Upon signing up, dating apps will typically prompt users to fill out a questionnaire about themselves and what they’re looking for in a partner. These assessments help various apps’ algorithms match you with potential partners based on factors like age, gender and more. Additionally, dating apps use WiFi or data to determine a user’s geographical location in order to match them with others in their area.
Dating apps often prompt users to create a profile that consists of pictures and a brief description about themselves. Some dating apps offer additional questions about your interests and criteria for a partner, which allows certain algorithms to provide more finely-tuned matches.
How Do I Match With Someone on a Dating App?
Each dating app is slightly different in terms of how you get matched with another user. “Generally, a user must fill out a profile with information such as their interests and age range,” says Hartman. “The app then uses algorithms to give users options of people to either select or reject. When two people choose each other, they match and are able to start a conversation.”
“While each app has its own [unique] algorithm, some apps prioritize specific niche qualities such as older singles, single parents and religion,” adds Adelle Kelleher, certified dating and relationship coach and founder of Coaching Hearts Consulting.
How Should I Describe Myself on a Dating App?
When you describe yourself on a dating app, think about what makes you different and get specific. “Instead of a blank statement such as “I like to travel,” explain why or what it is that makes you enjoy traveling,” says Kelleher. “The more specific you are, the more you stand out from the endless swiping, as well as filter people who do not share your same interests.”
How Do You Start a Conversation on a Dating App?
To start a conversation, be genuine and enthusiastic. “Let’s work towards presenting ourselves as respectful, assertive and curious to learn more about the person we are reaching out to,” says Cynthia Shaw, licensed clinical psychologist and owner of Authentically Living Psychological Services.