Express your interest by calling Jeane at 508-360-5570 with what times are convenient for you.

 

Teen and Family Speaker- Jason Evert- CTK -April 22nd, 6 PM -9 PM: Along with Our Lady of Victory Parish we will cohost Jason Evert a well-known and effective speaker for two talks on difficult subjects which will be handled with down-to-earth practicality and even humor! The topics are Chastity and Gender Identity and are of interest to parents and teens, as well as other adults. These presentations will certainly make the delicate and often difficult conversations around these important topics, which should then continue at home much easier to handle! The program will conclude with praise and worship, Adoration, and the opportunity for the Sacrament of Reconciliation. Jason Evert is a best-selling author of more than ten books including THEOLOGY OF THE BODY FOR TEENS and HOW TO FIND YOUR SOULMATE WITHOUT LOSING YOUR SOUL. The cost of the tickets is $25 each and these may be obtained by visiting: Chastity.com/purified. For more information, email Billb@olvparish.org Christ the King Parishioners will be reimbursed $10 per ticket by the parish, as this is a program that should not be missed and we want to make your attendance possible!

April 7, 2024

IT TAKES A PARISH:  Having now completed the Sacred Triduum, the most holy days and important liturgies of our Church Year, many are prone to thank  the clergy for their efforts to make these days what they are meant to be, however, in reality it takes a whole parish!  So thanks are also  due to the parish staff,  the sacristans, and the operators of the live stream  whose work behind the scenes is  not only helpful but essential!  Thanks are also due to the ushers who keep order, who show hospitality, and who organize the collections!  In the liturgy itself are the servers, the lectors, the Eucharistic Ministers who along with the clergy make the liturgy happen, and the musicians, cantors, and choir members who add  an essential element of solemnity  and inspiration to our worship!  We should not forget the daily work of the  dedicated crew from our  garden ministry who keep the sanctuary appropriately decorated with live plants  at Easter and beyond, a work that can be  quite challenging in a season of  50 days!    Last in mention but first in importance  are you the faithful worshippers who contribute to the flowers, the upkeep of our house of worship, the support of the clergy and staff, and who come regularly  to pray and sing and  thus glorify God because without you there would be little  purpose, nor possibility  for the Church itself  or  any of its  ministers or staff  to be here; So thanks be to God and to all!

 

OUR MISSION TERRITORY:  Daily now the grass is growing greener while  the yellow  daffodils and forsythia, sure signs  of change,  are emerging  in ever  greater numbers; thus  the death of nature that is Winter is surely  yielding to the new life of Spring.   At the same time, we now  emerge from 40 days of Lenten observances to 50 days of Easter celebration  – hopefully, enabled by our penitential dying to anything about us that is incongruent with the  gospel to a newness of life in Christ.  Yet meanwhile, hostages are still held in captivity, and the crisis of displacement, destruction, and now near starvation escalates among Palestinians in  Gaza.  Russian aggression continues to wage  war against an independent  Ukraine. Much closer to our own backyard civil order in Haiti has all but disappeared increasing the number of people whose intolerable circumstances cause them to dream and desire a better life within our nation’s borders. Yet even here in a place envied by many  life can be less than safe and serene!  Gun violence among teens is now increasing at an alarming rate. Daily we must hear that the right to destroy life in the womb for whatever reason must be kept inviolable in our country!  During a national election year, the vitriol of partisan politics  amid  that of the ongoing culture wars seems to reduce our national dialogue to little more than a  most contentious and irresolvable  debate!  Soon marijuana dispensaries will far outnumber houses of worship and the number of people under the influence of substances at any given moment is frightening to even think about!    Indeed, we as Easter people are supposed to be reemerging renewed in  our Christian convictions and conduct from our  Lenten retreat, yet  the challenge is that we must do so in a world and a culture around us that is unchanged if not further declining!   From our  early beginnings in the pagan Roman empire which was often quite hostile towards it, Christianity survived because it was radically communal in nature, that is, Christians stuck together and supported one another in their faith and  its practice. In our  increasingly secular contemporary world, we will not stand much of a chance of long survival unless we learn once again to do the same!  The greatest threat to Christianity is the Individualism that is the zeitgeist  of present-day Western culture and which has perniciously crept into even the lives of many of the baptized.  This might be evident to  us as we found it difficult to occupy our favorite pew last Sunday yet where are all those people this Sunday?  Minus the visitors who have returned to their homes elsewhere, many of those who might be here each Sunday are nearly  always absent!   They do not think  that it is necessary to join with other believers to  hear the Word and receive the Eucharist every Sunday.  Many  believe they can pray on their own and engage in good works and that will qualify  them as Christians!  Yet  it isn’t possible to persevere in authentic Christian belief adequate to  actually  influence one’s  outlook and manner of daily living without weekly worship.   What they seem not to grasp is that it  isn’t just Church authority requiring worship  but actually the commandments of God. In  the  plan of the Lord  himself  especially in his desire  to remain with us he offers us the  means of being  alive in him  through  hearing his word and receiving his sacrament!  That is why Jesus  told those who were listening to him at the Synagogue in Capernaum that unless they eat the flesh of the Son of Man and drink his blood they will not have life within them!  Indeed,  Jesus himself has made it clear that the Eucharist is a necessity not a mere nicety for those who wish to follow him!  So our task becomes clear, there are many Catholics who have lost sight of this essential truth, so we don’t have to travel far to find them, we should  begin here in our own region of Cape Cod  to seek those  who are missing from Mass on a regular basis  for no other reason than they  simply do not know or appreciate the importance of being here.  Only  by uniting themselves with us and we being reunited with  them do we have the strength through mutual support  to  truly walk in  the newness of life amid the same old, same old contemporary, and often disturbing secular life!

