darling, n.¹ & adj. meanings, etymology and more | Oxford English Dictionary
First published 1894; not yet revised More entries for "darling"

darlingnoun1 & adjective

  1. noun
      1. 1.a.
        Old English–
        A person who is very dear to another; the object of a person's love; one dearly loved. Commonly used as a term of endearing address.
        1. OE
          Se godcunda anweald gefriþode his diorlingas [variant reading deorlingas].
          Ælfred, translation of Boethius, De Consolatione Philosophiae xxxix. §10
        2. OE
          Bi Dauide ðæm Godes dirlinge.
          K. Ælfred, translation of Gregory, Pastoral Care vol. I. 393
        3. OE
          Iohannes se Godspellere, Cristes dyrling.
          Ælfric, Homilies vol. I. 58 (Bosw.)
        4. a1200
          Crist scal one beon inou alle his durlinges.
          Moral Ode 385
        5. a1375 (c1350)
          Sweting, wel-come! Mi derworþe derling.
          William of Palerne (1867) l. 1538
        6. ?a1400
          And now farewell my darling deere.
          Chester Plays iii. 372
        7. a1425 (c1395)
          My derlyng is to me a cluster of cipre tre.
          Bible (Wycliffite, later version) (Royal MS.) (1850) Song of Solomon i, 13
        8. 1546
          It ys better to be An olde mans derlyng, then a yong mans werlyng.
          J. Heywood, Dialogue Prouerbes English Tongue ii. vii. sig. Iiiiv
        9. 1582
          Flee, fle, my sweet darling.
          R. Stanyhurst, translation of Virgil, First Foure Bookes Æneis ii. 39
        10. 1714
          While on her Dearling's Bed her Mother sate!
          J. Gay, Shepherd's Week v. 110
        11. 1842
          The idol of my youth, The darling of my manhood.
          Lord Tennyson, Gardener's Daughter in Poems (new edition) vol. II. 32
        12. 1859
          Answer, darling, answer, no.
          Lord Tennyson, Merlin & Vivien 395 in Idylls of King
      2. 1.b.
        Old English–1716
        † A favourite, a minion. Obsolete.
        1. OE
          Ȝif ðe licode his dysig..swa wel swa his dysegum deorlingum dyde.
          Ælfred, translation of Boethius, De Consolatione Philosophiae xxvii. §2
        2. a1400–50
          An ald derling of Darius was duke made of pers.
          Alexander 3442
        3. 1530
          Derlyng, a man, mignon.
          J. Palsgrave, Lesclarcissement 213/1
        4. 1548
          The Quenes dearlynge William Duke of Suffolke.
          Hall's Vnion: Henry VI f. clviij
        5. 1579
          The king..had like to haue marred al, by lauishing out a word hereof to one of hys deerelyngs.
          J. Stubbs, Discouerie of Gaping Gulf sig. Eviij
        6. 1716
          She became the Darling of the Princess.
          J. Addison, Free-Holder No. 21
      3. 1.c.
        c1330–
        The favourite in a family, etc.
        1. c1330
          Knoute of his body gate sonnes þre..Knoute lufed [Harald] best, he was his derlyng.
          R. Mannyng, Chronicle (1810) 50
        2. 1675
          The most discountenanc'd child oft makes better proof, then the dearling.
          R. Allestree, Art of Contentment iv. 73
        3. 1712
          John was the Darling, he had all the good Bits.
          J. Arbuthnot, John Bull Still in Senses iii. ii. 9
      4. 1.d.
        1838–
        One meet to be much loved, a lovable creature, a ‘pet’.
        1. 1838
          She found..that six young Princes, darlings all, Were missing.
          R. Southey, King of Crocodiles ii, in Poetical Works vol. VI. 102
        2. 1863
          His duty towards those innocent darlings.
          M. E. Braddon, Eleanor's Victory vol. I. iii. 43
        3. 1864
          With every flock of sheep and girls are one or two enormous mastiffs..They are great darlings, and necessary against bear and wolf.
          Kingsley in Life (1879) vol. II. xxi. 173
    1. 2.
      transferred and figurative.
      1. 2.a.
        c1275–
        Of persons, as the darling of the people, etc.
        1. c1275 (?a1200)
          Þa spac Angel þe king. Scottene deorling.
          Laȝamon, Brut (Caligula MS.) (1978) l. 12764
        2. c1275 (?a1200)
          Alfred þe king. Englelondes deorling.
