REDDIT: Man Finds Out That His Girlfriend Is An Active User of FDS (Female Dating Strategy)

GreenOwl · 2022-01-27T21:53:18-0500

My girlfriend is an active member of FDS.

I (22M) and my girlfriend (23F) have been dating for the past 8 months and she recently met my parents. I'm on an alternate account because I don't want her to see this. Anyway I added her on Reddit and looked through her profile and she is an active member of r/femaledatingstrategy. For this who don't know r/femaledatingstrategy is known for being toxic towards men. I already knew about the sub before I started dating my girlfriend.

About 7 months ago when we just started dating she posted about how I suggested we split the bill on one of our dates. I just saw this post today. The comments and the way she spoke about me were really hurtful to see and I cancelled meeting her tonight by making up an excuse. She agreed with someone saying 50/50 dates were a sign of lack of interest and a way of making sure I didn't lose money without having xes afterwards.

I don't know if I can be in a relationship with someone who views men this way and the comments she makes on that sub make me feel sick. I'd be embarrassed to break up with her because my parents met her two weeks ago and I told my mum about how serious about her I was. I'm confused on what I should do.

LGTTMB · 2022-01-27T21:54:50-0500

Go find a damn roommate if you wanna be 50/50

pettypowerpuff · 2022-01-27T21:58:17-0500

He’s lame and gross. I’m sure all the bitch small dick white males in the comments will support him.
She deserves better.

LACQUER · 2022-01-27T21:58:25-0500

He sounds like a weenie. If she's reading FDS she's probably going to dump his weenie ass eventually anyway.

And who adds someone they're dating on reddit (or any message board)? That's like giving someone a key to your diary.

Evie327 · 2022-01-27T21:59:34-0500

Woe is him.

Yesimanangel · 2022-01-27T22:00:21-0500

GreenOwl said:
She agreed with someone saying 50/50 dates were a sign of lack of interest and a way of making sure I didn't lose money without having xes afterwards.

So what is the reason men do it then???

DoulaMay · 2022-01-27T22:01:08-0500

He said the comments on her not wanting to split the bill make him feel sick lmao

Petite fraise · 2022-01-27T22:02:07-0500

Meleejaded · 2022-01-27T22:02:10-0500

People just refuse to communicate now days smh

Lucky Birdie · 2022-01-27T22:02:34-0500

The title of this thread ...

And what is this ...

???

Pink Blouse · 2022-01-27T22:03:04-0500

Po dat

xovesuvius · 2022-01-27T22:03:23-0500

pettypowerpuff said:
He’s lame and gross. I’m sure all the bitch small dick white males in the comments will support him.
She deserves better.

Was scrolling through the comments and found this:

"Paying half is normal in 2022, the sociopaths in FDS view it as a threat."

It's not normal for me lmao.

PrincessNeice · 2022-01-27T22:07:01-0500

He’s talking about he’s embarrassed to break up lol boy y’all are 22/23 no one is expecting this to be the end all be all.

I’m glad Kevin Samuels and nem wasn’t popular when I was 20. It’s hard out here trying to connect in this new era

Eta- at that age my boyfriend would take me to dinner and let me order and he would order a side salad lol. Those were the good ol young and broke days. I cannot believe a man would fix his lips to ask a date to pay though- at any age. Then he has the nerve to be indignant. Ugh

Balloo · 2022-01-27T22:14:59-0500

xovesuvius said:
Was scrolling through the comments and found this:

"Paying half is normal in 2022, the sociopaths in FDS view it as a threat."

It's not normal for me lmao.

"Sociopaths" for the most basic standards, when actual sociopaths are overwhelming male.... the way men project is hilarious

The girl was a little dumb for linking her reddit account to his... some things don't need to be said.

GreenOwl · 2022-01-27T22:16:45-0500

The people in the comment section are comparing FDS to Nazis and ISIS.

