'I don’t really accept he’s not here anymore': Amanda Redman reveals her pain at New Tricks co-star Dennis Waterman's death which 'knocked her sideways'

  • The legendary TV actor died in May at the age of 74 following a secret two-year battle with lung cancer 
  • Two months after his passing, Amanda, 64, Dennis' long time friend of 40 years admitted she's struggled to come to terms with his death 
  • When Dennis' death was announced by his family, Amanda was too distraught to share a public tribute, with her daughter Emily taking to Twitter on her behalf
  • Amanda said of her friend: 'He just was so charismatic and the life and soul of the party. I don’t really accept he’s not here anymore'
  • Amanda starred alongside Waterman in the BBC police drama for 10 years, as Sandra Pullman, detective superintendent to his hero Gerry Standing 

Amanda Redman has revealed her New Tricks co-star Dennis Waterman's death 'knocked me sideways'. 

The legendary TV actor died in May at the age of 74 following a secret two-year battle with lung cancer.

And two months after his passing, Amanda, 64, Dennis' long time friend of 40 years admitted she's struggled to come to terms with his death as she said: 'I don’t really accept he’s not here anymore.'

Distraught: Amanda Redman has revealed her New Tricks co-star Dennis Waterman's death 'knocked me sideways'

Distraught: Amanda Redman has revealed her New Tricks co-star Dennis Waterman's death 'knocked me sideways'

When Dennis' death was announced by his family, Amanda was too distraught to share a public tribute, with her daughter Emily taking to Twitter on her behalf.

She wrote: 'Hi everyone, it’s Emily (Amanda’s daughter). She has seen and is grateful for your messages but can’t respond - the grief is too personal and private. Thank you for understanding. E x' 

Opening up on the pain of losing her friend, whom she worked with for a decade on New Tricks, Amanda told The Mirror: 'It knocked me sideways, no one knew he was ill to that extent. His wife phoned me, it was incredibly difficult. I was very lucky because my daughter was staying with me at that point. So thank god she was there.'

Hard: Two months after his passing, Amanda, 64, Dennis' long time friend of 40 years admitted she's struggled to come to terms with his death as she said: 'I don’t really accept he’s not here anymore' (pictured in 2020)

Hard: Two months after his passing, Amanda, 64, Dennis' long time friend of 40 years admitted she's struggled to come to terms with his death as she said: 'I don’t really accept he’s not here anymore' (pictured in 2020)

She went on to say that the day after Dennis' death, she attended a memorial service following the death of another friend, telling how it was 'a tricky weekend'.

The actress went on to recall 'wonderful, wonderful memories' with Dennis, including all-night karaoke sessions they had alongside their partners, adding that it was 'great fun' and her pal had a 'strong presence.'

She shared: 'He was a very shy man, but amongst people that he knew very well he just was so charismatic and the life and soul of the party. I don’t really accept he’s not here anymore.' 

Tragic: The legendary TV actor died in May at the age of 74 following a secret two-year battle with lung cancer

Tragic: The legendary TV actor died in May at the age of 74 following a secret two-year battle with lung cancer

Friends: Amanda starred alongside Waterman in the long-running BBC police drama for 10 years, as Sandra Pullman, detective superintendent to his hero Gerry Standing

Friends: Amanda starred alongside Waterman in the long-running BBC police drama for 10 years, as Sandra Pullman, detective superintendent to his hero Gerry Standing

In a heartwarming tribute to the actor, she continued: 'Dennis was, without a shadow of a doubt, one of the loveliest men I have ever known in my life. He was incredibly kind and incredibly generous. He was a gentleman through and through. And not just a wonderful friend, but also a fantastic colleague as well – to everybody.'

The TV star added that Dennis was 'great to everyone', remarking that he was a 'team player' and a 'top bloke'. 

In the interview, Amanda looked back on the 'close-knit' friendship she shared with Dennis as well as their other co-stars James Bolam and Alun Armstrong, all of whom she worked with from 2003.

Tribute: 'Dennis was, without a shadow of a doubt, one of the loveliest men I have ever known in my life. He was incredibly kind and incredibly generous'

Tribute: 'Dennis was, without a shadow of a doubt, one of the loveliest men I have ever known in my life. He was incredibly kind and incredibly generous'

The beauty starred alongside them and Waterman in the long-running BBC police drama as Sandra Pullman, detective superintendent to his hero Gerry Standing. 

She noted how they were all 'so close' and 'never agued', agreeing with each other about everything and 'laughed everyday'.

Sharing more about their deep bond, she told how a day never went by without them 'in stitches', adding that it was 'joyous' and that the foursome were 'kindred spirits.' 

