The Best 30th Anniversary Gift Ideas for Your Spouse, Parents or Friends

Reaching 30 years of marriage is a big deal that's certainly worth getting excited about. If you and your spouse (or a couple you know) are approaching this milestone, you're probably looking for a meaningful 30th anniversary gift to honor the occasion. Whether you're in search of traditional and modern gifts that follow this year's anniversary themes or something completely different, we're here to help you find a thoughtful present for your partner or favorite duo.

Here are our favorite 30th marriage anniversary gifts, from sweet and symbolic to useful and unique.

In this article:

• Traditional 30th Anniversary Gifts
• Modern 30th Anniversary Gifts
• Unique 30th Anniversary Gifts

Traditional 30th Anniversary Gifts

Traditional 30th anniversary gifts are made from pearls—shiny, iridescent gems that represent the love, purity and wisdom of a marriage that has lasted for three decades. Pearl anniversary gifts also symbolize beauty from within and the special bond of a couple in a successful, long-lasting relationship. While jewelry is always a popular choice, there are plenty of other ways to include the 30-year anniversary stone in your gift. From elegant accessories to pearlescent home decor, the world is your oyster when choosing a traditional anniversary gift for your wife, husband or married friends.

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Elegant Photo Frame

Photo: Neiman Marcus

After three decades of marriage, we bet the lovebirds have accumulated their fair share of photos. This pink mother-of-pearl picture frame will look great when filled with a nostalgic wedding picture or a snapshot from their 30th anniversary celebration. The subtle, rosy tones add a romantic touch for a classic 30-year anniversary gift they'll admire for years to come.

Symbolic Anniversary Sculpture

Photo: Uncommon Goods

True love grows over time, and what better way to celebrate that than with this pearlescent tree sculpture? The wire branches are decorated with "leaves" made from fragments of white recycled glass to represent the traditional 30th anniversary material, while the base features a metal heart for a sentimental touch. It's a thoughtful, thematic gift any couple will be proud to have in their home.

Stainless Steel Pearl Watch

Photo: Nacre Watches

A watch is a sweet way to let your other half know how much you cherish the time you've spent together. This stunning timepiece features a luxurious black Italian leather band, complemented by 48 beautiful handset nacre pearls that encircle the dial. Equal parts modern and minimalist, this 30-year anniversary gift will add a smart, sophisticated touch to any ensemble.

Personalized Anniversary Sundial

Photo: TheMetalFoundry

If you're shopping for a traditional 30th anniversary gift for parents, this personalized sundial is an excellent choice. Made from recycled brass, it features a "Happy Anniversary" message in polished gold text against a painted white background. Add their wedding and anniversary dates, along with an outdoor stand so they can display this symbolic piece of decor in their garden or patio.

Stylish Cuff Links

Photo: Neiman Marcus

Whether your partner loves dressing up for work or special occasions (like your anniversary), they'll love these stylish cuff links. They're crafted from stainless steel and feature a minimalist mother-of-pearl stripe design that'll elevate any shirt sleeve. To make this 30th anniversary gift even sweeter, take your spouse out for dinner so they have an excuse to wear them right away.

White Marble Candle

Photo: Saks Fifth Avenue

If you're looking for a traditional 30th wedding anniversary gift for your partner or friends, this elegant candle is right on theme. Made from soy wax and poured into a white marble vessel with pearlescent accents, it will add a refined touch to their living space. Once lit, it emits a calming lavender scent that's perfect for setting the tone for relaxation or romance.

Pretty Hoop Earrings

Photo: BaubleBar

The 30-year anniversary stone gets a fun and modern update in these stylish hoop earrings from BaubleBar. They're made from 18K gold-plated silver and decorated with dangling pearls for an elegant finish. Whether your spouse wears them daily or keeps them for special occasions, they'll think of you every time they put them on.

Stoneware Serving Bowl

Photo: Sur la Table

Searching for a traditional 30th anniversary gift that's pretty and practical? Consider this classic serving bowl from Sur la Table. It's made from durable, chip-resistant stoneware and features a raised dot border along the edge that looks like pearls. Perfect for serving sides and displaying fruit, this thoughtful (and useful) present will bring a sophisticated touch to their kitchen.

Trendy Wireless Earphones

Photo: Amazon

Treat your music-loving spouse to a tech upgrade with a pair of convenient wireless earphones. These earbuds have a stylish black marble design that nods to the traditional 30-year anniversary stone in a subtle (and clever) way. But they're not just pretty to look at—they offer crystal-clear sound with noise-canceling technology (which will come in handy during their next noisy commute to the office).

