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Q: Are Chinese girls easy for foreign men?

12 years 51 weeks ago in  Relationships - China

 
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If you're just looking to get laid, yes. But if you want to find an actual relationship it's harder because NICE Chinese women are obviously more shy and not likely to be in places like nightclubs and such. 

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I think you're generally right. I met a good one in a club but it's rare

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Only if you have money

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No easier than any other women in the world.  You will find 'easy' and not-so-easy girls all over the world.  China is no different.

For example check out American women when some guy comes along with a swarthy frog accent or aussie tongue.

Though, from a personal standpoint, the average Chinese girl is easier on the eye than just about any other nationality I have known.

BaoanGuy:

I'd say Korean women are probably the best looking. They take their appearance more seriously than Chinese girls.

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Once you have lived with or have a serious relationship with one,they are not easy,if you mean one night stands i would say no again,but if you mean girls that hang round expat bars some are and will be easy,but on an average percentage of women in China to the few that hang round bars i would say no in general they are not

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I think this is a very good point you make.

 

If you're LOOKING for quick one night stands it can be very easy if you go to the right places (expat bars/clubs).

 

In general overall though, Chinese girls tend to be more closed and shy.

 

If all you're doing is hanging out at the bars/clubs it can be very easy to think Chinese girls are "easy".  If your trying to hook up with girls at book stores or regular places, you will probably find it can be very hard to get in bed with a Chinese girl without putting in a lot of time and effort.

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I would say that the easy ones are often the wrong ones for a serious relationship.
And the good ones are difficult to find because you don't often see them in places where you see the easy ones.
It's always better  for a serious relationship to meet a girl through friends....

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I would say easy to meet. The women are friendly. Easy to bed maybe not with the right kind of woman. The GF I dated and write to now is not easy.
I sometimes wonder if she is smart enough to play the hard to get game.
 At first we would go out for dinner and drinks. We would go to restaurant and she would say she ate at home, after doing this a few times I went hungry rather than eat in front of her.
 When we went for a drink, her GF joined us. They each nursed one beer all night. I never saw any gold digging tendencies. 
  I know she doesn't make much money and it is slow for her work now. Someone stold her phone and I offered to buy her a new iphone 4. I can buy them cheaper here than in China. She refused the phone. I'm impressed.
 Are they easy , no. Maybe the gold diggers are. But this is the same in any country.

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Age, picture, phone number and e-mail address. Please! Thanks in advance.

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First you rip bald old foreigners, then claim to be concerned father, now you want to know my GF ?????

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BaoanGuy:

I thought you were going to say they tried to persuade you to buy them drinks all night. lol

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JackieChan:

she got friend ?

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If you're just looking to get laid, yes. But if you want to find an actual relationship it's harder because NICE Chinese women are obviously more shy and not likely to be in places like nightclubs and such. 

BaoanGuy:

I think you're generally right. I met a good one in a club but it's rare

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Only if you have money

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This thread, on this website, is completely redundant. See pretty much every other thread.

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depends on which city your're in and whether your black/ white rich/poor or which country your from. gz and shenzhen were easy for me, hohhot and nachang are difficult. 

BaoanGuy:

I liked Shenzhen the women had no problem giving me the #s.

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that's why it's my favorite city

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KTV girls sure.
The only easy girls in China are either looking for that foreign experience or looking for money and a better life (like anywhere on the planet).
Any girl worth being with here (on so many levels) is a challenge and a long term endeavor...even more so than back west, but worth it.

BaoanGuy:

The beauties of China are more than worth the effort.

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Easy men get Easy Girls. haaa

Frenchie:

except you'll never be one of them you loser

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maggiegirly:

exactly.

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Easy but good girls: If you're white, just go to a public library and sit down with a chinese book for 3 hours or so. If you're black, get a basketball, hop over to your nearest court and shoot a good number of 3s ...... Believe me man, do this daily and you'll have a girl within 5 days (beijing, shanghai, tianjin. Don't know about other places) ...  Easy, slutty, expensive: KTV, bars, clubs that foreigners like to flock to.. 

BaoanGuy:

So basically do nothing and they'll flock to you. Works everywhere in the world.

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This might be breaking news to some foreigners, but non-expat bar Chinese girls are a whole lot different and a whole lot less easier than those that frequent them

What I'm trying to say is --

yeah, Chinese girls can be pretty tough, if you're looking for a legit girlfriend.