 

CURSILLO: This is the  Spanish word for “a short course of instruction”  and this one is in  Christianity!   For many, this  can be  a life-changing experience, which brings with it the discovery of the basics of Christianity and its fundamental significance to our lives.  A Cursillo Retreat begins on a Thursday evening and concludes on a Sunday.  They are held at the Holy Cross Retreat House on the grounds of Stonehill College in Easton, MA.  The Women’s Cursillo will be April 25-28 and November 21-24. The next Men’s Cursillo will be October 24-27.   Please contact the Parish Office or Terri Monroe at 508.564.0222 for additional information.

 

ECHO ( Encountering Christ in Others) is the child of Cursillo and thus  is a weekend retreat experience for young people of high school age.  This weekend an  ECHO Retreat is being conducted  for girls here on Cape Cod. . Please pray for the work of the dedicated team members among whom are  Fr. Chris Hughes and our parishioner, Cheryl Ryan, that they will succeed in reaching these young women to ignite or  reinvigorate  their faith! .   

Easter Sunday, March 31, 2024

Easter, Not Only a Day but a Season; March 31st to May 19th: The clergy and staff of Christ the King Parish prayerfully wish all of our members and our visitors a very blessed Easter Sunday and a joyful Easter Season of 50 days!
 
Easter Sunday, Every Sunday; Why We Worship When We Worship: Seventh-day Adventists and some other smaller denominations of Christians will want to tell us that the Commandments of God oblige us to keep holy the Sabbath Day which is the seventh day of the week. Thus we as Catholics along with the Eastern  Orthodox who are the original Christian Churches are accused of being in error by worshiping on the first day of the week rather than the seventh.  Yet when we go back to our apostolic origins we will see that while the Jewish Christians of the first century may have still observed the Sabbath as a day of rest, they were gathering for worship on the first day of the week often in the evening as Sunday was then a work day!  That this is the case is attested to in the writings of Justin the Martyr around the year  160AD who tells us that Christians assembled on “the day of the Sun “ to give thanks (eucharistia in Greek) and then went on to describe for us what any of us would readily recognize as the  Order of Mass even to this very day. Why Sunday?  Because as Justin will remind us it  is the day that Our Lord Jesus Christ rose from the dead!  Thus in authentic Christian understanding, Sunday is the 8th day, the first  day  of the new creation inaugurated by the resurrection of Jesus Christ. This is  why our baptismal fonts are traditionally eight-sided and baptism is most properly celebrated on Sundays!  In the Book of Genesis, we read that God created the heavens and earth on the first day of the first creation and said, “Let there be light.”  On this first day of the new creation, the light of the resurrected Christ overcomes the darkness of sin and death which had crept in and corrupted the goodness of that original creation. So today we gather to render thanks on the Sunday which in the English-speaking world is commonly called Easter, but which in the rest of the world is called some form of the Greek word Pascha which refers to  Passover. As we do we are asked to appreciate  that while this is the solemn annual remembrance of Christ’s Passover through suffering and death to resurrection and life, so too is every Sunday Eucharist  a celebration of the same!   That is why as his disciples who are powerless over death on our own  but who desire life beyond it for ourselves and those we love  we gather  not only annually but  weekly to give thanks to God and to receive the food of immortality that Christ alone can provide.  Indeed having become members of  Christ’s body by baptism and remaining in him as we come here to be  nourished by his body and blood  we  gratefully celebrate the great  promise of the   Paschal Mystery  each Sunday that in Christ death will not long  have  its hold  over us and our hope of heaven is not in vain!  
 
