Divorce becomes official today. I’m finally free of the Narc

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How amazing! I’m so very happy for you, congratulations!! 🎉

Congrats!! My divorce final as of a month ago, feels good to be done.

Broooo congrats

I remember when I finally left my narc relationship. Spread your wings.

Congratulations!!! So happy for you. ❤️

Congrats! I feel the same way since initiating my split. Even on bad days, it’s still better than still being with him! I used to wake up every morning full of anxiety and stress and now I wake up feeling free.

Congratulations! I'm so happy for you!

Good for you bud. In time the scars will heal and fade but till then focuse on your self do the things that you wanted to do but couldn't! Congrats

Congratulations!! The road ahead will have challenges, but it is so bright. Hope you can treat yourself today and often! Rooting for your recovery!!!

Congratulations! Wishing you much happiness ahead.

❤️❤️❤️💪💪💪