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The Life and Death of Lily Savage

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itv1 Friday (29th) at 9 pm

Before he became a TV star in his own right, Paul O' Grady spent 20 as his alter ego, Lily Savage. Family and friends including Julian Clary, Sir Ian McKellen and Alan Carr plus his daughter, give us their fond memories of him. I will be watching, I was a fan of his, especially when he made For The Love of Dogs series.
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    asdasinsburysasdasinsburys Posts: 1,308
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    Lily Savage was a horrid creation, sadly based on real people he grew up with.

    Paul refined with age, but still had an acidic tongue at times.

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    Samantha_IsaacsSamantha_Isaacs Posts: 196,186
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    I preferred him when he was just Paul
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    Samantha_IsaacsSamantha_Isaacs Posts: 196,186
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    I only knew him as Paul
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    briggsy1briggsy1 Posts: 10,128
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    I was amazed at the ignorance that surrounded AIDS in the 1980s. Such as the police officers turning up wearing rubber gloves, because they thought it could be caught simply by touching someone with the condition. Then Lily Savage shouts out "have you come to do the washing up?"
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    EvieJEvieJ Posts: 6,042
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    briggsy1 wrote: »
    I was amazed at the ignorance that surrounded AIDS in the 1980s. Such as the police officers turning up wearing rubber gloves, because they thought it could be caught simply by touching someone with the condition. Then Lily Savage shouts out "have you come to do the washing up?"

    Its not that long that we were staying 2m apart, wearing masks and wiping household shopping down incase it had killer germs on it. The ignorance shouldn't be a surprise but yes, the Aids epidemic and the impact on the gay community was something else.
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    DorisKarloffDorisKarloff Posts: 3,263
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    edited 30/03/24 - 13:11 #9
    Lily Savage was a horrid creation, sadly based on real people he grew up with.

    Paul refined with age, but still had an acidic tongue at times.

    He was a clever creation from a talented person, I did get a bit tired of the vulgarity and harshness. Didn’t really get him on Blankerty Blank. Might have been better out of character.
    As his character relied on stuff that wasn’t suitable for TV before 9pm.
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    ewoodieewoodie Posts: 26,803
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    briggsy1 wrote: »
    I was amazed at the ignorance that surrounded AIDS in the 1980s. Such as the police officers turning up wearing rubber gloves, because they thought it could be caught simply by touching someone with the condition. Then Lily Savage shouts out "have you come to do the washing up?"


    That was part of his brilliance. He was a drag queen with a difference - his acerbic wit.


    I was lucky to see him twice at the Palladium in the pantos - Cinderella and Goldilocks and the Three Bears. I've also also read all his books.
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    TSparks-06TSparks-06 Posts: 7,365
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    He was hilarious as Lily so dry and acerbic and as somebody mentioned he could get away with more than Paul as himself!

    It was nice to hear his daughter share her childhood memories. He sounded like a fun Dad. But he was great all round really and he will be sadly missed. One of the good ones!
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    Tanya1982Tanya1982 Posts: 17,515
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    edited 30/03/24 - 14:02 #12
    I preferred him when he was just Paul

    I liked them both. You can’t beat Lily. I remember ‘An Audience With’ which was a total scream.
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    dollymix53dollymix53 Posts: 9,139
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    ewoodie wrote: »
    briggsy1 wrote: »
    I was amazed at the ignorance that surrounded AIDS in the 1980s. Such as the police officers turning up wearing rubber gloves, because they thought it could be caught simply by touching someone with the condition. Then Lily Savage shouts out "have you come to do the washing up?"


    That was part of his brilliance. He was a drag queen with a difference - his acerbic wit.


    I was lucky to see him twice at the Palladium in the pantos - Cinderella and Goldilocks and the Three Bears. I've also also read all his books.

