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Guys I really have no idea if this is or if its not appropriate writing in here but I feel like that my mental state its getting worse. Just to let you know I am not adult yet and I dont even know if this is normal. I really hate my life. A year ago I thought it is just a phase but apparently it is not. So recently my dad got diagnosed with bad disease my mental state is also bad because I overthink and am anxious about everything. Lately one girl that i really liked because I told her everything and I thought we shared problems and both of us were looking for someone to date. After some time I realized I liked her to much and I wanted to date her. I kept it for myself and said to myself I will suffer quietly as I always do. But I just couldn’t I told it to some of my friends and tried to tell her the truth because I thought if we were talking everyday nothing will happen. But now she knows and today she didn’t even speak to me or reply to my texts and one friend of mine told me I shouldn’t worry about it and since he is friend with her as well I think is a hint she doesnt like me. I told it to some of my friends and some called me pick me and now I feel like I am worth nothing and I am just overthinking the whole thing since I don’t show emotions to much but I am very sensitive guy. I am not far from taking my own life at this point, I cannot focus in school or anything and definitely don’t want to talk to my parents about my mental state at all. Guys can someone tell me if I am just overreacting or I am just a pick me or is it normal? Or in both cases what am I supposed to do. Now I have nobody to talk to about this so I would appreciate every comment.
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Take a deep breath. You're not alone, alright? And yeah, it's normal to feel like your whole world's crashing down on you. But that don't mean you gotta let it bury you.
Your old man's got a bad diagnosis, and that's tough as nails to deal with. But you ain't gotta shoulder that burden all by yourself. Lean on your friends, your family, whoever's willing to lend an ear. They might surprise you with how much they care.
Now, about that girl... Look, rejection sucks, plain and simple. But it ain't the end of the world. Yeah, it stings like a bee right now, but you'll bounce back. And those friends of yours? If they're calling you a "pick me," tell 'em to shove it up where the sun doesn't shine. You ain't worth nothing, kid. You're worth everything.
And as for feeling like you're on the edge of taking your own life... That's some serious stuff, and you need to take it seriously. Reach out to someone, anyone, who can help you through this rough patch. Ain't no shame in asking for a hand when you're drowning.
And hey, if you can't talk to your folks about your mental state, find someone else who'll listen. Hell, hit up a hotline if you gotta. Just don't suffer in silence, alright? You got a whole life ahead of you, and you ain't gonna let some dark thoughts drag you down. You hear me?
P.S: made the right choice reaching out here and of course it's appropriate to talk about this here it is called r/mentalhealth, because in life mental health comes first. And because you matter. ❤️