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How Normal Is It To Have Sex With Your Cousin? by largehead: 8:49pm On Dec 15, 2019

I am having sexual urges as per konji for my Cousin sisters. Is it normal? 4 Likes

Re: How Normal Is It To Have Sex With Your Cousin? by ghettochild4u(m): 8:50pm On Dec 15, 2019

That's nonsense upon rubbish 11 Likes

Re: How Normal Is It To Have Sex With Your Cousin? by Balaxx: 8:52pm On Dec 15, 2019

largehead: I am having sexual urges as per konji for my Cousin sisters. Is it normal? who we offend for dis country sef 55 Likes 1 Share

Re: How Normal Is It To Have Sex With Your Cousin? by CallMeDrino: 8:52pm On Dec 15, 2019

largehead: I am having sexual urges as per konji for my Cousin sisters. Is it normal? No carry this rubbish enter 2020, I take God beg una 49 Likes 1 Share

Re: How Normal Is It To Have Sex With Your Cousin? by Skyfornia(m): 8:53pm On Dec 15, 2019

largehead: I am having sexual urges as per konji for my Cousin sisters. Is it normal? You dey mad? Quit that thing you are smoking before e quit you. 5 Likes

Re: How Normal Is It To Have Sex With Your Cousin? by largehead: 8:54pm On Dec 15, 2019

ghettochild4u: That's nonsense upon rubbish Yea I think so too. But the sight of their firm breast coupled with their thick fat Brazilian butt torments my dick every now and then. 7 Likes

Re: How Normal Is It To Have Sex With Your Cousin? by largehead: 8:54pm On Dec 15, 2019

Skyfornia: You dey mad? Quit that thing you are smoking before e quit you. Yea I know.

Re: How Normal Is It To Have Sex With Your Cousin? by vickydankal(f): 8:54pm On Dec 15, 2019

As much as many here, will begin to bad mouth you. I want to tell you this is something you can overcome. Is just a feeling, sometimes our minds play tricks on us. If you are not careful, you will destroy your 20 years with just 10+ minutes of pleasure. It is just a desire. If you play it out, one day you will have a sexual feeling for your daughter. Think of God, the repercussions and if it worth it. 52 Likes 3 Shares

Re: How Normal Is It To Have Sex With Your Cousin? by largehead: 8:56pm On Dec 15, 2019

Balaxx: who we offend for dis country sef My sexual urges has nothing to do with the country. 2 Likes

Re: How Normal Is It To Have Sex With Your Cousin? by largehead: 8:57pm On Dec 15, 2019

vickydankal: As much as many here, will begin to bad mouth you. I want to tell you this is something you can overcome. Is just a feeling, sometimes our minds play tricks on us. If you are not careful, you will destroy your 20 years with just 10+ minutes of pleasure. It is just a desire. If you play it out, one day you will have a sexual feeling for your daughter. Think of God, the repercussions and if it worth it. Yea I don't get bothered by what I read here. NIGERIANS ARE HYPOCRITES. 19 Likes

Re: How Normal Is It To Have Sex With Your Cousin? by GuestLog: 9:01pm On Dec 15, 2019

Please don't. She's technically your blood sister. If you can feck your cousin then you can as well feck your sister. Few years from now, you will regret some decisions you made while growing up. Don't make this one of them. There's no dignity in fecking your relatives. It's bad. It's bad energy and a shameful feeling. 23 Likes

Re: How Normal Is It To Have Sex With Your Cousin? by Nobody: 9:03pm On Dec 15, 2019

largehead: I am having sexual urges as per konji for my Cousin sisters. Is it normal? It is not abnormal for you to feel sexually attracted to an extended family member such as a cousin, especially if you didn't mix or know each other as kids. It happens to a lot of people but they are too ashamed to talk about it, so for this, I respect your courage and boldness. Everything boils down to culture and morals. I will personally advise you to steer clear cos it could have psychological repercussions cos you both will never get married and in the future, there may still be emotional ties, where one person is jealous of the other person's husband or wife... Plenty fish in the sea bro... Avoid it. It's for smellos. 51 Likes 2 Shares

