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The Instant #1 New York Times Bestseller
From President Joe Biden, Promise Me Dad is his deeply moving memoir about the year that would forever change both a family and a country.
“Biden splices a heartbreaking story with an election story and a foreign affairs story. And in so doing, he offers something for everyone, no matter which strand draws you in.”—The New York Times Book Review
In November 2014, thirteen members of the Biden family gathered on Nantucket for Thanksgiving, a tradition they had been celebrating for the past forty years; it was the one constant in what had become a hectic, scrutinized, and overscheduled life. The Thanksgiving holiday was a much-needed respite, a time to connect, a time to reflect on what the year had brought, and what the future might hold. But this year felt different from all those that had come before. Joe and Jill Biden’s eldest son, Beau, had been diagnosed with a malignant brain tumor fifteen months earlier, and his survival was uncertain. “Promise me, Dad,” Beau had told his father. “Give me your word that no matter what happens, you’re going to be all right.” Joe Biden gave him his word.
Promise Me, Dad chronicles the year that followed, which would be the most momentous and challenging in Joe Biden’s extraordinary life and career. As vice president, Biden traveled more than a hundred thousand miles that year, across the world, dealing with crises in Ukraine, Central America, and Iraq. When a call came from New York, or Capitol Hill, or Kyiv, or Baghdad—“Joe, I need your help”—he responded. For twelve months, while Beau fought for and then lost his life, the vice president balanced the twin imperatives of living up to his responsibilities to his country and his responsibilities to his family. And never far away was the insistent and urgent question of whether he should seek the presidency in 2016.
The year brought real triumph and accomplishment, and wrenching pain. But even in the worst times, Biden was able to lean on the strength of his long, deep bonds with his family, on his faith, and on his deepening friendship with the man in the Oval Office, Barack Obama.
Writing with poignancy and immediacy, Joe Biden allows readers to feel the urgency of each moment, to experience the days when he felt unable to move forward as well as the days when he felt like he could not afford to stop.
This is a book written not just by the president, but by a father, grandfather, friend, and husband. Promise Me, Dad is a story of how family and friendships sustain us and how hope, purpose, and action can guide us through the pain of personal loss into the light of a new future.
- Seitenzahl der Print-Ausgabe260 Seiten
- SpracheEnglisch
- HerausgeberFlatiron Books
- Erscheinungstermin14. November 2017
- Abmessungen15.24 x 2.54 x 22.23 cm
- ISBN-101250171679
- ISBN-13978-1250171672
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"The book is a backstage drama, honest, raw and rich in detail. People who have lost someone will genuinely take comfort from what he has to say...These flashes of vulnerability are part of what makes Promise Me, Dad memorable; so, too, are the small, tender interactions between Biden and his dying son."
― The New York Times
"Biden splices a heartbreaking story with an election story and a foreign affairs story. And in so doing, he offers something for everyone, no matter which strand draws you in."
― The New York Times Book Review
"Biden exudes humanity throughout the book. He lays bare his emotions and vulnerabilities at losing a son with so much promise."
- NPR
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Promise Me, Dad
A Year of Hope, Hardship, and Purpose
By Joe BidenFlatiron Books
Copyright © 2017 CelticCapri Corp.All rights reserved.
ISBN: 978-1-250-17167-2
Contents
TITLE PAGE,COPYRIGHT NOTICE,
DEDICATION,
EPIGRAPH,
ONE: Biden Family Thanksgiving,
TWO: Have a Purpose,
THREE: Solace,
FOUR: Trust,
FIVE: Keeping Busy,
SIX: It Has to Be You,
SEVEN: Calculated Risks,
EIGHT: Home Base,
NINE: You Have to Tell Them the Truth,
TEN: Can You Stay?,
ELEVEN: Run, Joe, Run,
EPILOGUE,
ACKNOWLEDGMENTS,
ALSO BY JOE BIDEN,
ABOUT THE AUTHOR,
COPYRIGHT,
CHAPTER 1
Biden Family Thanksgiving
The days were getting shorter, so the light in the sky had started to fall away when the gate to our temporary home swung open and our motorcade edged beyond the fencing that surrounded the United States Naval Observatory in Washington, D.C. We were riding from our official residence at the observatory to Andrews Air Force Base, where my children and grandchildren were already gathering. Jill and I were anxious to be with them for our annual Thanksgiving trip. Family had been an essential escape in the five-and-a-half years I had been vice president; being with them was like flying in the eye of a storm — a reminder of the natural ease and rhythms of our previous life, and of the calm to come when my time in office was done. The job had been an incredible adventure, but there were so many things Jill and I missed from life before the vice presidency. We missed our home in Wilmington. We missed the chance to be alone in a car on a long drive where we could talk with abandon. We missed having command over our own schedule and our own movements. Vacations, holidays, and celebrations with family had become the respites that restored some sense of equilibrium. And the rest of our family seemed to need these breaks as much as Jill and I did.
