Fran Drescher: The Real Reason You Don't Hear From Her Anymore

Fran Drescher shot to superstardom as Fran Fine on The Nanny. During the sitcom's run from 1993 to 1999, she delivered a fan-favorite performance as the unlikely, eccentric nanny of three upper class kiddos fathered by Broadway producer Maxwell Sheffield (played by British actor Charles Shaughnessy). The character's iconic sense of style and the actress' signature nasally New York accent — rivaled only perhaps by the likes of Maggie Wheeler's Janice on Friends — cemented Drescher's place as a major player in pop culture. Meanwhile, her strong comedic acting chops scored her two Emmy Award nominations for outstanding lead actress in a comedy series.

With an impressive career spanning decades, this actress-writer-producer hasn't necessarily lost her status as a household name. However, a string of short-lived projects, painful difficulties in her personal life, and a notable turn toward activism may have stymied her clout as a leading lady in Tinseltown. So, let's break out our loudest animal-print outfits and belt out The Nanny's catchy theme song. Here's the real reason why you don't hear from Fran Drescher anymore.

In the mid-1980s, a small dinner party held at the Los Angeles home Drescher shared with her then-husband, Jacobson, took a turn for the worst. As Drescher told Larry King, two men broke into the house, and, while one stole the couple's belongings, the other raped the actress and one of her friends at gunpoint. When the press caught wind of the painful ordeal over a decade later, the TV star found herself reliving that trauma in the public eye. 

"There was a whole segment on one of those tabloid-esque magazine TV shows that made it seem like the incident had just happened," Drescher told Glamour in 2018. She added, "I kind of had a post traumatic stress break after. ... All the fear from the experience came up, all the pain, tears. I had to start all over again." A decade after Drescher was assaulted, she was diagnosed with uterine cancer. She told Australia's Studio 10 that she found it to be "a poetic correlation" to her rape, regarding "where the body [decided] to break down and create disease." Drescher has since spoken openly about her experience. In the wake of the #MeToo movement in Hollywood, she told Glamour, "Look, I'm not the only one, [it happens to] one out of three women, that's the facts. So the more we talk about it, the better off we are."

While much of Drescher's TV work has been inspired by her real life, she began sharing even more of herself off-screen as a published author. The actress-writer initially released two New York Times bestselling memoirs, 1996's Enter Whining and 2002's Cancer Schmancer. While the former served as a "funny autobiography," The New York Times noted that the latter focused on more "intimate events of her life," including surviving rape, battling uterine cancer, and divorcing her husband.

Drescher picked up the pen once again for the children's book Being Wendy, which was published in 2011 and which highlighted her experiences with bullying as a child in Queens, N.Y. "I wanted to be a writer, a hairdresser, an actress, a mediator, a journalist," she told Fox News. "I wanted to do everything and what tends to happen very often in provincial places is that becomes threatening to people and they put you down a little bit." With The Nanny's syndication bringing the series to a new and younger audience, the multi-talent added, "I wanted to leverage that leadership that I have with that generation by offering them a children's book that I felt would have an empowering message."

After calling it quits with ex-husband Peter Marc Jacobson, Fran Drescher began working on herself while navigating her newfound single life. "I learned not to be afraid to be alone ... I went through expensive psychotherapy," she told ABC News in 2011. She also noted, "The truth is the man who is smart, sexy, successful and straight is very rare to find." 

The actress would later find love once again with scientist-entrepreneur Dr. Shiva Ayyadurai, whom she married in 2014, just over a year after they first met, as reported by People. But Drescher and Ayyadurai's marriage wouldn't last long. In September 2016, Drescher announced their breakup on social media, and she has since entered the world of online dating. "Since the demise of my second marriage [I had to] truly learn to love myself," Drescher told Closer Weekly in 2018. She shared, "I started to find who I was and become more empowered." In the meantime, this multi-talent is still on the lookout for love, saying, "I am putting my trust in the universe that when I'm supposed to meet somebody, I will." She added, "I have six S's: sexy, smart, successful, single, straight, and sane!"

Drescher has devoted most of her time and energy to philanthropic work ever since The Nanny came to an end. According to Look to the Stars, she's used her celebrity platform to advocate on behalf of LGBTQ+ rights and women's healthcare. After her own battle with uterine cancer (via CNN), the actress has primarily focused on the latter issue through her organization Cancer Schmancer. "I feel like I got famous, I got cancer, and I lived to tell about it," Drescher told People in 2018. 

"So that's kind of become my life mission," she explained to the magazine. "All the work I do as an actor is to stay current so I can speak to the platforms I'm passionate about." While discussing her personal experience with the life-threatening disease, she said, "I'm not glad I had cancer. I don't wish it on anyone. But I am better for it," stating, "It's deepened me as a human being. It's forced me to have a life that resonates more with other people's needs, with compassion, and a sensitivity to other people's pain."

Fran Drescher's voice held her back in showbiz for years. "I didn't always get the part," the actress told Glamour in 2018. "I'm very unusual, and while that [eventually] helped in making me a star, [it didn't work] when people tried to put me in a traditional box." That all changed, of course, when she cleverly paired her unique vocals with a sassy attitude, flashy wardrobe, and a self-deprecating comedic shtick on The Nanny. 

Since the early '90s, Drescher's on-screen resume hasn't strayed too far away from her beloved alter ego. However, if she has found herself being typecast, it's no skin off her nose. "I think I've always sort of been the hooker with the heart of gold," the actress quipped to Stellar in 2018 (via the Daily Mail). While she's fully embraced her usual acting prospects, Drescher went on to note that her nasally NYC rasp has remained instantly recognizable in the general public after all these years, saying, "People say they can't believe this is my real voice and all I can say is, 'Who could make this up?'"

After spending some time out of the spotlight, Fran Drescher appears to be back at the top of her game. According to Glamour, the actress has reclaimed her standing as a '90s comedy and style icon by finding renewed popularity among millennials through social media accounts devoted to her wardrobe on The Nanny and appearances on shows like Broad City. As of this writing, she is set to star in NBC's multi-cam comedy pilot for Uninsured (via Variety). In addition to performing stand-up gigs and appearing as Justin Long's mom in the comedy Safe Spaces, Drescher told IndieWire that her other upcoming projects include "a daytime show for Bravo" and "a Broadway musical with Peter [Marc Jacobson]," which she's writing. "So it's a busy time, a fruitful time, and I'm very grateful," she shared.

During an interview with Variety in 2015, Drescher revealed, "For the first time in my life, I'm relaxed and comfortable accepting that I made it. I don't have to work so hard all the time." She added, "And I can still, whenever I'm ready, conjure something up, because I'm in that place in my career. I have very loyal fans."