Re: How Normal Is It To Have Sex With Your Cousin? by kolafolabi(m): 9:20pm On Dec 15, 2019

Try not

Re: How Normal Is It To Have Sex With Your Cousin? by Cossybob(m): 9:26pm On Dec 15, 2019

largehead: I am having sexual urges as per konji for my Cousin sisters. Is it normal? I had this problem too, we were so madly in love with each other. We kissed and did countless things like we were dating, but we've never had seexx. Every time we remind ourselves it isn't right but the sh*t keeps happening. The only decision we took was to stay away from each other curb this act. 7 Likes

Re: How Normal Is It To Have Sex With Your Cousin? by imiski(m): 9:33pm On Dec 15, 2019

OP the question is: Are you normal? 4 Likes

Re: How Normal Is It To Have Sex With Your Cousin? by Nobody: 9:35pm On Dec 15, 2019

It's normal. 2 Likes

Re: How Normal Is It To Have Sex With Your Cousin? by Kennyswagzz: 9:36pm On Dec 15, 2019

largehead: I am having sexual urges as per konji for my Cousin sisters. Is it normal? smh 1 Like

Re: How Normal Is It To Have Sex With Your Cousin? by Kobicove(m): 9:42pm On Dec 15, 2019

How can you even get sexually aroused by a blood relative?

Re: How Normal Is It To Have Sex With Your Cousin? by TenthMan(m): 10:01pm On Dec 15, 2019

largehead: I am having sexual urges as per konji for my Cousin sisters. Is it normal? The feeling is absolutely normal and common. It all depends on how much you were desensitized towards such urges. Or how much of the desensitization worked on you.To a lot of African kids we were taught this urge as disgusting and a taboo. In fact we were taught that such a thing would require full cleansing of the land while punishments could go as far as ostracization. A lot of us grew up with this mindset and 'brainwashing'. This has helped us control such urges till we outgrew them. Most often the urges happen in teen years and young adult stage of life. They usually ebb as one ages. The relationship/feeling (if mutual) becomes platonic. The thing is incestuous relationships such as with one's cousin is frowned upon in many parts of Africa and the globe. Some parts however still allow/permit it. People also argue/view it from a religious angle like the teachings in Leviticus and Deuteronomy. However, cousins were not mentioned therein. Generally, besides religious and cultural rules, there is the risk of homozygosity. This makes recessive traits appear in offspring from such incestuous relationships. This leads to deformed or physically weak offspring/children etc. Hence we could argue that nature itself does not support such a relationship, especially if we see the aim of sexual relationship as only for procreation. This is not to say a lot of persons do not get sexually attracted to their relatives. Most persons outgrow such. They also will not want to own up that they have experienced this and will not want to discuss the subject openly. So, i can bet that most likely, your society (ethnic group, religious group, country) probably forbids such. You weren't seeking advice, but ill give it all the same. Thoughts and emotions are things you should be able to observe, smile and ignore them. Besides you'll only cause more emotional harm than good in the long run. What we do affect other people and we cannot ignore this fact. It will be wise to leave your cousin alone. Nothing anyone says will work here for you. You have to consciously see the risks in such behavior and decide upon whether it is worth it or not. Recall how human beings take decisions. Humans will naturally take a decision that has the LEAST COST, LEAST TIME, LEAST EFFORT & LEAST DANGER/RISK. The risk in your having a relationship with her is too high. My responses are objective (knowledge/fact based) and you must know I answer without any form of bias (cultural, religious, tribal, ethnic, class, gender, age, race, blood, acquaintance, etc.) 26 Likes 1 Share

Re: How Normal Is It To Have Sex With Your Cousin? by ZiriMane(m): 10:06pm On Dec 15, 2019

if you practice incest you are in the likes of homosexuals, bisexuals, Transgenders (like Bobrisky), and those who practice bestiality. I wouldn't condemn anyone but I would condemn anyone that let's his urge Lord over him/her 1 Like

Re: How Normal Is It To Have Sex With Your Cousin? by midnighter(f): 10:12pm On Dec 15, 2019

Yeah, its somewhat normal BUT at the same time very disgusting No try am ooo 1 Like

Re: How Normal Is It To Have Sex With Your Cousin? by Lordbucci2: 10:53pm On Dec 15, 2019

largehead: I am having sexual urges as per konji for my Cousin sisters. Is it normal? No!! U are nt normal..

