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I am 28 years old, I am ugly, and until now I have not had a relationship with any girl. This has become a motivation for me to commit suicide

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Someone brings the "I can fix him" girl please
her time has come

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😂😂😂😂😂

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🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

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Before seeking to love a girl, you have to learn to love yourself first. You should be proud of yourself for being honest and sentimental and being you after 28 years.

You should not search for the perfect partner, instead, you should become the best version of yourself. With time, everything else will fall into place.

Try to get in better shape, practice a hobby, spend time with friends or alone in nature, listen to music, go camping, jogging, and watch funny shows.

You might think suicide is the solution to your problems, but instead of thinking that way, why not challenge yourself to be better?!!!

I'll be awaiting updates about your situation, and I wish you all the best. Make your family, the people who love you, and most importantly, yourself, proud.

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I don't know, I feel a lot of sadness and frustration about being late

Late ? Do yiu think this is a race ? You have nothing to prove to anyone.. just live your life, enjoy it and be the best version of yourself. Never compare yourself to anyone ! This is not a competition. Compare yourself with your past self only.

You said you're ugly. What criteria or standards determine that? Is it something you decide? In my opinion, there's no meaning for this term. Accept yourself, work on it..

Mchttfhem 7aja s3iba n3rf bch tath7k ama lbacher kn n7itlh lflos w nsea myb9alh kn lmot

Le fait eli partagit houni ton histoire, c'est que enti theb t3ich w theb rouhek. Khoudh waktek, khamem fi 3a9lek w pourquoi pas hawel tekhou en considération les avis des gens eli jewbouk.

Chouf un spécialiste zeda why not ahki maah ynajem y3awnek

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Some men shine in their late 30s.. Holl up buddy..

It's never late.

There is no deadline for dating, berrasmi it happens out of no where when god's plans for two souls to meet. Please don't relate your reflection and perception of how you see your physical appearance affect you ❤️❤️‍🩹 look at Pete Davidson that guy had the hottest girls in the industry and it wasn't because he was good looking 🥺

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u/Silent-Photo1895 avatar

suicide ? ena nothmonlek enek bch tendem nharet eli twali in relation , if you wanna have sexual relation 9oli wena to natik l fekra

Yes I want

u/Bradxhunter123 avatar

A3tini fekra

A3tina fekra

u/Notoriusboi avatar

a3tina 5oya fekra brabi fama barcha mest7a9inga lmao

A3tina lfikra

El fekra plz ... asking for a friend

ija na3mlou fekra :)

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L fekra is be gay?

No, I love women

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You should seek therapy for your suicidal thoughts and I invite you to DM whenever you want because I'm motivated to convince you to not unalive yourself. We can have bro talks as much as you need for you to start healing from the shitty thoughts you got.

I'm sure there's someone there that would want you yoy have to keep trying to find your suitable soulmate.

Don't focus on your looks, try to fix whatever you hate about yourself and don't listen to any piece of shit who tells you are ugly.

I love you bro

Chouf melekher ena 3omri mamchit fel chera3 w ghzart ltfol ekher w 9olt raw laabd hetha makhybou wala smaat tofla t9oulha. Laabd raw ki yabda kereh rouhou yweli yra rohou akhyeb haja fel denya. Hethi haja behya li saretlk khater menha tabda tefhem rohek wenti chkoun. e9bel rohk e9bel afkarek, baad aamel hajet lrohk t3alem heb rohek, akthser flouss bech t7assen men rohek, chouf labsa tatlaa aal look mteek. Haja ki telbesha t7ess mfar7etk wala 3atyetk confiance, hajem hjema jdida , aandk mochkla taa sennin bara 7othom priorité w sala7hom , aandek mochkla maa badnek bara trena, wala aamel home workout, taw nhar w deja makech bech tachle9 bih tal9a tokhmem hetha kol tnaha w aabd jdid touled, heb rohk w koun aneni miselech.