Set of Ring Dishes

Photo: HandmadeMoonriver

Keeping your wedding jewelry safe only gets more important as time goes on. This shiny set of trinket dishes will give your partner a designated spot to store their prized engagement ring and wedding band for years to come. Each one is made from mother-of-pearl for a 30-year anniversary gift that's thoughtful and thematic in equal measure. Our suggestion? Present these three pieces with some new jewelry for a super romantic gesture.

Modern 30th Anniversary Gifts

If traditional presents aren't your thing, look to the modern 30-year anniversary theme of diamonds for inspiration instead. Aside from being a symbol of love and faithfulness, this sparkly stone can withstand pressure and time—much like a 30-year marriage that has survived many ups and downs. While diamond jewelry may seem like the obvious choice, we've also included some out-of-the-box options that interpret the modern theme a little differently. Shop our dazzling diamond-inspired picks for the 30th wedding anniversary below.

Diamond Eternity Ring

Photo: Blue Nile

There's nothing like a bit of old-school romance to sweep your partner off their feet all over again. If you want to put a (new) ring on it, this diamond eternity band is bound to bring a twinkle to their eye. Sparkly micropavé diamonds create a simple yet striking piece that looks beautiful worn alone or stacked with an engagement ring and wedding band. It's a meaningful 30th wedding anniversary gift they'll be delighted to show off at every future occasion.

Personalized Star Map

Photo: Canvas Vows

Stretch the modern anniversary theme a little with this custom star map that looks like diamonds in the sky. The personalized work of art displays a starry scene surrounded by the lyrics of your first dance song (or wedding vows) for a super romantic gift that'll dazzle your partner. They'll be counting their lucky stars for having a spouse as thoughtful as you.

Diamond Forever Rose

Photo: The Forever Rose

How about another incredibly romantic anniversary gift for your 30th year of marriage? The Forever Rose is exactly what it sounds like—a real rose that lasts forever. The pretty bloom is preserved in a glossy lacquer with diamond-like sparkles that match the modern 30-year gifting theme. Have the stem engraved with your spouse's name, your anniversary date or a favorite quote to make this thoughtful keepsake even more special.

Diamond Whiskey Tumblers

Photo: DragonGlassware

There are other ways to honor the modern 30th anniversary material besides fine jewelry and accessories. If you're on the lookout for a gift for your married friends, this set of diamond-shaped glasses is a great choice. The quadrilateral design helps aerate each drink as it's poured, enhancing the flavor for a more pleasant drinking experience. Don't let the angles put you off, though—despite looking a little off-center, these eye-catching tumblers are actually spill-proof.

Timeless Diamond Necklace

Photo: Gorjana

If your spouse has an eye for refined jewelry, they'll love this sparkly trio necklace from Gorjana. Timeless and understated, it features three dainty diamonds hanging from an adjustable 14K gold chain. It's ideal for everyday wear and special occasions alike and is sure to become their new signature accessory.

Diamond Throw Blanket

Photo: Cozy Earth

Don't be afraid to get creative when shopping for 30th wedding anniversary presents for your spouse or favorite couple. Rather than dazzling them with diamonds, bring on the warm fuzzies with a cozy blanket. This super soft throw is made from bamboo viscose and features a diamond knit pattern for an inventive take on the modern theme. It comes in four neutral colors and looks great draped over a sofa or as an extra layer on the bed.

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Raw Diamond Earrings

Photo: Uncommon Goods

These Herkimer diamond earrings are such a cool take on the modern 30th anniversary theme. Shaped like raindrops, they're adorned with unpolished, raw diamonds and finished with 14K gold fill for a shimmering touch. They're handmade by an artist who says the unique design is inspired by the feeling of waking up after a beautiful dream. Cute, right?

Diamond-Studded Watch

Photo: Citizen

It's hard to beat a watch if you're looking for a meaningful 30th anniversary gift that celebrates all the good times you've shared with your spouse. There's a lot to love about this stainless steel timepiece, from the diamond-studded dial to the black ion-plated case and bracelet. It even features a light-powered interface that'll ensure your partner never needs to replace the battery.

Diamond Tea Light Holders

Photo: The Knot Shop

Bring romance to the table and dine by candlelight with these shimmering, diamond-shaped sticks. They're sold as a set of three and come in small, medium and large sizes for a tasteful, tiered look. Whether you use them to host dinner parties or a 30th anniversary meal for two, they'll add an ambient glow to your dining table.

Diamond-Shaped Suncatcher

Photo: Uncommon Goods

If the lovebirds have an eye for unique home decor, they'll appreciate this pretty diamond-shaped suncatcher. It's handmade from pieces of stained glass that create a cool three-dimensional effect that shimmers when the sun hits the surface. Fun and whimsical, it's a creative way to interpret the modern 30-year anniversary symbol without blowing your budget.