BaoanGuy:

For me it works the opposite - mainly because i've been around bargirls in other countries and for the most part I don't trust them. Regular girls are my thing - they're intentions are easier to decipher making it easier to talk to them.

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  Most of the Chiness girls aren't raised to be whores like they are in the West. because it's a marriage based society.  Making the women either extremely easy to manipulate or extremely difficult depending on the woman. 

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Out of curiosity, where are you from? I just want to know what I should call your mother if I shared your point of view.

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Like Margarine Easy to spread…

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In the dictionary under redundant it says "see redundant"

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I have found them very easy at least I have had no problem getting laid no matter what city i have been in. Different city have different girls that are easy, in Beijing it is the lonely married girls, in Guanzhou it is the western curious girls. in Shenzhen it is the gold digger girls. You just need to know what type of girl you are dealing with and play the game to suit.
I married  northern girl so my playing times are over but let me tell you. They are very easy.

Frenchie:

I sure hope these gold diggers take every yuan you make and laugh at you afterwards. You are pathetic and not worthy of human existence

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Come on thumbs down everything I say. rnrnPlease I like it thumbs down some more.

 
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What a question. Seems simple but really racist and sexist.

Every Chinese woman should be offended for being singled out in this manner.

In reality I think Chinese women are very virtuous and those who may be "easy" are driven by a variety of motives.

 

Dont use race as a basis of your question.

 

I am an Australian man and my wife is Chinese woman. She is a very caring and loving person .

 

bojnin:

"Chinese" is not a race.

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Women, just like men, are attracted to the "exotic".

Look how easy American men are "felled" by what many consider exotic. Asian Girls, French Girls, Russian Girls, etc...

Well, In America (oh no! i am turning into Loke!!!!) the stereotype is the French guy consistently scoring American girls....

So, to answer your question, no, I do not think it has anything to do with Chinese girls being "weak" or "easy, just another example of human nature being attracted to the unusual or exotic.

In my experience, I have also met Chinese girls who refuse ANY relationship with foreign men while most others would be wary before committing to a relationship.  it is just that when you have more than one billion people, even the small percentage that does throw themselves at foreigners, well, it is still a large number compared to the amount of foreigners here yet still a small amount compared to the over all population.

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Well said GR. * Chill,well thought out comments..just what we need more of on this website! OMG, PLEASE don't turn into another Loke!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! Pllllllleeeeeeaaaaaassssssse!!!!!!!!!!!!! :0 :0 God forbid!!

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i am Chinese,   i think ur question is not polite , also some girls in other countries are easy for foreign men ,  you should add some before Chinese girls , and , i dont think , your foreign ID can mde u popular , if u are a jerk , i dont think u r popular in China  

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Easy Chinese girls are easy for anyone, however, not all Chinese girls are easy.

Same applies to the entire gender though, not just the Chinese females.

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i love girl china

Amonk:

china i love girl

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I BELIEVE NOTHING COMES EASY....CHINESE WOMEN HAVE CULTURE AND THEY RESPECT ALOT.....

Amonk:

I think you do not respect Chinese women. Otherwise, why would you bump this?

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I know guys who had a hard time getting laid in their home cuontry and even a harder time getting a girlfriend. Then they come to China and they are hooking up with girls non stop.

 

I don't think that makes Chinese girls any "easier" but certainly being a foreigner in most Asian countries improves your chances of getting laid, just keep in mind that those type of girls aren't the ones you want a long term relationship with.

 

At the same time a lot of Chinese girls are much harder to hook up with. Very traditional and close mined towards sex.  Although these girls can sometimes end up being the best ones to get involved in a serious relationship with if you can manage to not getting laid right away.

dariax:

Unfortunately, true. No matter how everyone is saying it is not, Chinese girls are after western men and often times for the wrong reasons and the men after them for the wrong reasons too and so the whole situation is sad. It is interesting to see here the ratio of very young girls willing to date and "go for " older men (true love??) I think not??

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Please don't drag this disgraceful and insulting thread up again guys.  Women everywhere are the same and deserve respect and a whole country's girls should not be categorized as easy.  Let's put this one to bed for good.

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I wish people wouldn't dig up questions from a year ago. 

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Can we vote on the deletion of embarassing threads such as this? No useful information is going to be acquired from this- those who understand that people are people don't need reinforcement, and those who deal exclusively in stereotypes aren't going to be gotten through to.

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