We had all been together just a few months earlier for our annual summer trip to one of the national parks. But five days of hiking, whitewater rafting, and long, loud dinners in the Tetons had apparently not been enough for the grown-ups. Jill and I were in our cabin packing for departure the last day when there was a knock on the door. It was our son Hunter. He knew Jill and I were going alone to the beach for a four-day retreat. But he wondered if maybe, because he and his wife had some free time, they might tag along. We said, Of course! Within a few minutes our other son, Beau, knocked. His in-laws had agreed to watch the children. Maybe we wouldn't mind it if he and his wife joined us at the beach on Long Island. We said, Of course!
I suspect there are parents who might feel put upon when asked to give up their alone time. I regarded these requests as the fruits of a life well lived: our grown children actually wanted to be with us. So we had had another wonderful four days at the beach together in August, but by November there was also a perceptible urgency to this need for togetherness that was a bit disquieting. And I was very mindful of it when Jill and I set out for our yearly escape to Nantucket, for another Biden Family Thanksgiving.
We passed through the gates of the observatory, and I felt our government-required armored limousine make its customary gentle pivot onto Massachusetts Avenue, where local traffic had been halted to clear the path for our journey. I glanced at the squat, standing digital clock at the top of the driveway, as I had maybe a thousand times since we had moved into the official residence. Red numbers glowed, ticking away in metronomic perfection: 5:11:42, 5:11:43, 5:11:44, 5:11:45. This was the nation's Precise Time, which was generated less than a hundred yards away, by the U.S. Naval Observatory Master Clock. Precise Time — synchronized to the millisecond — had been deemed an operational imperative by the Department of Defense, which had troops and bases in locations around the globe. 5:11:50, 5:11:51, 5:11:52.
Our limousine was already accelerating out of the turn, with an abrupt force that pushed me back into the soft leather seats. The clock was behind us in a flash, out of sight, but still marking the time as it melted away — 5:11:58, 5:11:59, 5:12:00. The motorcade arced toward the southeast, down one side of the circle around the observatory, and we could see the lights of the official residence as they flashed through leafless trees. I was happy to say good-bye to the house for a few days. Our departure meant that many of the naval enlisted aides who looked after us were free to spend the entire holiday with their own families.
The procession gained speed once we hit the parkway and our motorcycle escorts nudged aside other travelers. The motorcade traced the southern edge of Washington, within sight of the monuments and public buildings: Arlington National Cemetery, the Lincoln Memorial, the Washington Monument — with the White House in the distance beyond it — the Jefferson Memorial, the United States Capitol. I had served in elective office in this city continuously since 1973, thirty-six years as a senator and six as vice president, but I had not grown indifferent to the beauty and import of these towering landmarks, which were now haloed in a glow of soft light. I still viewed those sturdy marble structures as representatives of our ideals, our hopes, and our dreams.
My working life in Washington had given me a sense of pride and accomplishment from the day I arrived, and that feeling had not dimmed after almost forty-two years. The truth was, on November 25, 2014, I was as excited and energized by my work as I had been at any time in my career, though my current office was, it must be admitted, a truly odd job. There is a strange and singular elasticity to the responsibilities of a vice president. As a strictly constitutional matter, the holder of the office has very little power. He or she is charged with breaking a tie vote in the Senate — which I had not been called to do in nearly six years — and waiting around to take over if the president is somehow disabled. A previous occupant was famously quoted as saying that the office is "not worth a bucket of warm spit." (That's the expurgated version. He did not say "spit.") The actual power of the office is reflective; it depends almost entirely on the trust and confidence of the president.
Barack Obama had handed me big things to run from the beginning of our first term, and once he assigned me to oversee the Recovery Act of 2009, or budget negotiations with Senator Mitch McConnell, or diplomatic relations with Iraq, he did not look over my shoulder. I believe I did my job well enough to earn and keep his trust. He sought my advice as much as ever at the end of 2014, and seemed to value it, which meant there were days when I felt that I had it in my power to help bend the course of history ever so slightly for the better.