JamieHenson · 2022-01-27T22:22:18-0500

whoever asks the person out should pay 100% not dutch

Lisa willis · 2022-01-27T22:22:49-0500

She's silly as hell. Why not dump him and find someone whose willing to give you what you want. As for him, he's a cheap ass bitch.

musiclover55 · 2022-01-27T22:24:15-0500

Yeah the Reddit incels are big mad that women have the nerve to have standards and expect them to act like real men who don’t act entitled lol

SerenityNow · 2022-01-27T22:24:26-0500

I am so SICK of male fragility. Maybe just MAYBE if they acted civilized, and treated women with dignity, respect, and care sites like FDS wouldn’t exist. These bitches are held up by patriarchy but it’s not enough for them. The weaker xes indeed.

lanoire · 2022-01-27T22:33:51-0500

Woman finds boyfriend’s Reddit account: “My boyfriend is into furry trans porn and thinks there is a biological imperative for ephebophila.”

Man finds girlfriend’s Reddit account: “They told her not to split the bill.” :/

Voldemort · 2022-01-27T22:51:49-0500

GreenOwl said:
I don't know if I can be in a relationship with someone who views men this way and the comments she makes on that sub make me feel sick.

Rose.Garden · 2022-01-27T22:52:56-0500

“FDS is known for being toxic towards men…”

In a world filled with podcasts and forums where men trade tips to neg, emotionally/mentally manipulate, gaslight and cut corners to try to physically use women’s bodies. They even outright admit they hate women and have fantasies about killing us (hell, a man is killing a woman right now as I type somewhere in the world).

But, FDS iS tOxIC.

Hope she finds that post and breaks up with him.

SerenityNow · 2022-01-27T23:01:12-0500

Rose.Garden said:
“FDS is known for being toxic towards men…”

In a world filled with podcasts and forums where men trade tips to neg, emotionally/mentally manipulate, gaslight and cut corners to try to physically use women’s bodies. They even outright admit they hate women and have fantasies about killing us (hell, a man is killing a woman right now as I type somewhere in the world).

But, FDS iS tOxIC.

Hope she finds that post and breaks up with him.

It’s the gaslighting for me. These bitch ass ”men” think they’re the prize. They want to be able to treat us like shit and have us accept it. We aren‘t having it anymore. The energy you give out, is the energy that you receive . Beta bitches.

tyronebiggums · 2022-01-27T23:10:59-0500

DoulaMay said:
He said the comments on her not wanting to split the bill make him feel sick lmao

the men in that thread and the op are so soft

if men had to deal with cramps and childbirth, we never would've made it out of genesis

Blissabussin · 2022-01-27T23:17:58-0500

Reddit men stay finding places like FDS toxic because they're used to just being handed coochie with no second thought. This generation of men especially is used to the media portraying the fat loveable slob with a 10/10 wife who will go 50/50 with them just because. Are used to seeing their fathers and grandfathers have wives but can't provide like their fathers and grandfathers can. Any woman who respects herself in 2022 follows similar philosophies to FDS

amour propre · 2022-01-27T23:18:37-0500

RED FLAGS.

1. Serious enough to meet your parents but not serious enough to pay 100% of a date.
2. Not having the balls to post on his actual account as if his girlfriend won't find his "anonymous" post.
3. Being embarrassed to break up with her--wasting both of their time in the process.

What a manchild. Emphasis on the "child" part. He should sit out of dating because he clearly can't handle it.

ETA: I hope that FDS drags him to hell on the podcast.

Corgi · 2022-01-27T23:23:35-0500

He sounds low value. Hope she comes across his post and promptly dumps him.

Men got nothing to say about incels but women getting together to hold men accountable and raise their standards clearly a terrorist organization/sarcasm

Basil · 2022-01-27T23:29:37-0500

he a bitch
crazy that a man's worst nightmare in dating is whether or not the woman wants him to drop some money on basic shit like dinner

CominUpRoses · 2022-01-27T23:30:59-0500

He sounds like a loser. FDS is far from toxic. Toxic is the many outlets that men use to promote hatred against women. Men can't take it when women are put up on game and refuse to take their BS anymore.

She's going to find out about his post and I hope that FDS is the one to bring it to her attention. Whenever she's ready to drop him, she'll have full support.

fountainred · 2022-01-27T23:36:37-0500

If she had began reading radical feminism and separatism that would of been even better!

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