Inside Emma Stone and Husband Dave McCary's Love Story & Marriage

Who is Emma Stone's Husband? All About Her Marriage to Dave McCary

We'll never forget when she wore her secret wedding dress to the 2022 Met Gala.
Emma Stone and Dave McCary
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Sarah Hanlon
sarah hanlon entertainment and celebrity editor the knot
Sarah Hanlon
Entertainment & Celebrity Editor
  • Sarah is the Entertainment & Celebrity Editor for The Knot, with special focuses on pop culture and celebrity wedding news.
  • Before joining The Knot Worldwide, Sarah was a contributing writer for Bravo at NBC Universal.
  • Sarah has a degree in journalism and resides in New York City.
Updated Mar 11, 2024
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Every once in a while, we hear a celebrity meet-cute that simply sounds too good to be true. Such is the case for Emma Stone and her husband, Dave McCary. The Oscar-winning actress, who's dominating the 2024 award season thanks to her role in the sci-fi comedy Poor Things, married the Saturday Night Live director after they met when Stone hosted the live comedy show in 2016. Legend has it that the couple hit it off when she starred in a sketch he wrote, and, well, you know how the story goes.

Three years after they met, Emma Stone and Dave McCary announced their engagement in 2019. Following the postponement to their original wedding plans due to the COVID-19 pandemic, sources confirmed that this famous couple got married in September 2020. Their first child, a baby girl, was born in March 2021. Here, we break down everything to know about Emma Stone, her husband Dave McCary, and their private love story.

  • Emma Stone and her husband Dave McCary met on the set of Saturday Night Live in 2016. They began dating the following year.
  • Emma Stone and Dave McCary announced their engagement in December 2019. A source confirmed they were married in September 2020.
  • Emma Stone and her husband Dave McCary welcomed their first child, daughter Louise Jean McCary, in March 2021.

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Who is Emma Stone's Husband? All About Dave McCary

Emma Stone and Dave McCary
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Emma Stone's husband is a force in the entertainment industry. Dave McCary was born in San Diego, California in 1985. While attending the University of Southern California, McCary lived with his childhood friend and aspiring comic Kyle Mooney, who would go on to appear on Saturday Night Live from 2013-2022. Through his friendship with Mooney, McCary met Beck Bennett, who would also star on SNL, and Nick Rutherford, a future SNL writer.

In 2007, McCary teamed up with Mooney, Bennett and Rutherford to form the sketch comedy group Good Neighbor. They filmed a pilot episode for a show on Comedy Central; At the same time, McCary directed the first two episodes for the popular web series Epic Rap Battles of History.

The comics were discovered by the casting team at SNL, who ultimately worked with Comedy Central to free the group from their contract. In 2013, Dave McCary joined SNL as a segment director, while Mooney and Bennett joined as cast members and Rutherford accepted a role as a writer. In 2017, McCary's debut film Brigsby Bear was released by Sony Pictures Classics. After five years with SNL, McCary left the show in 2018 to pursue directing.

How Emma Stone and Dave McCary Met

Emma Stone and her future husband first met in December 2016 when the actress hosted Saturday Night Live. She appeared in the pre-recorded sketch "Wells for Boys," which McCary wrote.

Emma Stone and Dave McCary's Relationship Timeline

Emma Stone and Dave McCary
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December 2016: Emma Stone and Dave McCary Meet at Saturday Night Live

In the words of her longtime bestie Taylor Swift, sparks flew on the set of Saturday Night Live. Emma Stone and Dave McCary met when she served as the celebrity host for the sketch comedy show in December 2016.

June 2017: Emma Stone and Dave McCary Make Their First Public Appearance Together

After keeping their budding romance under the radar, Emma Stone and Dave McCary's first public appearance together came just six months later at the premiere of McCary's movie Brigsby Bear.

January 2019: Emma Stone and Dave McCary Take in a Basketball Game

Emma Stone and Dave McCary at a basketball game
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For two years, Emma Stone and Dave McCary opted to remain out of the spotlight. Their next public appearance came in January 2019, when they enjoyed a Los Angeles Clippers basketball game courtside.

January 2019: Emma Stone and Dave McCary Attend the SAG Awards Together

Later that month, Emma Stone and Dave McCary took their romance a step further by attending the SAG Awards together. Although Stone walked the red carpet by herself, the two were photographed sitting next to each other inside the ceremony.

April 2019: Emma Stone and Dave McCary Spark Engagement Rumors

In April 2019, fans believed Emma Stone and Dave McCary were engaged after she was photographed wearing a ring on her left hand while out running errands.

December 2019: Emma Stone and Dave McCary Confirm Their Engagement

Finally, by the end of 2019, Emma Stone and Dave McCary confirmed their engagement by sharing a selfie on his Instagram page. In the photo, McCary holds Stone's hand as she flashes her ring at the camera, showing off her non-traditional pearl gemstone.