And somewhere in the motorcade that evening, as we sped through the streets of Washington, was a car carrying the vice presidential military aide, who was in possession of the "nuclear football," which had to be within my reach at all times. I was one of only a handful of people who had control of the codes that could launch a nuclear strike on almost any target on the planet. So a reminder of the grave responsibilities of the office and the trust reposed in me was there, at all times, twenty-four hours a day, seven days a week.
But in spite of all that, in spite of...
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- Herausgeber : Flatiron Books (14. November 2017)
- Sprache : Englisch
- Gebundene Ausgabe : 260 Seiten
- ISBN-10 : 1250171679
- ISBN-13 : 978-1250171672
- Abmessungen : 15.24 x 2.54 x 22.23 cm
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I'm not American, I'm Austrian. But still, last year, after I had read "Promise me, Dad" I felt the need to write a thank you letter to Mr. Biden.
So here is not only my first book review on Amazon, but below also my first letter to an American politician.
Dear Mr. Biden
I guess you receive countless E-mails with thank you notes every day. But I suppose not that many are from Austria.
And even though I don’t expect you will be reading them in person, after I have read your book „Promise me, Dad“ I still feel the need to write you some words.
I don’t remember any other book that has had such a profound impact on me and provided me with comfort in difficult times. Still mourning the loss of my mother, you sharing your personal experience and thereby giving strength and hope to other people is a tremendous gift.
I’d only wish that your book would also be published in German (and other languages), so that even more people, including my father, could read it. Therefore, I would be very thankful if your publisher would consider translating it.
And of course, I want to thank you for your outstanding service in politics: Your service as Vice President, but also your long-time service as Senator, especially in the Senate ‘s Foreign Relations Committee and now your work in the Biden Cancer Initiative and the Biden Foundation.
As a proud member of the Austro-American-Society I have delved into American history, admired political heroes of the past, from Washington, Lincoln, Theodore and Franklin D. Roosevelt and Kennedy. I was exited when you and President Obama took office. And more than ever, I miss the days when you both lead the country.
Time and time again I have also been frustrated, that many in Europe and in my home country of Austria don’t really appreciate what Americans have sacrificed and accomplished for freedom and democracy worldwide, and especially what we here in Europe and in Austria have to be thankful for.
Of course, the current US administration makes it hard to look with admiration to Washington. But when I watched your eulogy for Senator McCain, also a hero of mine, I was once again reminded what it means to be American and what American ideals stand for. And I have been reassured that as long as there are Americans like you, the United States truly are the world's last best hope, the beacon of the world.
And so even though I live far away, in the mountainous region of Austria, I still hope that one day I’ll have the opportunity to contribute in some way to your cause, to the American cause. Like President Kennedy said: Ask not what America will do for you, but what together we can do for the freedom of man.
After I have read your book I have tremendous respect for your difficult decision not to run for the presidency. And you certainly have already done more to serve your country than anyone could ever ask for.
But just in case that there is still the slightest chance that you would consider running again, I wanted to let you know that not only many people in the United States would celebrate your candidacy, but even some guy far away in a small city of Villach somewhere in Austria.
Sincerely
Christoph
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Here are the twin themes of this book. The long fight to save his son juxtaposed with the pressing world and domestic issues which were Biden's hefty portfolio of responsibilities.
From the first page we come to know that for Joe Biden family are front an centre in his life. He had known early loss when his first wife and daughter were killed in a car crash in which his two younger sons were also injured. He idolises his children and his son Beau's illness and the effect on the whole family, as they rally around, is depicted with love.
The Biden's are from Irish stock and Biden describes the Irish as "the only people in the world who are actually nostalgic about the future".
That hunger for possibilities - the dreamer of 'what might be', as well as strong personal faith shapes the man in his dealings with people and with politics. He also suffers from the twin Irish complex of passion and tears: being a fighter for what he believes in as well as a deeply emotional and sensitive man. Indeed, I came to this book listening to Biden in interviews as a counterpoint to the hubris and self serving excess of Donald Trump.
So why three stars? There are contradictions in this book that bother me. Biden is not a wealthy man, nor someone who sought political office for personal gain. However there must be self-belief in putting yourself forward for political office and throughout the book in relation to his public service there is an element of boastfulness about getting things done or how his presence made a difference during the aftermath of tragic shootings. I'm not at all sure Biden is aware of it as he writes.