    I saw him too in panto at the Palladium, He was brilliantly funny.
    I’ve liked everything he’s done, loved the series he did on The Salvation Army too.
    Will watch his program tonight.
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    Tanya1982Tanya1982 Posts: 17,515
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    edited 30/03/24 - 14:03 #14
    TSparks-06 wrote: »
    He was hilarious as Lily so dry and acerbic and as somebody mentioned he could get away with more than Paul as himself!

    It was nice to hear his daughter share her childhood memories. He sounded like a fun Dad. But he was great all round really and he will be sadly missed. One of the good ones!

    I think I’ll watch it just for that. I bet he was an absolute riot as a grandfather.
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    ewoodieewoodie Posts: 26,803
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    edited 30/03/24 - 15:32 #15
    dollymix53 wrote: »
    ewoodie wrote: »
    briggsy1 wrote: »
    I was amazed at the ignorance that surrounded AIDS in the 1980s. Such as the police officers turning up wearing rubber gloves, because they thought it could be caught simply by touching someone with the condition. Then Lily Savage shouts out "have you come to do the washing up?"


    That was part of his brilliance. He was a drag queen with a difference - his acerbic wit.


    I was lucky to see him twice at the Palladium in the pantos - Cinderella and Goldilocks and the Three Bears. I've also also read all his books.

    I saw him too in panto at the Palladium, He was brilliantly funny.
    I’ve liked everything he’s done, loved the series he did on The Salvation Army too.
    Will watch his program tonight.


    Was it Cinderella? That was the best part he had of the two.

    I'm about half way through the TV programme. You should read his books. The first one is hilarious, especially the part about the bushbaby!

    The thing with Paul O'Grady is he never sugar-coated anything. I remember reading that when he was playing the Wicked Queen in panto, someone kept blowing a whistle. So, he stopped the panto and said to the audience, 'If the person blowing that whistle doesn't stop. I'll come and stick it where the sun don't shine!'
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    EmolgaEmolga Posts: 47,337
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    Much of his material went over my head but always thought that Paul came across as genuine and lovely guy. He obviously worked hard for his success and was clearly very passionate about helping the less fortunate particularly when it came to animals.

    Never met him but its easy to see why he was so loved and admired and so sorely missed. :heart:
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    TSparks-06TSparks-06 Posts: 7,365
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    Tanya1982 wrote: »
    TSparks-06 wrote: »
    He was hilarious as Lily so dry and acerbic and as somebody mentioned he could get away with more than Paul as himself!

    It was nice to hear his daughter share her childhood memories. He sounded like a fun Dad. But he was great all round really and he will be sadly missed. One of the good ones!

    I think I’ll watch it just for that. I bet he was an absolute riot as a grandfather.

    I bet! He doted on his grandchildren. I remember him speaking about how he liked reading them stories and playing the different characters , when they were little. I can imagine that would have been fun to see!
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    A.PenroseA.Penrose Posts: 4,631
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    Loved Paul. And I loved him as Lily. The thing was he said as much as Lily did when he was just being himself. He was able to tone it down a bit so he still got what he wanted to say out. His rant about the government on his chat show was briliant.
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    dollymix53dollymix53 Posts: 9,139
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    ewoodie wrote: »
    dollymix53 wrote: »
    ewoodie wrote: »
    briggsy1 wrote: »
    I was amazed at the ignorance that surrounded AIDS in the 1980s. Such as the police officers turning up wearing rubber gloves, because they thought it could be caught simply by touching someone with the condition. Then Lily Savage shouts out "have you come to do the washing up?"


    That was part of his brilliance. He was a drag queen with a difference - his acerbic wit.


    I was lucky to see him twice at the Palladium in the pantos - Cinderella and Goldilocks and the Three Bears. I've also also read all his books.

    I saw him too in panto at the Palladium, He was brilliantly funny.
    I’ve liked everything he’s done, loved the series he did on The Salvation Army too.
    Will watch his program tonight.


    Was it Cinderella? That was the best part he had of the two.

    I'm about half way through the TV programme. You should read his books. The first one is hilarious, especially the part about the bushbaby!