A few days after the announcement, the fiancés looked as happy as ever when they attended an SNL afterparty in NYC.

March 2020: Emma Stone and Dave McCary Postpone Their Wedding

Just as the coronavirus hit stateside in March 2020, Page Six reported that Emma Stone and Dave McCary had postponed their wedding, much like other couples around the world.

May 2020: Emma Stone Wears a Wedding Band

Rumors of a secret wedding started circulating in May when Emma Stone appeared in a video with Reese Witherspoon wearing a gold ring (which seemingly replaced her engagement ring).

August 2020: Emma Stone and Dave McCary Launch a Production Company

Amid the heightening wedding buzz, Emma Stone and Dave McCary took a major professional leap. The couple launched their production company, Fruit Tree, with the help of the entertainment giant A24. "We are thrilled to partner with our friends at A24," the couple shared in a statement with Deadline. "Their commitment to thoughtful and original storytelling and embracing artists' visions feels rare and vital, and we are incredibly grateful that they support our passion to do the same."

September 2020: Sources Confirm Emma Stone and Husband Dave McCary Are Married

In mid-September, speculative marriage rumors continued to reach fever pitch after the couple was photographed wearing matching rings in Los Angeles. Finally, on September 26, 2020, an anonymous source confirmed to People that Emma Stone and Dave McCary were indeed married.

March 2021: Emma Stone and Husband Dave McCary Welcome Their First Child

In January 2021, it was revealed that Emma Stone and her husband were expecting their first child when the Daily Mail posted photos of the actress cradling her growing baby bump while out on a walk. A source confirmed the happy milestone to E! News, saying, "Emma is pregnant and just loves married life!"

Emma Stone and Dave McCary's daughter was born in March 2021. A source confirmed the news to People, saying, "Emma has been very excited about the baby. She has been private but said that she was feeling great. She always has a huge smile when she is with Dave." It was later revealed that Emma Stone's daughter's name is Louise Jean McCary, a tribune to the actress' grandmother Jean Louise.

May 2022: Emma Stone Wears Her Wedding Reception Dress at the Met Gala

Emma Stone in her wedding reception dress at the Met Gala
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What did Emma Stone's wedding dress look like? We finally got a taste of the actress' bridal style in May 2022 when she re-wore her wedding after-party dress to the Met Gala, as confirmed by the designer on Instagram. The playful frock by Louis Vuitton featured sheer straps that lead into a plunging V-neckline and a feathered hemline. On the red carpet, Stone wore her hair in a tight bun and accessorized with equally bridal-worthy white heels.

January 2024: Emma Stone Praises Husband Dave McCary at the Golden Globes

Stone's portrayal of Bella Baxter in Poor Things earned her the Golden Globe for Best Film Actress in a Comedy or Musical—and she gave her husband a sweet shoutout in her acceptance speech. "This is amazing, thank you. Dave, I have to start with you really quickly," she began. "I love you very much. Thank you for everything!"

March 2024: Emma Stone Thanks Dave McCary at the Oscars

Emma Stone and Dave McCary at the Oscars
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Emma Stone was the belle of the 2024 Oscars, taking home the award for Best Actress. She used her time on stage to thank her husband, saying, "I really just want to thank my family, my mom, my brother, Spencer, my dad, my husband, Dave. I love you so much. And most importantly, my daughter, who's gonna be three in three days and has turned our lives technicolor." She concluded with a sweet nod to a Taylor Swift lyric: "I love you bigger than the whole sky, my girl."

Emma Stone's Engagement Ring Details

Emma Stone and Dave McCary showing off her engagement ring
Photo: @DaveMcCary | Instagram

While the La La Land star doesn't have a social media account, Emma Stone and her husband announced their engagement via his Instagram page in December 2019. The post featured Emma Stone showing off her engagement ring: a pearl gem set in a sunken rose gold floral halo with pavé diamond accents.

Catbird engagement ring
Photo: Catbird

It was later determined that Emma Stone's engagement ring is the Pearl Snowflake Ring-Supreme by Yoshinobu Kataoka. The bauble, which costs just over $5,000, is available to purchase from Brooklyn-based jewelry brand Catbird.

Dave McCary and Emma Stone's Wedding Details

Emma Stone in her wedding reception dress
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Emma Stone and Dave McCary secretly wed amid COVID-19, according to People, whose source confirmed the nuptials in September 2020. Not much is still known about the couple's private wedding, except that it occurred less than a year from when McCary proposed with an atypical engagement ring.

During a December 2023 appearance on the SmartLess podcast, Stone revealed a brand new tidbit about her wedding—but it wasn't positive! She told hosts Jason Bateman, Sean Hayes and Will Arnett that she suffered an unfortunate injury right before the big day. "The week that I got married, I did open a refrigerator and the handle broke off and I got a black eye," she said, adding, "And that's where it stops." When Hayes suggested that she "needs a helmet," Stone agreed, saying, "I need a helmet and extensive therapy."

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