Biden also details his son's treatment in the long running battle against his cancer, which frankly left me feeling uncomfortable. There is no doubt that the treatment his son received across a number of hospitals, with eminent specialists using cutting edge and experimental drugs was directly connected to Biden's position as Vice President. I contrast this with someone on Medicaid in America or who can just afford the insurance premiums for limited care packages and wonder how Joe Biden, ordinary man would have fared? Thousands of people die of brain cancer in America. What was it about Beau Biden that made his story all the more special other than being a prominent politician's son receiving extra special care? There is no sense of Biden's extraordinary privilege in the pursuit of his son's care. But I suppose if we were in the same position with a son's life at stake would we not all have done the best we could? Again, despite Biden's emotional intelligence in other areas he just does not seem to be aware of the privileges of his situation.
Finally, the construct of the book is disjointed, moving between the passages about his son's care or the personal insights of serving Obama, to large international issues in the Ukraine and Central America. These latter sections, even to readers with some background in events, were a dry read. They are also the passages where Biden's own sense of importance most comes through. I found I was skipping through pages as they added nothing to the core narrative.
So, overall this book was something of a curate's egg - good in places. There is no doubt that Biden is a principled decent caring man both as politician and as the father figure in the Biden extended family. The fight for a cure and the ultimate death of his son is every parent's horror, yet I was left wondering why Biden wrote this book. Was it an outlet for grief? I don't know. What I do know is that ultimately this book all about Joe Biden, right down to the title 'Promise me Dad' and I'm left confused by the juxtaposition of a principled public servant and loving family man and the apparent lack of emotional intelligence when it come to talking about his own achievements.
Mr. Biden’s book is almost a treatise on grief or how to deal with the death of a child or the loss of anyone: the putting on a good, composed face to meet the world while weeping in private; the keeping up with a daily routine, going to work, putting one foot in front of the other; the dependence on and drawing strength from family members and friends. And he says that he knows from “previous experience that grief is a process that respects no schedule and no timetable.” (The divine Miss Emily Dickinson would say that “sorrow has its own season.” Then Mr. Biden confirms what those of us who have waded through our own pools of grief know all too well: “I knew also, from hard-earned experience, that the second year is in some ways the hardest. The shock is over, as is the strangeness of living through all the first holidays and anniversaries and birthdays, and the undeniable permanence of the loss begins to settle in.” And the ultimate, sad truth as this good man writes so poignantly: “But I have come to understand that nobody can really take away all the pain, no matter how close. There are times when each of us must bear the burden of loss alone, and in his or her own way.”
I was much moved with the Vice President’s comments about his relationship—friendship is a better word—with President Obama. They continued to have their weekly lunches during the time of his son’s illness. “Barack was the first person outside my family to know of Beau’s illness,” Mr. Biden writes. And he tells of the President’s offer of money if the family needed it. “’I’ll give you the money. You can pay me back whenever.’” In one luncheon with the President when Mr. Biden relates to him the difficulties that his son has been having, he recalls that he was hurting and the President obviously could see it: “I looked up and Barack was in tears.”
Mr. Biden comes through on every page as the most decent of people. One such instance: he recounts giving a eulogy for one of the two ambushed police officers African American Rafael Ramos in New York in December, 2014. After the service he and his wife Jill visit the home of the parents of the slain Chinese American officer Wenjian Liu. Before he leaves, Mr. Biden gives his personal private phone number to the police officer’s father and encourages him to call him when he wants to talk.
Mr. Biden also writes of what he continues doing in his job as vice president, the international trips he takes and his toying with running for president. But in the end, this compelling, beautiful book is a tribute to his loving wonderful son. As he remembers as Beau is slipping away: “I knew that I was loved.”
Such a fine book.
In the midst of this polarized atmosphere, I read Biden’s book. This is his personal account of the last days of this son Beau Biden while Joe Biden was Vice-president of the United States. The book is well written and it is consistent with the Joe Biden one knows from speeches and interviews. “You get what you see”. Biden tells his story, the story of a family man who lost his first wife and his daughter in a car accident and who found grace, hope and purpose in his faith. This newfound purpose in life was later tested with the passing of this older son Beau after fighting an aggressive glioblastoma.
The book is about family and it is about politics. But these two are not treated as different subjects. “Politics is personal” is a recurrent quote of Biden. This is a story of how politics run in a family in such…. just now, CNN announced Biden as the next president of the United States!
Ok, back to my review after more than a few hours of uninterrupted consumption of news.
