I keep going back on OKC to browse profiles when I'm bored, but I finally thought: why am I doing this? What is my goal here?
Best-case scenario right now is that I meet someone who wants to do a video chat. That's fine, but then what? We can't meet anywhere indoors because pandemic, and we can't meet outdoors because winter.
So that stops things before it gets to the next stage: deliberately breaking quarantine with someone. Oh, it sounds so romantic when you put it like that! And I don't even mean sex, I mean getting close enough to someone to expose yourself to their germs. Sitting near each other, hugging, holding hands, a peck on the cheek...germs! disease! unclean!
So I don't know. I guess maybe I'll stop using dating apps for another year or whatever? I'm sure most of the women I'm interested in on OKC are of a similar mindset, and it seems like there's very little motivation for anyone to try. I'm sure plenty have already stopped.