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Notification for message but no new message?

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Posted by2 years ago
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Notification for message but no new message?

Received a notification that I had a new message but I couldn’t find it. Deleted all in my inbox and outbox. Still have the notification?

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2 points · 2 years ago

You received a message from a bot and did not log in enough fast enough to see it before the bot deleted the account.

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Original Poster1 point · 2 years ago

Then how do I get rid of the notification? Logging out and back in didn’t work.

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1 point · 2 years ago

Sometimes you have to sign out and then sign back in. The app does that a lot its frustrating

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