 
Our Cause:  As a community of believers in Jesus Christ, who find in the 25th chapter of St Matthew’s Gospel  the Lord’s clear expectation that we would seek  to recognize and serve him in those in need around us, we fulfill that imperative through charitable good works we support in common, most especially our extensive weekly food pantry.   The pantry serves, as it must, not the whole Cape but the geographic region of the greater Mashpee area which is defined by the Diocese of Fall River as the parish of Christ the King  In 1989 after newly opening this present parish complex the pantry began rather simply but over its 35 years of operation, it has expanded not out of ambition but truly out of  necessity to be serving  on average at least a hundred households within our parish boundaries  who must seek our help to put enough  food on their tables each week.   Yet our obligation to serve those in need  presents a challenge as the pantry is presently occupying much of our parish storage space and our activity space as well such as the stage and the back quarter of our parish hall.   While it is not our intention to further expand the range of our pantry, as we are already covering the area that we as a parish are responsible for serving how do we adequately house the pantry we are already operating with  its storage, refrigeration and freezer needs? The plan that has been devised to address this challenge  is displayed at the entrances to the church and the hall. At the same time, it isn’t the most ambitious plan it should be adequate to house the pantry and permit the parish to continue to conduct its activities  and also continue to  offer hospitality to self-help, scouting, and other worthy groups in the wider community who ask to meet here. Yet as we all well know, ultimately,  it takes the will to do it, a plan,  and the money to make it happen!   So we are grateful to the 283 households and individuals who have thus far pledged or donated $653,846 toward our goal of raising $2,000,000 to complete this project.  We ask  those parishioners who have not yet done so, as well as our guests who are visiting to will the completion of this project along with us, to pray for this cause,  and to support it as generously as possible!
 
 
 
Pilgrimages in Process:  In addition to days of recollection and retreats which  can foster the growth of our understanding  of faith and increase its depth, pilgrimages to traditional sites of Christian devotion are also greatly effective in achieving the same.  Two opportunities to embark on Pilgrimage under the guidance of Fr. Healey are presently available: 
 

Walking the Camino to Santiago de Compostella; August 5th to 15th  2024: presently 21 people are preparing to walk this 100km route together, yet staying in hotels rather than hostels, and having the assurance that a van with their luggage and lunch is traveling along side of them!  A few more pilgrims are most welcome to join, you may do so by visiting the website of  206 Tours and typing “Camino- Fr. Healey” in the search bar.

Southern Italy and Rome- Holy Year of Hope- 2025; February 17th -28th, 20225:  Begins by visiting the Shrine of Padre Pio in Sana Giovanni Rotondo, includes  Monte San Angelo, the Shrine of St.  Nicholas in Bari, Matera, Alberobello, Sorrento, Amalfi Coast,  Bay of  Naples including Pompeii and Monte Cassino,  Concludes in Rome visiting its major sites, attending a general  audience with the Pope and the opportunity to walk through the  Holy Year Door at the Vatican.  Brochures will soon be  available  – contact Kellie in the parish office.

Sunday, March 24, 2024

EASTER MASSES – Vigil -Saturday, March 30th – 7:00 PM, Sunday, March 31st – 8:00 AM, 9:30 AM, 11:00 AM, Please note there is Saturday 4:00 PM Vigil nor 5:30 PM Sunday Mass on Easter!

 


Confessions: In Preparation for The Sacred Triduum the Sacrament of Reconciliation will be available on Monday, March 25th from 2:30 to 5:30 PM in the Church. Please note that in accord with an ancient tradition that as we remember the passion and death of Christ the sacraments are not celebrated except for absolute emergencies from the end of the Evening Mass of the Lord’s Supper until the Solemn Vigil of Easter.

