I am working at a sandwich shop. A woman walks in with her timid-looking teenage daughter.
Customer: “I’ll have the six-inch [sandwich].”
She completes her order and then pushes her daughter to the front.
Customer: “Order your sandwich.”
The daughter is unable to make eye contact, she’s visibly distressed, and she looks like she’s trying to mouth some words, but I can’t hear anything.
Me: “I’m so sorry, I didn’t catch that.”
The daughter suddenly starts crying and turns to leave. Her mother tries to get in her way.
Customer: “Oh, no, you don’t! Honestly, it’s a simple sandwich! Just order it! How are you not embarrassed to be this way?!”
Me: “If you know her order, ma’am, I can take it from you. Or she can write it down if—”
Customer: “No! She has to get over this ‘social anxiety’ thing! This is because these kids spend all their time on screens and never interacting with other actual humans!” *To her daughter* “Order your food, or you’ll get nothing.”
The daughter pauses, looks at me for a split second, starts crying again, and rushes to the exit.
Customer: “Ugh! Probably off to cry to her ‘friends’ on her K-Pop forums. Anyway, can I get an application form or a link to your online vacancies?”
Me: “Are you interested in applying for a job here, ma’am?
Customer: “Me?! Oh, God, no! It’s for my daughter! She needs to get a job out in the real world so she can get over her social cowardice!”
Me: “Ma’am, if her social anxiety is so bad that she can’t even order food, then I don’t think working in a place where she has to interact with strangers all day taking their food orders is going to be a good fit for her.”
Customer: “She’s never going to get over this ‘social anxiety’ nonsense if she doesn’t put in the work! If she stays comfortable all the time, she’ll never grow out of it!”
Me: “I’m not qualified to comment, but I don’t think she’ll enjoy working here.”
Customer: “Nonsense! It’s work; you’re not meant to enjoy it! Do you actually enjoy this job?”
Me: “Not at this very moment, no…”