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Online dating is a great way to meet new people, but the ease of making a profile and swiping right also comes with a few dangers. In fact, it's estimated that about 10% of online dating profiles are actually bots or romance scammers.[1] These profiles think they’re being clever, but you can avoid being catfished by watching out for suspicious signs. Pull out your magnifying glass and get ready to learn how to detect a fake dating profile.

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They have blank sections in their profile.

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  1. Most dating apps and sites ask you to fill out a questionnaire that’ll give more information about you on your profile. Fake profiles and scammers will most likely leave parts of their profiles blank, claiming they forgot to fill them in or didn’t have time to.[2]
    • If their name, age, and location are the only thing filled out, chances are they’re fake.
    • Check to see if they’ve linked their social media accounts to the page. Real profiles tend to plug their Instagram or Snapchat in their bios.
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They’ve only posted one photo.

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  1. Fake profiles and romance scammers will try to make realistic-looking profiles with a seemingly harmless profile pic. If their one picture looks “too perfect” or staged, the profile is most likely fake.[3]
    • Fake profiles usually use pictures of headshots stolen from Google or stock photo websites. You can do a reverse search on the image to trace it. Start by right clicking on the image and saving it to your desktop. Then, go to Google Images and click “Search by image." Click “Upload an image," select the picture from your files, and run the search.[4]
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They don’t have many friends or followers.

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  1. Look the person up on Instagram, Facebook, and Twitter. If they’re a fake dating profile, chances are they’re fake across all platforms. Do they have a good number of followers, or are they following an absurd amount of people? You can tell a profile is fake if the people following them don’t seem legit themselves.[5]
    • Notice if they have followers in common across all platforms. Friends usually follow friends on all social media.
    • Check to see if they’re tagged in any of their followers' posts.
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They say they’re in another country.

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  1. Maybe they say they’re on a business trip and don’t have enough money to get back home, or they can’t access their bank account in a different country. This is their way of guilting you into giving them money, and it’s a major red flag.[6]
    • Now, talking to someone from another country on a dating app or site isn’t bad! The beauty of online dating is you can meet people from anywhere. But if they repeatedly mention that they need your help, they’re trying to scam you.
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They ask to chat off the dating app or site.

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  1. They’ll skip the small talk on the dating app or site and try to get things moving on another platform. This is their way of getting past the dating app or site’s protocols while getting your personal information.[7]
    • Never give your email, phone number, or any other personal information to someone online.
    • If they ask, simply tell them “no,” or move on and connect with a different profile.
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Their messages have lots of errors.

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  1. Grammatical and spelling errors will litter their profile and messages because of wacky code or from writing in a second language. It’s common for someone to make a grammatical mistake every once and a while, but these could be common occurrences for a fake profile.[8]
    • Think about what common errors you make when texting a friend. Is the person behind the profile making the same errors, or are theirs much worse?
    • Look out for generic messages, too. They may send something like, “Hello, My name is…”
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They ask for personal financial information.

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  1. Fake profiles will try to get your personal information as fast as possible. They’ll ask for your email, details about where you work, phone number, and surname. Getting information about you can help them hack into your accounts.[10]
    • If you’re not sure if they’re fake but want to give them your phone number to find out, set up a Google Voice account. This will give you a separate phone number that’ll forward all messages to your real phone number, and the profile won’t have a clue the number isn’t truly yours!
    • Asking for money or your financial information is a big red flag if you’re looking for a sugar momma or daddy.
    • Reader Poll: We asked 176 wikiHow readers, and 63% of them agreed that constantly asking for financial support would make them doubt if a sugar momma is actually wealthy. [Take Poll]
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They can’t talk on the phone or video chat.

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They give excuses for why they can’t meet in person.

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They seem too good to be true.

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  1. Their profile is overly well written or they're over-exaggerating about all their strong points. If they look like a model, have a thriving career, and seem to have no flaws, they may be a work of fiction. Listen to your gut and notice if they seem too perfect. This could all be a glamor to get something out of you.[15]
    • A fake profile may claim to be famous, rich, or even royal. If you Google their name and nothing pops up, they’re definitely not a celebrity.
    • Search for them on LinkedIn, Facebook, and Google for information on their career.
    • If they’re telling the truth, chances are they have a LinkedIn account tied to their job.
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  • If you live in the US and are a victim of a romance scam and have lost money from it, report it to the government through usa.gov.[16]
  • If you live in the UK and are a victim of a romance scam and have lost money from it, report it to the police through Action Fraud.[17]
  • Report the fake profile and/or scam on the dating site or app. This can help stop the perpetrator from catfishing anyone else.
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John Keegan
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This article was co-authored by John Keegan and by wikiHow staff writer, Aly Rusciano. John Keegan is a Dating Coach and motivational speaker based in New York City. With over 10 years of professional experience, he runs The Awakened Lifestyle, where he uses his expertise in dating, attraction, and social dynamics to help people find love. He teaches and holds dating workshops internationally, from Los Angeles to London and from Rio de Janeiro to Prague. His work has been featured in the New York Times, Humans of New York, and Men's Health. This article has been viewed 103,590 times.
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