人际互动的奥秘 - 知乎 Live

人际互动的奥秘 - 知乎 Live

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人际互动是一门学问。在这门学问里，一个不证自明，但又常常被忽略的前提是：我们永远看不到别人的内心想法。一个最基本的规则是：没有规则，任何人可以采取任何他 / 她想采取的行动。然而大多数人对于人际互动的理解，还都停留在经验和直觉的层面，在本次 Live 中，我想和你们分享一些关于人际互动的「元理论」、「元规则」。通过对这些理论的学习，可以解释你们在人际互动中的很多困惑，同时，会让你对自身经验的理解和应用上升到一个更高的层次。

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＊为什么人际互动一定要有双方的参与？＊在人际互动里我们能做和不能做的事有哪些？＊什么叫授权？被动的一方是如何在关系中体现主动的？＊边界是怎么形成的？遇到那些不懂边界的人该怎么办？＊人际关系中的控制（领导、影响、操纵）是怎样一个过程？＊如果我让别人烦恼了，我需要为此而烦恼吗？＊我是否有权力让他人为我而改变？我该如何做到？＊什么叫人际模式？如何从日常的互动中抽离出来看人际模式？

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