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SAN DIEGO (AP) - Dave Smith, a former All-Star closer who holds the Houston Astros record for games pitched, died Wednesday. He was 53.

Former big leaguer Tim Flannery said Smith apparently died of a heart attack, but the official cause of death wasn't known.

"He's gone. My tears are the rain," Flannery, the San Francisco Giants third base coach, told The Associated Press.

A woman who answered the phone at the San Diego County Medical Examiner's Office said the body of a man named David Smith, with a date of birth matching that of the big league pitcher, was brought into her office earlier in the evening. The woman said she could not give her name.

Smith was an All-Star with Houston in 1986 and 1990, and had 216 saves in a 13-year career. He played with Houston from 1980-90 before finishing his career with two seasons with the Chicago Cubs.

His 563 outings with the Astros is tops on the club's list, and his 199 saves ranks second.

Flannery said he spent time Wednesday afternoon with members of the Smith family in northern San Diego County. Flannery and Smith worked together on the San Diego Padres' coaching staff from 1999 until Smith resigned in June 2001 to spend more time with his family. Smith missed the first month of the 2001 season to complete an alcohol rehabilitation program.

"He was the most giving, unconditionally compassionate man anyone ever came across," Flannery said. "Everybody's got Dave Smith stories. Usually it's him reaching into his pocket and pulling out $100 to give to someone selling newspapers for a quarter.

"Going back to his playing days, he was one of the great closers and a fierce competitor," Flannery said. "He also had a zest for life; reckless abandon at times. He's gone at 53. He earned every moment of his life. He packed a lot into it."

Former teammate Joe Sambito said Smith's personality stood out.

"He was a good guy. He was a really good guy," said Sambito, who played with Smith in the early 1980s.

"You just remain close to them," Sambito said about fellow relievers.

"It is with great sadness that the San Diego community learned that it has not only lost a great baseball man, but a great friend to so many of us here," Padres general manager Kevin Towers said in a statement. "He was an integral part of the Padres for many years, as a minor league instructor and coach and later as our major league pitching coach."

Flannery said services were pending, but added that he and other surfers plan to paddle out onto the Pacific Ocean to spread Smith's ashes across the water.

"That was what he asked. That is what surfers do," Flannery said.




Copyright © 2008 The Associated Press

Published by Houston Chronicle on Dec. 18, 2008.

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I was just watching the October 15, 1986 game. I occasionally look to see how players' lives have turned out. He was such a star on the Astro team that year. I thought that Mike Scott, another star on that team had passed on. I am sorry to find out that it was he who had passed on.

Bob Cohan

April 6, 2014

i will miss him he helped me in my path of baseball and let me play on the fild at padre games he was more then fust a firend he was like a dad to me at the games and he helped me when my little brother died so he will be missed a lot by me and my family

billy wright

June 2, 2011

I just learned of Dave's passing this past weekend and am very heavy hearted. I first met Dave the summer he made it to the "show". With his beautiful blonde hair I felt sure he belonged at the beach not the visiting bullpen at Dodger Stadium. I would see Dave whenever the team came to CA I was fortunate to see his only start when I visited Houston. Over time I learned he was in fact a beachbum,a great "fireman", and always a gentleman. Rest in peace my favorite "45" relieve Phil Niekro once in while at Heaven's ballpark.

Cindy

September 22, 2010

God Bless you Dave Smith, you were an all time fave of mine.

Ray Farahani

August 12, 2009

Dave I just found out of your passing. My Dad coached your Little League team in Poway back in the '60s. You and my brother Red played on the same team together. We remember visiting your family when they lived in Green Valley those many years ago. You were a kind, generous kid then and even though we lost touch when our family moved overseas, we never forgot you and were very proud of you when you played with the Astros. Thank you for touching our lives those many years ago.

Lisa La Salle

January 1, 2009

To my dearest family, some things I'd like to say...
but first of all, to let you know, that I arrived okay.
I'm writing this from heaven. Here I dwell with God above.
Here, there's no more tears of sadness; here is just eternal love.