 

Renewing Our Promises: For Christian and Joan, who were newly initiated into the Church last Easter, this Easter will be observed as the first anniversary of that pivotal moment in their lives when through the Sacraments of Initiation they passed from death to new life in the risen Christ. They will relive that while it is still fresh in their memories. as they are invited along with the whole congregation to renew the promises of their baptism at Easter in solidarity with Terri and Danielle who are our candidates for full initiation this year. We are asked to better appreciate then how it was in the first centuries when formal initiation into the Church took place primarily at Easter after a process of conversion similar to that which has been revived in our day and is facilitated through the Rite of Christian Initiation of Adults. Many “cradle Catholics” are unaware of the date of their baptisms as infants or that of their confirmation and first communion and so those dates pass year after year largely unnoticed and thus unobserved in any way even though these are some of the most important anniversaries as they carry not only temporal but eternal significance. Thus in a sense, all of us are being asked to adopt Easter as the observance of the anniversary of our initiation into the Body of Christ. The renewal of our baptismal promises which takes place at each Mass of Easter should then be one of the most significant aspects of our annual celebration of this Paschal Feast and a day of thanksgiving that we have hope of being saved from final death by having been incorporated into the Body of Christ whose resurrection is our hope of victory over death. Thus we might better understand what Lent is fundamentally all about which is to prepare ourselves through repentance and ongoing conversion to renew those baptismal promises not just rotely but with sincerity and thus integrity! So at this juncture with just about a week to go, we have to answer the challenging question for ourselves as to how prepared we are to do this. As we do we may realize that it becomes all the more important to live the upcoming week not as just any other week of the year but as a one truly holy as we set it apart for God! A Flyer is available which reminds us of all the opportunities we are offered to make this coming week holy including the experience of the Sacrament of Reconciliation also known appropriately as “Second Baptism” and all the times of communal prayer in the liturgy to supplement those of our private prayer at home, So let us take full advantage of these helps to increase holiness before we come to Mass at the Vigil of Easter or on Easter Sunday and are invited speak our baptismal promises again. Indeed, let us plan to use the week ahead well and embrace the opportunities it provides with sufficient zeal such that when we express our belief in Jesus Christ and our promise to keep living that faith in his church our words will not ring empty but rather be deeply sincere.

 

The Jewish Roots of Holy Week: This week’s Adult Formation Session will focus on Holy Thursday, Good Friday, Holy Saturday, and Easter Sunday and will surely enrich our understanding of what we are doing and why as we re-present (anamnesis in Greek = make present again) these events in the liturgies of the Sacred Triduum. Dr. Brant Pitre presents his biblical research and that of others to deepen our knowledge of the saving purpose of Jesus in all that unfolded during these holy days; all are encouraged to attend the 50-minute presentations on Sunday at 9:30 AM or 4:30 PM, or on Monday at 9:15 AM.

 

Police Protection Required: Two weeks ago I had the privilege of addressing the monthly breakfast hosted by the Brotherhood of the Falmouth Jewish Community about my experiences in the Holy Land across 14 pilgrimages and the unique circumstances of my most recent visit there this past October. Besides recounting what we faced being in Israel as the massacre of October 7th took place and the challenges to finding a flight home thereafter, I sought to highlight the common ground we find with our Jewish brothers and sisters in a land that is holy to us all as people of faith. While we may understand Jesus from different perspectives both Christians and Jews can recognize him as a faithful Jewish man of the late Second Temple period. Thus Jews can learn something of their faith as it was practiced in the first third of the first century from the gospel accounts and we can learn much about Jesus and the development of our practices from Judaism too. What was nice about the gathering was that it was composed of both members of the Jewish Community along with Catholics who were invited as guests. The hospitality with which we as guests were welcomed was both warm and gracious and it was possible to leave there with a feeling that we had in some small way further strengthened the bonds that should exist between us all as descendants of Abraham. The only upsetting aspect of the experience if there was one, was that there was the presence of a police car parked at the entrance to the Jewish Community Center during this otherwise peaceful event. This is the Jewish Community’s regular practice in hopes that a police presence will serve as a deterrent to any disruption whenever they have a large gathering. This is a reminder of the sad and disturbing reality of ever-present but now increasing antisemitism and the potential for consequent violence these days. Worse though is that antisemitism is on the rise even among some who call themselves Christians! These are Christians of a brand who have no appreciation of the very deep Jewish roots of authentic Christian belief and practice, and thus the respectful bonds that should exist among us. Indeed, when Christians do not fully understand Jesus as a faithful Jew, nor appreciate his purpose as fulfilling rather than replacing Jewish beliefs and practices, it is like living in a house without any foundation, we would have no solid base upon which to stand! On Good Friday we read the passion account from the 4th Gospel which was edited at the end of the first century when Jews who accepted Jesus as the Messiah and those who did not were starting to part ways, thus we will sense in its lines an underlying bitterness toward “the Jews”. While that is not toward all Jews as many of those for whom the gospel was written identified themselves as being Jewish, rather it was aimed at the leaders of Synagogues in that day who had begun to prohibit membership to those who believed Jesus to be the Messiah. Such a resentment was a reality in the circumstances of that last decade of the first century but has absolutely no place being perpetuated among Christians in any age thereafter most especially in our own day! Thus let us be ever aware of the dangers of antisemitism being expressed in any way and ever vigilant to challenge it should its hateful and ugly head be raised in our presence!