Bond: In the interview, Amanda looked back on the 'close-knit' friendship she shared with Dennis as well as their other co-stars James Bolam and Alun Armstrong, all of whom she worked with from 2003 (L-R James, Alun, Amanda, Dennis)

Bond: In the interview, Amanda looked back on the 'close-knit' friendship she shared with Dennis as well as their other co-stars James Bolam and Alun Armstrong, all of whom she worked with from 2003 (L-R James, Alun, Amanda, Dennis)

In a statement in May, Dennis' family said he died in Spain with his wife Pam at his side.

They stated: 'We are deeply saddened to announce that our beloved Dennis passed away very peacefully at his home in Spain. The family kindly ask that our privacy is respected at this very difficult time.'

Waterman is survived by his wife, Pam, and two daughters, Julia and Hannah, who were born following his marriage to actress Patricia Maynard. 

Dennis Waterman: An actor and singer whose career spanned more than six decades

Dennis Waterman was a familiar face on British television for more than six decades.

From tough cop George Carter in The Sweeney to good-hearted detective sergeant Gerry Standing in New Tricks, he was known for playing action-packed characters who had more than meets the eye.

Not one to focus on a single role, Waterman was also an accomplished singer, stage actor and film star.

Born in 1948 in Clapham, south-west London, as the youngest of nine children, he was surrounded by arts at a young age thanks to his older sister Joy, who ran her own amateur dramatics society and encouraged the rest of the Waterman children to join.

His mother also dabbled in music by playing the piano in a way which Waterman once described as an 'East End knees-up job'.

Waterman joined the Corona Theatre School in 1959 following a suggestion from another one of his sisters and soon got work in the industry.

Dennis Waterman, whose acting and singing career spanned six decades, has died aged 74

Dennis Waterman, whose acting and singing career spanned six decades, has died aged 74

His film debut came in 1960 in the Night Train For Inverness. 

Also at the age of 12, Waterman was invited to join the Royal Shakespeare Company in Stratford-upon-Avon.

He followed with the television series Just William, and spent a year in the West End playing Winthrop Parroo in The Music Man.

At 16, he starred on the West End in Carving A Statue, which marked the beginning of a recording career and a three-year engagement at the Royal Court.

During that time, his versatility as an actor was stretched in productions ranging from Edward Bond's Saved, through to Twelfth Night and Sergeant Musgrave's Dance.

Further stints on television and in the theatre led to him landing a role in Nell Dunn's Up The Junction in 1967, playing Pete, a man from his native Clapham, who meets an upper class girl from Chelsea, west London, and begins dating her.

Waterman became a household name after playing the role of DS George Carter in crime series The Sweeney, in which he co-starred with John Thaw. The worldwide popularity led to two film box office smashes, Sweeney I and Sweeney II.

He later reflected fondly on his time in the show, stating in his Life And Times documentary: 'We knew we were doing something really quite special and very different from British television.

'There was no worry then, which I think was a help. There was no great panic about whether it was going to be a success in the ratings.

'We just knew we had very good scripts, we had great directors, and we thought we weren't that shabby. John [Thaw] and I were great mates and, it sounds horrible, but it was just a joy to go to work every day.'

His Sweeney success was later topped with critically acclaimed television series The Minder, where Waterman played bodyguard, or 'minder', Terry McCann for 10 years from 1979. He demonstrated his vocal talents by singing the theme song, I Could Be So Good for You, which peaked at number three in the UK charts in 1980.

His passion for singing led Waterman to release music with record companies EMI and DJM.

He released three albums - Down Wind Of Angels, Waterman and So Good For You - in the 1970s and 1980s and performed around the UK on a tour, dubbed Friends On Tour, with Sheena Easton and Gerard Kenny.

Waterman pictured on set for The Sweeney, in which he first found fame playing the role of tough nut cop George Carter. The series launched his career on British television

Waterman pictured on set for The Sweeney, in which he first found fame playing the role of tough nut cop George Carter. The series launched his career on British television

Waterman pictured during filming for Piers Morgan's Life Stories. He is urvived by his wife, Pam, and two daughters, Julia and Hannah

Waterman pictured during filming for Piers Morgan's Life Stories. He is urvived by his wife, Pam, and two daughters, Julia and Hannah

Echoing the success of Sweeney, Minder was adapted into a film based on the TV series entitled Minder On The Orient Express, which was broadcast on Christmas Day in 1985.

After leaving Minder, Waterman returned to the stage for several years, starring in shows including Jeffrey Bernard in Unwell in Australia, Ireland and the UK, and My Fair Lady in the West End.

In the latter part of his career, he played Gerry Standing in the show New Tricks from 2003 to 2014.

Afterwards he semi-retired, splitting his time between his homes in Berkshire and Spain. His final film role was in the Australian comedy drama Never Too Late in 2020.

Waterman is survived by his wife, Pam, and two daughters, Julia and Hannah, who were born following his marriage to actress Patricia Maynard. 

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