Please do not be unhappy just because I'm out of sight.
Remember that I'm with you every morning, noon and night.
That day I had to leave you when my life on earth was through,
God picked me up and hugged me and He said, "I welcome you."

It's good to have you back again; you were missed while you were gone.
As for your dearest family, they'll be here later on.
I need you here badly; you're part of my plan.
There's so much that we have to do, to help our mortal man.

God gave me a list of things, that he wished for me to do.
And foremost on the list, was to watch and care for you.
And when you lie in bed at night, the day's chores put to flight.
God and I are closest to you....in the middle of the night.

When you think of my life on earth, and all those loving years
because you are only human, they are bound to bring you tears.
But do not be afraid to cry; it does relieve the pain.
Remember there would be no flowers, unless there was some rain.

I wish that I could tell you all that God has planned.
But if I were to tell you, you wouldn't understand.
But one thing is for certain, though my life on earth is o'er.
I'm closer to you now, than I ever was before.

There are many rocky roads ahead of you and many hills to climb;
but together we can do it by taking one day at a time.
It was always my philosophy and I'd like it for you too...
that as you give unto the world, the world will give to you.

If you can help somebody who's in sorrow and pain,
then you can say to God at night......"My day was not in vain."
And now I am contented....that my life has been worthwhile,
knowing as I passed along the way, I made somebody smile.

So if you meet somebody who is sad and feeling low,
just lend a hand to pick him up, as on your way you go.
When you're walking down the street, and you've got me on your mind;
I'm walking in your footsteps only half a step behind.

And when it's time for you to go.... from that body to be free,
remember you're not going.....you're coming here to me.

Ruth Ann Mahaffey (author)
©Copyright 1998-2008

sent by JS [email protected]

J Smith

December 29, 2008

I watched many games where Dave pitched. Spent lots of time talking with him outside the Astrodome. Hope to express my sadness in his passing as we are only 6 months apart. He was a good person.

Debra Gulsby

December 25, 2008

Dave Smith was a hero in so many ways. He is survived by his wife Alexandra and their baby daughter Dakota. His two sons Kellen and Cameron, from a previous marriage, had the honor of knowing that their dad was a man of whom they can be justly proud. He lived life to the fullest, was a deserving role model to many, and will be sorely missed by family, friends, and all those who had the privilege of knowing such a fine human being.

Denise Levy

December 24, 2008

the Smith family, thoughts and prayers are with you...a Astros Fan in Pa.

c southern

December 23, 2008

My condolences to Mia and the Family during this difficult time. Dave wasn't just a talented ballplayer, he was a great person who loved his family and we were all blessed to have him in our lives. It was great watching him chase little Kellum around the Dome, cherish the memories! Thoughts and prayers are with you. His passion for the game and life will live in our hearts forever. Hugs Mia!

Ernestina Gomez-Ewell

December 20, 2008

May the comforting thought from the Bible book of Revelation, the 21st chapter, verse 4 be of comfort to you. It reads: "And he will wipe out every tear from their eyes, and death will be no more, neither will mourning nor outcry nor pain be anymore. The former things have passed away.” I offer my sincere condolences to you all.

December 20, 2008

Dave, you always made attending an Astros game fun and exciting. I'm sure your former teammates are mourning your passing. Sending condolences to your wife, sons and daughter.

Vicky D

December 19, 2008

Dave is pitching again, where the sun is always shining, and there are no rainouts.

Harry Simpson

December 19, 2008

LINDA TRACY

December 19, 2008

Dave Smith family,
God Bless. He was great and will be missed. I remember watching many playoff games and he was truly gifted.

Baseball fan

December 19, 2008

REST IN PEACE DAVE SMITH

D. ZIMMERMAN

December 19, 2008

Dave, thanks for showing me how to throw a curve ball back in '82 at the San Diego School of Baseball.

David De La Fuente

December 18, 2008

Dave, even though we played ball together years ago, I always felt you were a friend. You made everyone happier around you. I will always be your fan!

Dave Steck

December 18, 2008

Celebrating a life well lived. We will cherish the memories forever.

December 18, 2008

Richard H. Herrick

December 18, 2008

You will be missed

Hal Sparkman

December 18, 2008

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