The book intertwines the experience of Joe Biden as a father during the diagnostic, treatment and death of his son Beau Biden while carrying forward with the duties of the office of Vice-president of the United States. It is not an autobiography that traces the arch from his early beginnings until his election as President as an inevitable tour de force. On the contrary, it is a pause to reflect on this particular period of time that tested the faith and character of the Biden family.
I learned from this book the utmost importance of professional politics and how this enterprise is a lifetime project that involves an entire family. I learned how values do shape politics and ultimately, rather than changing a person’s character, a political platform highlights personal attributes for better or worse. More importantly, I learned about the role of hope and purpose to overcome the darkest shadows in our paths.
Honestly, I wasn't expecting much... but this book is really good. It touches on Joe Biden's political philosophy and policy goals, but that isn't its focus. Its focus is on Joe's son Beau Biden and his battle with cancer. It's deeply emotional and I can't imagine many people coming out of this book with anything less than immense respect for Joe Biden as a human being. You get to experience the Joe Biden that we've heard so much about--not the sleepy old man who doesn't know what's happening, but the genuine friend who loves his family and cares about his country.
That half of the book is the more engaging half, but its counterbalanced by Biden's interaction with the heads of state of other countries, namely Ukraine and Iraq. In the midst of his taxing personal struggles, it reminds you that he still has a job (and an big, important one at that). But it's never all that boring. Because Biden chose to focus on foreign policy, what you get is closer to a conversation between two people in dire situations, instead of a confusing list of complicated policy goals.
In addition to those two main halves, you also get interactions between Biden and Obama (a personal highlight, in my opinion), and a look into Biden's life as he decided whether or not to run for president in 2016. For people like me who closely watch American politics unfold, it was fascinating to see it all from Joe Biden's perspective.
I loved this book. It gave me hope in Joe Biden as a candidate, and further solidified the vote I was already planning to give him. He rarely goes on the offensive too, even neglecting to mention President Trump in the epilogue, despite the fact that Clinton's 2016 campaign was so relevant to the book. If you don't align with me politically, it's hard for me to say whether or not you'll like the book, but you'll probably at the very least understand and respect why Biden has earned such rare bipartisan respect. As we enter the final stretch of the 2020 race, I can't recommend this book enough.
As Joe Biden opens up his family, his most sacred thoughts, worries and issues, he becomes the man I've always suspected he was. There are few politicians who can honestly say their family comes first, but Joe is a rare person in this and many ways.
An iron anchor for his family, he holds them together through tragedies that would devastate most families and men. Surviving epoch events his entire life, Joe is such a rare individual in this world that he's heads and shoulders above most others in all humanity.
It's no stretch whatsoever that I accompany him with the likes of Mahatma Gandhi, Winston Churchill, Nelson Mandella, Martin Luther King, and Franklin D Roosevelt. His family adores and even idolize him as do his political associates on both sides of the proverbial aisle.
Joe is the truly rare man who can set massive goals and accomplish them all; all the while keeping his family on the pedestal he built for them. We often hear men claim to be a family man while achieving much, but we always find the once hidden chinks in their armor that shed more light on them and expose them for the men they truly are. However; there will be no chinks in Joe's armor and that armor shines with an illumination of its own, coming from within.
So amazingly successful, yet Joe completely avoids the pitfalls in which other politicians typically become deeply ensnared as they become consumed by their successes and leave family behind.
He's a man's man, make no mistake; a rough and ready brawler, most often too tough to beat but his heart and his love for family and all humanity shine so brightly, his crusty outer layer is all but impossible to find. Yet; despite his brawler personality, he is a genuine and honest politician who can claim many friends and supporters from any and all political parties. His very long list of accomplishments was attained simply because he's an approachable human being; supremely patient, wise, and honest, always seeking to make the nation and the planet a far better place for us all. And he does so with a demeanor that is unparalleled by any.
President Obama saw these qualities in him when he approached Joe and asked him to be his running mate. Once the second most important man in the nation, he still maintained his humility while actively working with President Obama.
His insistence that he not be placed somewhere on the mantle, that he was to play an active role in Obama's goals and efforts, proved to be a very large catalyst for the Barack Obama legacy.
If you read anything this year - Promise Me, Dad: A Year of Hope, Hardship, and Purpose should be that. You will, regardless of the partisanship you adhere to, love the read. You will discover that amongst the sharks, barracudas, and lionfish, he stands out as an Orca; Kind, yet hard-driven; stubborn, yet willing to compromise in order to lead the nation; fearsome, but loving and caring.