Using a throw away account for obvious reasons but I’ve been talking to this guy and we went out for drinks and I stupidly drink too much because I was nervous and completely soaked his bed. He was like whatever about it but I’m scared he’s going to stop talking to me. Guys how would you react if this happened to you?
One of my girl friends who is a Surrey private school girl said she would rather date an Durham uni rugby boy than David Beckham (because he is working class)… not sure if this is a legit mindset widespread or not
Im m25 and in the past, I used to be quite docile and only moderately attracted / turned on by certain types of women. This year, something in me changed and i’m constantly attracted to all types pretty girls and get turned on easily 😭.
What is going on? I also found myself to be more flirty recently with the ladies compared to last time. I can easily complement a girl and call her cute, which is something i would think twice about before doing in the past.
Tldr: Have always been attracted to ladies, but this year, the feeling is 100x more intense. What’s going on?
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I was casually chatting with this girl at work while I was serving her it wasn't a long engagement. Shortly after I was sitting during my lunch break she walks past my table plops a paper and I see her name and number my manager swoops around and he's like I totally did not see that chick give you her number.
I'm married do I say anything to her do I ignore her? What if she comes into my job again and gets all weird or awkward? I've never had a girl randomly give me their number. What should I do?
Edit: I was not expecting this to blow up over night! I have to open but after work I'll make time to go through these.
And if not why is that so? It doesn't feel right for me to think that, when I'm in love it's always more special and trumps the past lovers I had. Just trying to understand
I'm a woman in my late 20s, hitting the gym for about a year now, and lately, I've been pondering whether it's okay to make a move on one of the employees there.
Opinions are divided. Some say the gym's strictly for workouts, not flirtation. Yet, some male friends have said they'd find it flattering to be approached at the gym
Here's the backstory: This guy (ex-group class trainer) at the gym has been quite friendly towards me. He always greets me by name in front of the class (there are plenty of regulars, but he only greets me for some reason), remembers small details of our chats, made me post-workout coffee and shakes unasked (I've never seen him do that for others), and even went out of his way to fix a lighting issue right after I mentioned it. He's moved into a managerial role but still offered to help me with training whenever I need it. I've noticed he gets a bit shy and reserved around me, like that time I caught him quickly fixing his hair in his selfie camera after I walked by. And, yep, I've developed feelings for him over the past year.
I'm awkward around crushes, so I've unintentionally been avoiding talking and eye contact with him. This might be giving off the wrong signal because he's started interacting with me less frequently. I'm worried about the potential awkwardness if I ask him out and he's not interested, especially considering we'll bump into each other at the gym regularly.
I don't know what to do. Should I go for it and ask him out, or play it safe with gym-related chat?
I don’t want to fall into a spiral of alcohol or any other drugs. I’m lonely and in pain. How did you guys handle lonely nights? Thanks in advance.
Seems like from my experience less and less men want to get married because they can get everything they want in a relationship without the commitment, thoughts?
In my extended circle of acquaintances, coworkers etc there's four guys that are genuine women magnets. One of them is incredibly sweet and deserves everything good.
Of the other three, one is a straightup hardcore coke addict, one is a serial cheater / liar that pretends to want a relationship to get women into bed, and one is so into violence that he left multiple women just that I know personally, who knows how many total, battered and bruised after being way rougher with them than they consented to, and ignoring their objections.
And yet I know women who know this about them and still go for them anyway. Quite a lot of them, even. And I'm trying to not let it bother me but it does...
EDIT: Just to clarify, since a lot of people seem to assume this is about *women that I want to date* being into these guys: No, my main issue is that I hear from one of my friends or acquaintances who I respect and who I thought had good standards and character about how irresistibly hot / desirable these guys are like once a week, lol.
It just seems impossible to get into a relationship given how dating has changed over the years. I’m tall and do a lot of activities. I’m at a healthy weight. But it just seems that I can’t find that hidden gem anywhere. I’ve changed my ways multiple times, but nothing seems to progress. All I see is a bunch of rocks. That gem is hiding somewhere, I just don’t know where to look. What’s y’all’s secret?
