The song "Grow a Pear" by Kesha is a blunt breakup song. The lyrics depict the singer telling her partner that she is no longer interested in the relationship because he is acting too feminine. The title "Grow a Pear" is a play on words, as "grow a pair" is a common phrase meaning to toughen up.

The first verse suggests that the partner's femininity is causing problems in the relationship. The singer implies that the partner seems to be displaying emotions excessively, and in a way that she finds unattractive. The chorus reinforces this message, saying that the partner needs to toughen up and be less emotional before she will consider getting back together.

The second verse describes how the relationship started out as purely physical, but then the partner asked to talk, causing the singer to reconsider the connection. The lyrics suggest that the partner became too clingy and emotional, leading to the breakup.

The bridge repeats the message of the chorus with an added insult, telling the partner that she doesn’t want to see his 'mangina,' a crude term for a man's genitals. Ultimately, the lyrics of the song suggest that the relationship ended because the partner was too feminine and emotionally needy.