          Laȝamon, Brut (Caligula MS.) (1963) l. 3148
        3. 1548
          Wantons and derelynges of fortune.
          N. Udall et al., translation of Erasmus, Paraphrase Newe Testamente vol. I. Luke Preface 8
        4. 1605
          Augustus Cæsar..when he was a dearling of the Senate.
          F. Bacon, Of Aduancement of Learning ii. sig. Ccc4v
        5. 1639
          A prince so good, that he was styled the Darling of mankind.
          T. Fuller, Historie of Holy Warre i. i. 1
        6. 1702
          Fortune turns..every thing to the advantage of her Darlings.
          English Theophrastus 193
        7. 1875
          Henry V was, as he deserved to be, the darling of the nation.
          W. Stubbs, Constitutional History vol. III. xxi. 508
      2. 2.b.
        c1430–
        Of things.
        1. c1430
          Loue is goddis owne derlinge.
          Hymns Virg. (1867) 25
        2. 1577
          Where God is, there also is patience his darling [1587 derling] which he nourisheth.
          H. I., translation of H. Bullinger, 50 Godlie Sermons vol. II. iii. iii. sig. Dd.iiij/2
        3. a1616
          Take heede on't, Make it a darling, like your pretious eye.
          W. Shakespeare, Othello (1622) iii. iv. 66
        4. 1750
          Then Oratory became their darling.
          G. Hughes, Natural History of Barbados Preface 1
        5. 1870
          Trade, that pride and darling of our ocean.
          R. W. Emerson, Society & Solitude 148
    2. 3.
      1584
      † A name for a variety of apple. Obsolete.
      1. 1584
        The best Apples..are Pepins, Costardes..Darlings and such other.
        T. Cogan, Hauen of Health cii. 89
  2. adjective
    [attributive use of n.]
    1. 1.
      Dearly loved, very dear; best-loved, favourite.
      1. 1.a.
        1596–
        Of persons.
        1. [1509
          Dyane derlyng pale as any leade.
          S. Hawes, Pastime of Pleasure xvi. lxxii]
        2. 1596
          Dred infant, Venus dearling doue.
          E. Spenser, Second Part of Faerie Queene iv. Proem sig. A2v
        3. 1667
          His darling Sons.
          J. Milton, Paradise Lost ii. 373
        4. 1736
          Our dearling prince.
          W. Thompson, Epithalamium xiv. 9
        5. a1822
          My darling little Cyclops.
          P. B. Shelley, Cyclops in Posthumous Poems (1824) 341
        6. 1850
          My unchanged love is with my darling child.
          C. Dickens, David Copperfield xxxii. 334
      2. 1.b.
        1609–
        Of things.
        1. 1609
          Rough windes do shake the darling buds of Maie.
          W. Shakespeare, Sonnets xviii. sig. B4v
        2. 1645
          To Acknowledge my darling faults.
          T. Fuller, Good Thoughts in Bad Times iv. xvii. 230
        3. 1701
          Philosophy was his darling Study.
          W. Wotton, History of Rome i. 7
        4. 1799
          The Devil did grin, for his darling sin Is pride that apes humility.
          S. T. Coleridge, Devil's Thoughts vi
        5. 1849
          A few enthusiasts..were bent on pursuing..their darling phantom of a republic.
          T. B. Macaulay, History of England vol. I. 101
    2. 2.
      1805–
      Sweetly pretty or charming, ‘sweet’. affected.
      1. 1805
        We all follow'd them out of doors across a Garden to a darling place.
        E. Cavanagh, Letter 4 October in M. Wilmot & C. Wilmot, Russ. Journals (1934) ii. 187
      2. 1854
        Isn't it the darlingest, sweetest, prettiest, little dear darling darling! Oh! did you ever!!
        Punch March 116
      3. 1858
        Darling Beatrice came..in short clothes with darling little stockings and..pink satin shoes—really too darling.
        Queen Victoria, Letter 1 April in Dearest Child (1964) 84
      4. 1906
        You have a darling little note-book..to match your frock.
        Punch 21 March 215/1
      5. 1908
        It is perfectly darling of you to have chosen Hughie.
        B. Harraden, Interplay 373
      6. 1937
        Your little boy did so beautifully... He was simply darling.
        D. Aldis, Time at Her Heels v. 109
      7. 1952
        I've seen them with you in the Co-op, Dr. Mulcahy. They're darling.
        M. McCarthy, Groves of Academe (1953) i. 14
      8. 1970
        Isn't it going to be darling!
        New Yorker 28 February 54/2