Mal9itch kifch n8yr w zid mchklt lflos 7bstlu kol chy w 3omri t3ada Wana mchakl tfha zy hethi mnjmtch n8lbha krht ro7i

Naaref 28 ans fi touness 3icha tweli s3iba maaneha aabd ychouf fi andedou 3amlet mosta9balha , 3arset w nej7a fi hyetha, w ahna mazelna ma aamalnech lpas loula ama aaleh 9olt ahna khater chtar touness n3ichou fi nafs lham , ama ya takhtar thniyet nekhdem ay khedma w tsalem hak tdaber bech t3ich yezzik w ychedk routine lin testeness bih w tab9a hesses bel infériorité hyetk kemla moch aala khatrek ma aandekch flous ama aala khater bech tab9a masdoum kifeh dhayaat hyetk wala bech tabda b hajet sghira w bechwaya bechwaya tebni rohk, w ki tra hajet sghira li enti aamaltha w mchet lconfiance tabda men ghadi , abda men ay haja. Serveur fi 9ahwa ki tabda makech keri w bahtha darkom tnejm tfadhel menha hetha itha ken ma aandekch diplôme, aandek diplôme chouf o7rek kifeh tabda mel 0. Ma9otlkch bech tweli korza ama le minimum mtaa hjema 10d w labsa (maa dharbet Frippe) w hygiène ( déodorant etc) 7othom priorité. Badel fi hajet tefha taw tra resultat . Ena mafhemtch enti khasser haja ? Mak kereh rohk w aayech w moch bech yetbadel chay? Kamel 3ich ama mara hethi aamel hal hajet belk tetbadel haja.

3omri t3ada

Bro, you're still young! You can learn whatever you want and start making money.

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I don't know the full extent of your situation. But from what I learned from life being suicidal doesn't only come from girls not being interested in you. My guy most of us are ugly and girls don't pay attention to us except for a few exceptions. These thoughts come from not being "involved" or "included" in communities. My advice is to find some sort of hobby and put yourself out there. Include yourself in social situations even if you feel uncomfortable. Stop making excuses when people invite you to something and just try out some different stuff. Experience things, so that you'll have interesting stories. increase your confidence (also going to the gym can help it's not just an alpha male red pill thing). Just live more and things will come naturally. It might not seem clear at first how it will happen but it doesn't hurt to try. If you just become an interesting confident person, girls will be attracted to you.

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U are not ugly, u just need a glow up , so work on yourself be the best version of yourself do what u didn't do before, get your teeth fixed, style your hair, new clothes with a good style , go to the gym , learn a new language, if u do all this things u will be the most successful attractive man , good luck.

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Stop being sorry for yourself. Get money, get your teeth fixed and get a girl.

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you are such a cunt.

Ya alpha male lol

It sounds like social media and top g podcasts rzlly did the job here.

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fuck you

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Define "ugly"

Short, messy teeth, emaciated body

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the teeth and body are fixable

braces take max 2 years

and in the meantime if you work out with calorie surplus , you would be a unit .

short , it is not the end of the world , you can make it up by being funny /smaet and I can't stress this enough RICH

if you are worried of saying i haven't dated before and i'm 28 , sweep it under the religion part ' dating is haram ' or simply lie that you did .

and you would be fine .

I'll try

The mindset should be "I'll do it" not I'll try ! Just do it bro

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How short are you?

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Try coke

I drink coca cola every day

Israeli propaganda detected

Every true homie drinks Oh! juice or coffee like our benevolent president

or coffee

el 9ahwa ma9tou3a. your beloved president took it all to himself, apparently.