    The thing with Paul O'Grady is he never sugar-coated anything. I remember reading that when he was playing the Wicked Queen in panto, someone kept blowing a whistle. So, he stopped the panto and said to the audience, 'If the person blowing that whistle doesn't stop. I'll come and stick it where the sun don't shine!'

    Yes it was, I’m sure he never kept to a script 😂
    I’ve also read a couple of his early books…… I could hear his voice when reading through the chapters.
    Sadly missed.
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    rob_bangorrob_bangor Posts: 618
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    I saw him do stand up as Lily in the Liverpool Empire and later in Annie.
    He's one celebrity that when I heard he'd died I was genuinely upset about. I was due to see him in Annie again last June, I kept saying it was the closest I'd get to see Lily again.
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    Samantha_IsaacsSamantha_Isaacs Posts: 196,186
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    rob_bangor wrote: »
    I saw him do stand up as Lily in the Liverpool Empire and later in Annie.
    He's one celebrity that when I heard he'd died I was genuinely upset about. I was due to see him in Annie again last June, I kept saying it was the closest I'd get to see Lily again.

    I was sad when he died because I knew there wasn't going to be anyone like him again. A real loss to showbiz
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    RoachfordRoachford Posts: 1,657
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    I found this a highly enjoyable programme. Weirdly I was only thinking the other day, 'I wonder whatever happened to Gayle Tuesday'!
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    BellaRosaBellaRosa Posts: 36,572
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    TSparks-06 wrote: »
    He was hilarious as Lily so dry and acerbic and as somebody mentioned he could get away with more than Paul as himself!

    It was nice to hear his daughter share her childhood memories. He sounded like a fun Dad. But he was great all round really and he will be sadly missed. One of the good ones!


    What an amazing life he had. I loved his rants, funny yet so true.

    Gone to soon.
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    Red WimpRed Wimp Posts: 4,996
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    dollymix53 wrote: »
    ewoodie wrote: »
    briggsy1 wrote: »
    I was amazed at the ignorance that surrounded AIDS in the 1980s. Such as the police officers turning up wearing rubber gloves, because they thought it could be caught simply by touching someone with the condition. Then Lily Savage shouts out "have you come to do the washing up?"


    That was part of his brilliance. He was a drag queen with a difference - his acerbic wit.


    I was lucky to see him twice at the Palladium in the pantos - Cinderella and Goldilocks and the Three Bears. I've also also read all his books.

    I saw him too in panto at the Palladium, He was brilliantly funny.
    I’ve liked everything he’s done, loved the series he did on The Salvation Army too.
    Will watch his program tonight.

    I saw in his will he left money to the Salvation Army (and a large legacy to Battersea as you might expect)
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    Ella NutElla Nut Posts: 9,040
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    Lily Savage was a horrid creation, sadly based on real people he grew up with.

    Paul refined with age, but still had an acidic tongue at times.

    He was a clever creation from a talented person, I did get a bit tired of the vulgarity and harshness. Didn’t really get him on Blankerty Blank. Might have been better out of character.
    As his character relied on stuff that wasn’t suitable for TV before 9pm.

    Now, see I'm the opposite - I thought Lily was a fabulous host on Blankety Blank. The Challenge repeats I've seen recently certainly stand up. There's a little reference here and there to Lily's 'lifestyle' and 'background' but it's not completely outrageous. Sometimes it was a very casual ad lib during a question which may or may not go over the heads of some people. "I never knew me father... I had loads of uncles though..... millions of uncles". No elaborating - Lily knows it's a family show but the inference is his mam was rather a LOT more than a right go-er but that was all that needed saying. Clever clever man.

    Lily is engaging with the contestants, keeps everyone in line (Kenny Everett would have been hauled off the set....) and is generally a hoot.
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    Sparkles2022Sparkles2022 Posts: 238
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    Really interesting programme. Really liked Paul and Lily. Will never understand how Paul hung around with Cilla though Very strange friendship.
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