Sunday, March 17, 2024

Stations and a Simple Supper–   Friday, March 22nd: – Stations will be prayers at 5 PM in the Church followed by a simple meatless meal of Soup, Salad, Bread, and  Jello for which a free will ill offering is asked to not only cover the cost of the food being served but to also contribute to the charities we have designated as recipients of our Lenten Almsgiving: Catholic Relief Services, Catholic Near East Welfare Association, and The Matthew 25 Fund.   Let’s  join together in the Lenten penance of abstaining from meat on Fridays and  also refrain from acquiring or preparing a more substantial and expensive meal  so that we may be in solidarity with those who do not have a choice but to eat simply if at all each day.   Please RSVP by March 19th  using the forms at the entrances to the Church and Chapel so that our Hospitality Committee can plan accordingly!

 

Happy Patronal Feast Days:  We  celebrate St. Patrick’s Day this weekend and St. Joseph’s Day on Tuesday and are aware of  how these days are  observed by many now  no matter their nationality.  Yet  let us not forget that these two feasts  have their origin as holy days for Patron Saints of specific  nations. So as we celebrate these special days let us pray for the lands where these feasts originated and the people whose heritage is there, that all will remember the faith in which these feast  days are so  deeply rooted and continue or return to its faithful practice! 

 

Holy Week:  One day each week (Sunday) and  one week each year (Holy Week)  belong to God who gifts us with whatever time we are allotted to live so it is only right to offer a portion of it back to him in thanksgiving!   Holy Week begins next Sunday which is Palm Sunday of the Lord’s Passion  and continues through to Easter Sunday of the Lord’s Resurrection.  The regular Sunday Mass schedule is in effect on Palm Sunday.  On Easter Weekend the schedule is different  as there is no  other Mass except the Vigil of Easter at 7 PM on Holy Saturday  evening nor is a 5:30 PM  Mass celebrated on Easter Sunday evening.  The  morning schedule on Easter Sunday  must accommodate 3 Masses to be celebrated at 8:00 AM, 9:30 AM, and 11:00 AM.  Please note the changes in time  are for Easter Weekend only and plan accordingly!

Mass during Holy Week is celebrated on Monday, Tuesday,  and Wednesday at 8:30 AM, and 5:30 PM on Tuesday.    On Holy Thursday there  is no morning Mass only the Evening Mass of the Lord’s Supper at 7:00 PM which inaugurates the Sacred Triduum of the Lord’s Passover, the holiest days of our year as Catholics.  The Liturgy of the Lord’s Passion on Good Friday is rightly celebrated at 3 PM which is understood to be the very hour of Christ’s death.  The first and most solemn celebration of the Lord’s  Resurrection is at the Vigil of Easter at 7:00 PM on Holy Saturday Evening.  By ancient tradition, the sacraments are not celebrated on Good Friday nor Holy Saturday until the Vigil of Easter, so Confessions in preparation for the Sacred Triduum and  Easter will be available on Monday of Holy Week from 2:30 PM to 5:30 PM in both reconciliation rooms in the Church.   As morning Mass is not celebrated on Good Friday or Holy Saturday, Morning Prayer from the Liturgy of the Hours will be prayed communally at 9 AM on each of those days.   Please read and re-read this message carefully and  then clear your calendars now and mark them with the times of the Holy Week  liturgies to fully participate in this most solemn celebration of the Lord’s Passover through suffering and death to resurrected life!

