Who cares?, the real accounts don't reply anyway.
That okcupid attractiveness graph was right, 80%+ of women are scrambling for 20% of guys.
Out of all the messages I have sent out, from all the years spent on pof I can't honestly say I believe otherwise, the vast, vast majority of women do not respond to me, out of the ones that do almost none of them have anything interesting to say and are boring as hell, to add to that I really have to persist to get any conversation out of the ones I can get a response from, and of the dates I have been on, which I can count using both hands, none of them went anywhere.
Its a clowncar, a crappy shitty place full to the brim with assholes and wenches where one side are taking pictures of penises and making a profile with them to spam messages and the other side turn up their nose at the majority of men like they are some kind of royalty, at least the bots will respond to you.
Man I can't wait for robotics and ai to be able to be sentient, I've seen more life in a banana sandwich than this stupid site, okcupid isn't much better, and bumble?, women make the first move?, I call bullshit on that EVER working for anyone who isn't a 9/10 in looks.
I've been on POF and OKC for eight years now. I'm coming to the conclusion that most of these users are just prostitutes whether they appear to be or not. In any event, if the women are after your money, they may as well be prostitutes. It's the same thing.
this is getting frustrating i've been liking her she likes me.. then i message her, and ever hear back.
OK, what I am about to talk about will happen on any dating site, to any user at any given time, I get that. But the frequency with which it happens now seems FAR beyond what might be considered statistically normal. In a nutshell....
A user will reach out to me and say hi with normally some substance behind the intro....Here is a real world example which is a great illustration of the whack...
Hello there. I found your conversation starters to be hilarious. I can appreciate your humor. I'm big on laughter.
Sep 5 4:14 PM
And then crickets....even though she is still showing as being online an hour later. I understand people have lives, often time walk away from their phone, etc. But why engage me to immediately ignore me? Again, if it wasn't due to the relentless consistency of this shit I could and would chalk it up to factors mundane. Another issue is with conversations going well and then, once I ask to meet for a drink, take her out to lunch, dinner, etc, she stops communicating, sometimes never to come back, even when I see her online and pop in with a cheerful "Hi! How you doing?"
now for the crazy shit, I really get the feeling that I am in some sort of site sandbox and that these profiles are employees (or hackers?) just keeping my ass busy chasing my tail. Does anybody have any information as to these dating sites in terms of how they operate, etc? Anybody have an ex or friend or family member who worked or works at any of these dating sites? Politically and ideologically the site and profiles seem slanted left for sure. I can't help but think that some women's group has hacked the site and are fucking with me. I am normally not the conspiracy type.
Come on pofers of reddit, gimme something!
I usually send a pick up line that i think is funny. I like fantasy stuff and "nerdy" things.
My go to recently has been
"Are we in a litter box cuz im digging you"
"Is your name winter because you will be coming"
Ill get some replies like "lol" oe "good one"
How do i follow up? Ive just asked what they're up to or hows their day or if they liked the ending to this or that show.
Most of the time theres nothing to go off of from their reponse or profile lol