Unique 30th Anniversary Gifts

While pearls and diamonds make beautiful gifts, it's okay if you don't want to take the gemstone route. There are a couple of other 30th anniversary symbols you can turn to for ideas, like the milestone's flower and color. Lilies are the official anniversary flowers for the 30th wedding anniversary, while green is the associated hue. The beautiful lily flower represents humility and devotion—two key characteristics of a marriage that has flourished over several decades. The color green, on the other hand, symbolizes growth and renewal which are equally important for a healthy relationship.

We've also found some alternative gifts for your spouse or favorite couple that don't fit any particular theme at all. From personalized wall art to thoughtful subscription gifts and much more, check out these unique 30-year anniversary gifts for him, her or them.

Custom Engraved Hourglass

Photo: Personalization Mall

After 30 years in a loving marriage, your favorite couple deserves a thoughtful anniversary gift that pays tribute to their devotion to one another. This elegant hourglass is engraved with their names and wedding date, alongside a simple, sweet message that reads: "Our Love is Timeless." It's filled with white sand and is measured to the hour so they can use it to keep time and decorate their home.

Personalized Tree Ring Art

Photo: Uncommon Goods

Personalized anniversary gifts that feel as unique and special as the couple being celebrated are always a win. Whether you're shopping for your parents or happily wedded friends, this tree-inspired art makes a great gift. The heart-shaped design resembles a cross-section of a tree and commemorates some of the couple's most precious milestones, like their engagement, wedding day and 30th anniversary. Their initials are carved at the center for the perfect finishing touch.

Heart-Shaped Bamboo Plant

Photo: Plants.com

In search of a creative (and cute) 30th anniversary gift for your husband, wife or favorite pair? This heart-shaped bamboo plant ticks all the right boxes. The unique shape is a sweet tribute to your spouse (or the happy couple) and is sure to draw plenty of compliments from house guests who come over. Aside from looking pretty, this low-maintenance plant scores extra points for purifying the air and removing pollutants.

Custom Bottle of Wine

Photo: Mano's Wine

If the couple you're shopping for are wine lovers, treat them to some fancy vino on their 30th wedding anniversary. This personalized bottle can be etched with their names and anniversary details for a thoughtful keepsake they can treasure long after the wine is gone. Speaking of wine, it holds a full-bodied cabernet sauvignon that's perfect for toasting such a special occasion.

Engraved Cheese Board

Photo: Uncommon Goods

Here's a 30-year wedding anniversary gift that's anything but cheesy. Practical and stylish, this compact wooden serving board comes personalized with an engraved initial surrounded by a leafy border. When folded, it looks like a chunk of cheese and opens up to reveal four tiered compartments for displaying sliced cheese, charcuterie and fruit. The best bit? It also has a built-in utensil drawer with two knives and a cheese fork.

Leather Smart Wallet

Photo: Ekster

If your spouse needs a new wallet, they'll love this sleek design from Ekster. It's made from environmentally certified leather and has space for up to 12 credit cards, which they can access at the touch of a button. Plus, the clever design protects cards from skimming and wireless fraud, so your partner can rest easy knowing their cash is always safe. Choose from a variety of shades, including brown, black and green (the 30th anniversary color).

Monthly Self-Care Subscription

Photo: Uncommon Goods

Switch up your spouse's daily self-care routine with this monthly subscription from Uncommon Goods. Every month, they'll receive luxurious goodies, like lavender-scented pillow spray and eucalyptus-infused bath salts, to help them unwind from daily stresses. Choose from a three- or six-month subscription for a thoughtful 30th anniversary gift that'll keep the positive vibes flowing long after the big day. Just don't be surprised if your partner spends more time hanging out in the bathroom as a result!

Newspaper Anniversary Print

Photo: BusterGracieStudio

Feeling nostalgic on your 30th marriage anniversary? This personalized newspaper print will have you and your spouse reminiscing on your big day. It features top headlines from the year you got married, along with best-selling books, sports news and general trivia. You can even add your names and a photo from your wedding for a front page finish.

Fresh Lily Bouquet

Photo: BloomsyBox

Take your cue from the 30th anniversary flower with this beautiful bouquet of lilies. These fragrant blooms come in a classic white shade that'll remind the recipient of their wedding day all those years ago. The bunch includes 10 stems in bud form that'll gradually open over a few days.

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Monogrammed Coffee Mugs

Photo: Anthropologie

Sometimes, the simplest gifts are the most thoughtful. If your spouse likes to start every day with a fresh brew, a stylish new mug is an excellent 30-year anniversary gift for him or her. This cute cup features a chic mosaic pattern with their initial on top in black and gold. Snag one for yourself, too, so you can be part of your partner's daily ritual.

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