I actually need help here. I'm (18M) statistically obese for my height and weight (320lbs) and I've been fat for as long as I can remember. I've made progress in the past, getting down to about 260 but never ever hit my goal of 220 (or lower of course). I'm a college student so it's very difficult to avoid the easy food, which is terrible for my health. I've struggled with making time for the gym because every visit is a disappointment, fighting the judgmental looks and not being able to move as much weight as I used to. I don't feel like a manly man in the physical sense.
So flashback to 6 weeks ago. Sex was great. Been going through a rough patch with my wife so we're living separately since February. She comes over to my place and we have amazing sex and she'll spend the weekend.
One day, she comes over but for some reason I just can't get an erection. Not sure if it was stress related or what, but my mind was far as hell. I couldn't have sex that week at all. Since then my brain has been in fucking panic mode everytime something sexual happens and I lose all drive to have sex.
That same week, I went to my pharmacist who gave me some pills to assist, which did. What I thought was some vitamins turned out to be cialis which destroyed my brain even further when I found out.
The pharmacist ended up saying he's going to "try something" and gave me 2 more pills and told me come back and let him know how it worked. I had sex numerous times that weekend without fail. When I went back to the pharmacy, he explained that he just gave me energy pills unrelated to sex and just wanted to see if my problem is mental thing; which it was. He said I'm fine and I need to stop thinking so much about it.
Off and on since then I've had sex, but also I've failed to get an erection when I think too much that I'm not going to get one.
I'm so fucking stressed out about this that I feel like ripping my hair out. I don't know if it's my sex drive getting low, or my brain working against me. Even worse, now I'm thinking that my pharmacist would just give me a placebo if go back.
Today is Thursday. Monday, I had spontaneous sex as I was a little tipsy, but last night, no erection due to thinking too much.
What the fuck is wrong with me?
I also stopped watching porn or masturbating which I'm not sure helped or not.
Any advice?
How do I (34y F) get one of your kinds (43y M) to seek medical/professional help for his severe sleep apnea?
Husband’s been diagnosed with sleep apnea several years ago and we even got the CPAP machine. He refuses to use it after trying it out for 2 minutes during his daytime nap because it was uncomfortable. He undermines the severity of his apnea and I feel like it’s been affecting his short term/long term memory, and his ability to focus throughout the day. I’m currently pregnant with our first and I’m starting to get hypersensitive to my surroundings including his thunder snores.
Seeking any advice/tactics/tools to keep your kind alive and well at least until this unborn child joins the family and gets married then grows a few strands of white hairs. TIA
My partner and I got married young and had our issues, however we worked through them and remained committed to one another. I have improved my physique and lost weight since we got together however there seems to be no enthusiastic desire or carnal craving for physical intimacy from their side. They have said that they're willing to have sex to maintain the relationship, but they don't crave it or look forward to it, they say this is due to their responsive desire. I feel like I need to feel desired but I do not. I am just curious if this is natural and expected after almost 2 decades together or if there are couples who continue to outwardly express their desire for their partner after a long time together, and if so, how you do it.
Been planning it for weeks now and narrowed it down to 3 ideas on how to do it, however having thought about it, we're going to a place in Wales tomorrow which will be one of many visits we've done over the course of our Childhood. There's a beach which is very sentimental to her across the road from where we're staying, and my plan is to just keep it simple and speak freely. The beach is quiet and we usually go there to watch the waves for a bit whilst the sun sets.
Anything else I should be thinking of here? Is it normal that every time I'm trying to think of what I want to say at the time I start tearing up? Anything I should be thinking about for what happens immediately after I ask? Thanks.
I know it's not like a wonder drug that'll make you jacked in a week or whatever. I just started it two days ago and I've never used it before. Right now I lift 3x a week for about an hour and a half before some light cardio. Does it work right away? Might be just a placebo effect, but I feel like I'm able to knock out an extra rep on every set now. I'm currently using 5g a day.
Mine are being too short with my wife and kids, generally being unhappy around them and too rushed.
What is the one thing or things you most regret about how you raised your own children?