Re: How Normal Is It To Have Sex With Your Cousin? by kingbasuraiii(m): 11:24pm On Dec 15, 2019

ITxBUSH: It's normal. Are you the same IndecentStar guy?

Re: How Normal Is It To Have Sex With Your Cousin? by Hypnotise: 11:38pm On Dec 15, 2019

It's abnormal

Re: How Normal Is It To Have Sex With Your Cousin? by Davoneskay(m): 11:41pm On Dec 15, 2019

The best way to iron things out is to discuss it with ur parents and her parents. Tell them ur mind and ask for their advice. 7 Likes 1 Share

Re: How Normal Is It To Have Sex With Your Cousin? by DaddyMorenike: 11:43pm On Dec 15, 2019

How normal? It's never normal!!!!

Re: How Normal Is It To Have Sex With Your Cousin? by largehead: 11:46pm On Dec 15, 2019

Davoneskay: The best way to iron things out is to discuss it with ur parents and her parents. Tell them ur mind and ask for their advice. You mean I should tell an African Parent this? 2 Likes

Re: How Normal Is It To Have Sex With Your Cousin? by naijacentric(m): 12:02am On Dec 16, 2019

largehead: You mean I should tell an African Parent this? no try am o 3 Likes

Re: How Normal Is It To Have Sex With Your Cousin? by Nobody: 12:11am On Dec 16, 2019

Davoneskay: The best way to iron things out is to discuss it with ur parents and her parents. Tell them ur mind and ask for their advice. Wicked They won't mind dragging him down to ARO. Neuropsychiatric hospital 4 Likes

Re: How Normal Is It To Have Sex With Your Cousin? by chigoziri2403(m): 12:38am On Dec 16, 2019

Its normal, konji no get conscience. Just see her as your blood sister 1 Like

Re: How Normal Is It To Have Sex With Your Cousin? by Charleys: 2:06am On Dec 16, 2019

I've read this and no one here is right, there's nothing wrong in dating or marrying your cousin. The rich do it, in fact you can Google the greatest men in this world and they all married their cousins. The rich do it to keep their wealth circulating in the family. I see nothing wrong there. https://www.forbes.com/sites/nealegodfrey/2016/07/17/for-love-and-money-keep-it-in-your-family-marry-your-cousin/ https://www.dailymail.co.uk/news/article-5927581/The-tragic-truth-cousin-marriages.html It used to happen a lot in Africa even after Nigeria got independence. From East Africa to Japan, cousin marriage happens a lot. Cousin marriage is not banned in Nigeria. 1 Like

Re: How Normal Is It To Have Sex With Your Cousin? by EmmyCC: 4:18am On Dec 16, 2019

Charleys: I've read this and no one here is right, there's nothing wrong in dating or marrying your cousin. The rich do it, in fact you can Google the greatest men in this world and they all married their cousins. The rich do it to keep their wealth circulating in the family. I see nothing wrong there. https://www.forbes.com/sites/nealegodfrey/2016/07/17/for-love-and-money-keep-it-in-your-family-marry-your-cousin/ https://www.dailymail.co.uk/news/article-5927581/The-tragic-truth-cousin-marriages.html It used to happen a lot in Africa even after Nigeria got independence. From East Africa to Japan, cousin marriage happens a lot. Cousin marriage is not banned in Nigeria. . It is actually even though not included in list of Consanguinity in MCA but it's hard to see a tradition that permits it.