 

 

Adult Formation:  Having Completed our sessions on the Fourth Cup of the Passover Celebration – we will now begin the Jewish Roots of Holy Week. This should be a very timely study as we approach the holiest week and days within that week of our Church Year. Due to the celebration of St Patrick’s Day the session on this Sunday at 9:30 AM, 4:30 PM and Monday at 9:30 AM will not be in the Parish Hall but in a classroom in the Religious Education wing.  As these sessions are new and do not depend on having attended the earlier ones, new  participants are most welcome and encouraged to attend! 

 

 

Cursillo:  Perhaps those who have not yet experienced a retreat, or it has been a long time since they have done so would consider the “Short Course in Christianity” known by its Spanish name CURSILLO.  It is a life-changing experience, which brings with it the discovery of the basis of Christianity and its fundamental significance to our lives.  These retreats, which begin on a Thursday evening and conclude on a Sunday are held at the Holy Cross Retreat House on the grounds of Stonehill College in Easton, MA.  Dates for the Men’s Cursillo will be March 21-24 and October 24-27.  The Women’s Cursillo will be April 25-28 and November 21-24.  Please contact the Parish Office or Terri Monroe at 508.564.0222 for additional information.

Sunday, March 11, 2024

Stations and a Simple Supper-March 22nd 5 PM to 7 PM: an opportunity to sacrifice in solidarity with those who are suffering: Most of us do not have to endure the anxiety of not knowing if we will have sufficient food for ourselves or our families today yet the people of Gaza certainly do! If we don’t feel like cooking, many of us can enjoy a meal out at a restaurant. Still, along the battlefronts in Ukraine, you would not be able to relax in a commercial district vulnerable to a target of shelling or bombing. While these are places of deprivation and suffering most on our minds as they are presently in the news each day, there are other areas of the world where life choices and simple enjoyments are also quite limited if they exist at all due to poverty, political instability, or disasters both natural and manmade. We who can shop for food in stores that are well supplied and not be limited in our choices due to lack of money or who can dine out frequently without risk of danger to ourselves and our families are invited to place ourselves in solidarity with those who can’t have what we have or do what we do. The opportunity to do this comes toward the end of Lent each year in the Simple Supper which is held following the Stations of the Cross on the Friday before Holy Week. The idea is that we who are called to abstinence from meat and other penitential acts of self-denial on Lenten Fridays should join together in those efforts by sharing a simple meatless communal meal before the Lenten season comes to an end. When we do that, we are invited to also place ourselves in solidarity with Gazans, Ukrainians, and all those in troubled places throughout the world who are uncertain of enjoying a sufficient meal that can be eaten in peace. Recognizing that Catholic Relief Services operates in such places around the world in our name to bring people in desperate need some supplies and sustenance, we in a sense pay for our simple supper with a donation to that charitable agency. While the offering is not a fixed charge but free will, the amount we donate should be guided by what we might regularly be able to afford should we have gone out to eat locally be it to Bobby Byrnes, 99, Asia, Siena, Trevi, Estia or Bleu! While our Hospitality Ministry will do the cooking and serving of our simple meatless supper of soup, salad, and bread, and will certainly deserve our gratitude for their service they will be happy that the tip we might have paid also be given to our charitable cause! So let us join together on Friday, March 22nd to pray the Stations of the Cross at 5 PM in the Church and then be mindful of those who must presently carry a heavy cross of suffering in the war-ravaged and other troubled areas of the world intentionally place ourselves in solidarity with them as we take a simple meal and for their sake contribute as if it were a more costly one at a local restaurant knowing that our generosity will offer those who suffer some relief!


Calling All Strong Men of Faith: While that may sound similar to a military recruitment call it is an invitation to join together with other men as a force for good in the Church and the world as Knights of Columbus. It was Columbus himself who planted the Cross of Christ in the New World and it is up to us to continue to express that faith, especially in action, and the K of C can provide the opportunity for men of faith to join together in fraternal charity and good works. This weekend at all the Masses the Christ the King Council 13388 of the K of C will be inviting new members to join; please carefully consider that call!

 

Set Apart for God: Those few simple words are an adequate definition of “holy”! So let us take out our calendars now and draw a line from Saturday evening March 23rd to Saturday evening March 30th and write “N.U.A.” ( no unnecessary activities) in large letters across those days so that we might truly make that week holy! The Holy Week/Sacred Triduum Schedule will be published in next week’s Bulletin but for purposes of planning with relatives and friends remember that Easter Sunday Masses are on a different schedule to comfortably accommodate three on that morning – 8 AM, 9:30 AM, and 11 AM. There will not be a 5:30 PM Evening Mass celebrated on Easter Sunday!

