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I am one of those black women that do my work and go home. I dont attend social events and never have. I still by the grace of God have managed to make a salary over 100K salary.I knew 100 k would trigger someone.
Black women in particular often mention feeling like they are stuck in support roles that don't pay well.
Yet some of the same women mention just doing their work and going home. Hum......
Things like going to social events and happy hours are bare minimum. And it's hard to be a leader if you are socially inept and have no allies.
In my opinion equating salary and attending social events is a mute point. I think if you were to survey alot of the BW in this thread, most probably make good salaries to support their families and lifestyles. Attending social events does not make you immune to behaviors that are demoralizing. In all my years of working, I have never tried to change someones personality to make me feel comfortable. I have had to learn to just simply not go above and beyond to interact with personalities that may trigger me to get out of pocket. When you try to limit those interactions people will still test you and push your buttons in order to try to get certain reactions out of you.
People know that if they can get certain reactions out of BW then they can escalate to managment and HR to bring you into submission or to run you off of a job.
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