Sorry sidna's morning routine of lambasting people is above everyone's,you can cry about it if you want

(Apparently he caused these coffee shortages since he was getting lambasted for doing midnight speeches)

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Focus all your energy in money and car and clothes and you will get all the girl's you want 😉

i got these stuff, what's the nxt step

I don't know haha that what people said...for me I leasing and make my self friendly and read her personality first XD

thanks bro good strategy, too much hustle for me

no, don't approach a lot's or give more attention than she deserve...the moment she think u are a easy target the game is over bro

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hey, i know what your going through, i had those suicidal thoughts since i was 10 and they are a real pain in the ass, but whatever happen and however strong those feelings are or how much they hurt both physically and mentally just know that things change and i know whats in your mind that it doesn't seem to change or that it doesn't worth it even if things change but belive me they do, things change and its totally worth it, if those thoughts keep haunting you pls go cheek some helpline or even DM me if you feel comfortable, just talking about it can do wonder in those difficult times.

"hugs and kisses" stay strong i belive in you

You just need money. With enough cash in your hands, nothing else matters. You're not missing much. They want to tell you about their day.

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true

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reminder: Kant and Newton died virgins. dont make having a woman a necessity for your happiness, find happiness within, and then worry about finding a woman

Wow! imagine discovering gravity and never attracting anyone. that's mindblowing!

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Listen, this sort of humor is rare nowadays omg ure on fire in this subr

hahahaha

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Bro listen girls are weird i broke up with my girlfriend of one year because she want to go out on a date with another dude while we're together so i said fuck it and i told her we are done after like month and she go to that date btw or two she text me want to come back yeah that's fucked me up but im good now the morale of the story dont ties you life to someone that you will regret even to love and about the suicide stuff nah bro don't do it at less you have your parents and on top of that you will get someone that love you for who you're

Yyy w for those saying they love money a ala rasek Ye5i 5 alfe mt3 l9hwa tsami feha money??? Rahou we can pay for ouselves nd shit ama it just shows u're a gentleman+u actually care

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The “ 5dt mtaa l9ahwa tsami feha money “ that one hits different

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don t you think about it buddy first of all girls fall in love in what they hear and boys fall in love in what they see that is why girls always do makeup and boys tell lies always so you got two chance either you start tell lies or you become funny so by that you attract girls and last option you focus on yourself build muscles go to gym change your habbit make some money and trust me you will attract girls if you did it

Bro what is this ai generated aah quote 💀

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hell no i wrote all of that chatgpt can t write something good like that

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i ve watched a lot of prodcast and insta motivation reels

Thats not how irl life works tho you cant construct a relationship on lies but on communication, from experience relationships based on trying to be ideal and lies never last too long

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let us talk for real some of girls fall in love in what they hear that is why some of boys tell some lies as for girls some of them wear makeup because boys fall in love in what they see so it is not that big problem it is like 1 to 1 let us say both of them are equal

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Yeah i noticed 😭

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and they do help for real if you know how to change the alghorithms of those apps it can really help some people who are down and want to get up again

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BRO I am wrong. It is more difficult than you think. They love handsome men and money, and I do not have these things. It is driving me crazy. How can I live like this?

So become handsome and make money homie. I know it's easier said than done but it's very feasible. Workout, groom, clean up and find a job or finish your education if you're still studying (in this case find a side hustle). Life's too precious to let it go in vain over a relationship.

All these years I have not had the opportunity to change my life. I hate this

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whats keeping u from it ?

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I hate to break it to you but you don't wait for the "opportunity" to change your life, you just do.

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buddy those are opportunities you don t have money the plan is to make money you are ugly the plan is to get in shape and do skin care routine maybe a beard can help with a nice haircut trust me man your life is worth it you should start living your life man There's an Arabic saying that goes: 'If you want to die, throw yourself in the ocean. You'll find yourself fighting to survive. You don't want to kill yourself. You want to kill something inside of you. so change start by changing yourself buddy your habbits be better everyday and you will find something to live for you still young man 28 yo it is time to focus onyourself fuc k girls fuc k parties fu ck trying to fit in you need to just start improving everyday

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Bro stop watching porn. There is more to life than sex and relationships.

I don't watch this filth

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*that

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There is more to life than sex and relationships. 

we exist because of sex and relationships

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Height?