Sunday, March 3, 2024

Alabama Court Not Entirely Wrong: The news is presently full of reports of the implications of a recent decision of the Superior Court in the State of Alabama to declare human embryos “children” specifically those produced in a clinical lab for purposes of In Vitro Fertilization (IVF ) If this is what the court said it is a bit unfortunate, as technically embryos are not yet children but when created using human zygotes they are in truth nothing other than human beings. Some may want to say “potential human beings” but more accurately they are human beings with potential! This is why IVF, although a solution for many couples to the heartbreak of infertility or others now a means to circumvent the coupling relationship of male and female that is fundamental to human reproduction, is not without its moral problems. The reason is that in the process of IVF not merely one but multiple eggs are fertilized to become human embryos but only one at a time is implanted in the womb of the mother to see if it will fulfill its inherent potential to develop into a human fetus, then an infant and ultimately a child. The question then arises of what is to be done with any remaining embryos and in the current response to that question is found the fundamental moral problem. It is reported that some embryos are frozen for future attempts at pregnancy, others perhaps donated to science, but many are simply destroyed. So if an embryo is undeniably a human being then as such does it have intrinsic value or are human beings only of value if they are useful for the purposes of other human beings who have control over them and thus can determine whether they merit the opportunity to live or not? Truly, our Creator designed human beings, the crown of all creation, as rational/ emotional beings who would bear children not just out of an animal act but in the context of a committed relationship through an act of love. In the divine plan, humans are not meant to reproduce merely but to procreate in the likeness of God who creates only out of authentic love. Any other means, contexts, or motives of conception for childbearing fall short of the ideals God has set before us and thus are seldom without moral difficulties. Undoubtedly, the desire of married couples and their quest to conceive and bear a child is truly a noble one, but we must wonder in the case of IVF if the means truly justify the ends. The ultimate question that must be asked in the face of all controversial issues regarding life is whether this action to be taken is truly in accord with the plan of the Author of Life for our human lives which are his special creation and care? Life is God’s gift to us, entrusted to us for our stewardship, not our ultimate control, therefore all life but especially human life is to be respected and protected, not unnecessarily manipulated or exploited for personal ends, and certainly never intentionally destroyed! In the face of the moral mess that we are currently making concerning conception and childbearing in our contemporary world where many are obviously able to become pregnant yet don’t want to bear a child and others who want to bear a child are unable to do so, one is left to consider if there isn’t a great divine economy regarding human life? Indeed, perhaps instead of seeking out costly, difficult procedures fraught with moral problems to have a child perhaps in the plan of God, there is meant to be an adoption for every potential abortion!

 

Adult Enrichment: The Fourth Cup and the New Passover: In this presentation by Dr. Brant Pitre, we will learn that four cups of wine were served and ceremoniously consumed at the Passover Meal in the days of Jesus. From the gospel accounts of the Last Supper, it appears that Jesus took three and declared he would not drink the fourth! Why?, Which of the cups did Jesus declare to be his blood? Why? What is the significance of the fourth cup to his passion and death? These and many other questions will be answered in this presentation which is available on Sunday at 9:30 AM, or 4:30 PM and on Monday at 9:15 AM. All are encouraged to take the time to be informed and enriched by this knowledge; attendance at the previous presentation is not necessary to benefit from this one.

 

Tackling Our Project in 3 Stages: Thanks to the tremendous generosity of those who have already contributed to support our project to properly house our extensive weekly food pantry and the future generosity of those who have not yet contributed but will as they are able, it may be possible to divide our project into three phases. The first phase would require carefully packing up and storing the contents of our present library to begin renovating the space behind the stage vacated by the library as an adequate storage area for the pantry supplies. Once that is accomplished, the last quarter of the Parish Hall which is presently used for food storage for the pantry may then be transformed into the new library and conference area. Once those two phases have been accomplished the remaining resources from our ongoing capital campaign will be used when these are adequate to extend the building beyond the new pantry storage area as a reception room for our pantry clients. On days that this final addition is not being used for the pantry, it can serve as a much-needed additional gathering space for larger self-help groups as well as parish meetings, catechetical sessions, smaller funeral collations, and social events. Thus far we have received $625,546 from 276 donors in gifts and pledges toward our goal of raising $2 million for this important and long overdue project; let us all wholeheartedly commit to continue praying and acting to help to see all this through to full and final completion!