I've been lying to my husband and my lover

You risk losing both your husband and lover if they discover the truth.

You must ask yourself whether you returned for your daughter's sake, because you wanted to, or as a result of his pleading?

Do you not fancy him any more because of the affair or do you think that side of your marriage is just dead? If the latter, gritting your teeth and thinking of England will get increasingly harder.

If the problems that lead to the separation remain, are you both prepared to find ways of resolving them?

The way to test if the marriage has a future is to end the affair and give it a chance. You do have a small child. But if you are unwilling to do that, then deep down you know it hasn't.

Have some counselling to help you sort yourself out and come to a decision. The

number of your nearest Relate centre is in your local directory.

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