15 Best Poems about Unrequited Love, Ranked by Poetry Experts - Poem Analysis

You say you love; but with a voice

by John Keats

‘You say you love; but with a voice’ also known by the refrain, “O love me truly!” deals with a speaker’s physical passion for his beloved. It is believed to be John Keats’ earliest love poem.

In this lesser-known poem, John Keats makes a clear and memorable statement about unrequited love, arguably making it one of the finest poems about the subject. Keats often taped into this topic as he struggled with his own unrequited love affair with Fanny Brawne throughout his life. The speaker listens to his prospective lover tell him that she loves him. But, he doubts how truthful her words are.

You say you love ; but with a voice

Chaster than a nun's, who singeth

The soft Vespers to herself

While the chime-bell ringeth-

I Am Not Yours

by Sara Teasdale

‘I Am Not Yours’ by Sara Teasdale describes the emotions of a speaker who is seeking out a love which does not strive to confine her.

In ‘I Am Not Yours,’ Teasdale takes a slightly different approach to an unrequited love poem. She addresses someone who loves her, or claims to love her, and tells them that she is not theirs. She is not theirs, but she does long to be loved and “Lost as a candle lit at noon.”

I am not yours, not lost in you,

Not lost, although I long to be

Lost as a candle lit at noon,

Lost as a snowflake in the sea.

Never Seek to Tell thy Love

by William Blake

‘Never Seek to Tell thy Love’ by William Blake describes one man’s choice to reveal his true feelings to his “love” and the failure of that effort.

‘Never Seek to Tell thy Love’ describes why sometimes it’s better to keep quiet and refrain from sharing one’s emotions and love. It’s possible that when these feelings are shared that they won’t be reciprocated. That is going to be far more painful than keeping them to themselves.

Never seek to tell thy love

Love that never told can be 

For the gentle wind does move

Silently invisibly

Sonnet 87

by William Shakespeare

Read Shakespeare’s Sonnet 87, ‘Farewell, thou art too dear for my possessing,’ with a summary and complete analysis of the poem.

In ‘Sonnet 87,’ the speaker addresses the Fair Youth, a young man who has mixed feelings of love and affection. He tells this young man that he loves him but at the same time, he’s aware that it’s unlikely that they’re ever going to have the kind of relationship that he wants most.

Farewell! thou art too dear for my possessing,

And like enough thou know'st thy estimate,

The charter of thy worth gives thee releasing;

My bonds in thee are all determinate.

Love’s Deity

by John Donne

‘Love’s Deity’ by John Donne is a complex and beautiful poem that delves into the evolution of love. The poet explores its meaning and role have changed over time

This beautiful poem centers on the theme of unrequited love. Through this lens, the poem explores the emotional suffering inherent in loving someone who doesn't return the feeling. This poem is a great example of the ways that poets handle topics like unrequited love.

I long to talk with some old lover's ghost,

Who died before the god of love was born.

I cannot think that he, who then lov'd most,

Pad, Pad

by Stevie Smith

‘Pad, Pad’ is written by the English poet Florence Margaret Smith, also known as Stevie Smith. This poem deals with the separation of two lovers and how the speaker feels long after the break-up.

‘Pad, Pad’ is an interesting piece spoken by someone whose lover just told them that he doesn’t care about them anymore. The poet uses animalistic language, and aspects of zoomorphism to depict this experience.

I always remember your beautiful flowers

And the beautiful kimono you wore

Maud Muller

by John Greenleaf Whittier

‘Maud Muller’ by John Greenleaf Whittier is a classic narrative ballad that recounts how the poor peasant, Maud, and an urban judge fantasize about getting married and living together. However, neither of them ever takes action, which fills their lives with regret.

Maud Muller and the judge's different social standings may create the boundaries that make their love an unrequited one, but their idealized perceptions of what might have been fuel the conflict in this poem.

God pity them both! and pity us all,

Who vainly the dreams of youth recall.

For of all sad words of tongue or pen,

The saddest are these: “It might have been!”

Life in a Love

by Robert Browning

‘Life in a Love’ by Robert Browning is an obsessive love poem in which a speaker tells the person they’re in love with that no matter how many times they’re torn down; they’re always going to get back up. 

Unrequited love is the most important topic at work in this poem. The speaker is dealing with a life-long issue - the person they love does not love them in return.

Escape me?

Never—

Beloved!

While I am I, and you are you,

The Secret

by John Clare

‘The Secret’, a poem by the English poet John Clare speaks on a speaker’s secrecy of feelings concerning a lady. This piece glorifies the beauty of the lady and the speaker’s dedication to her.

In ‘The Secret,’ the speaker describes keeping his love a secret from someone he cares greatly for. The speaker has to contend with that love for the rest of time, reflecting it onto other people and things forever.

I loved thee, though I told thee not,

Right earlily and long,

Thou wert my joy in every spot,

My theme in every song.

When You Are Old

by William Butler Yeats

William Butler Yeats’ poem ‘When You Are Old’ is directly addressed to his lover, most probably Maud Gonne who was an Irish revolutionary.

In this short poem by W.B. Yeats the speaker addresses someone whose youthful now but will eventually be “grey and full of sleep.” He tells this person that sometime in the future they will look back on their life and “one man” who “loved the pilgrim soul in you.”

When you are old and grey and full of sleep,

And nodding by the fire, take down this book,

And slowly read, and dream of the soft look

Your eyes had once, and of their shadows deep;

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Because I Liked You Better

by A. E. Housman

‘Because I Liked You Better’ by A. E. Housman is a love poem that taps on the theme of unrequited love. Like his “A Shropshire Lad” poems, it also touches on the theme of death.

In ‘Because I Liked You Better,’ the speaker hints at the poet’s own sexuality. It went unpublished during the poet’s lifetime but has since become well-known among lovers of Housman’s work. The speaker describes following his lover’s directive—to put them out of his mind and carry on with his life.

Because I liked you better

Than suits a man to say,

It irked you, and I promised

To throw the thought away.

Appeal

by Anne Brontë

Brontë’s ‘Appeal’ distills profound emotions of sorrow and longing into a plea for relief from life’s burdens, showcasing the power of simplicity in poetry.

In ‘Appeal,’ Brontë’s speaker describes how exhausted she is and how “sick of woe.” She’s living a lonely and heavy life, one that she’s ready to shake off. She asks the listener if they won’t “come to” her and relieve her suffering.

Oh, I am very weary,

Though tears no longer flow;

My eyes are tires of weeping,

My heart is sick of woe;

The Nightingale

by Philip Sidney

‘The Nightingale’ is a unique love-lyric that exploits the classical myth of Philomel to morph the personal rue of a lovelorn heart into a superb piece of poetry.

In the poem, the poet and also the speaker Philip Sidney talkes about unrequited love from the start. When the poem starts, he talks about the agony of his unrequited love and how much pain it gives and as the poem continues, he talks about the love that Procne had for his sister as well as the lust Tereus had for his wife's only sister Philomela. Sidney also compares his agony with Philomela's tragedy to justify his situation as the worst.

O Philomela fair, O take some gladness,

That here is juster cause of plaintful sadness:

Thine earth now springs, mine fadeth;

Thy thorn without, my thorn my heart invadeth.

Tutto Sciolto

by James Joyce

‘Tutto Sciolto’ by James Joyce ruminates over the melancholic depths our lovelorn anxieties can sink us into.

Of all the ambiguities in the poem, the most frustrating is the relationship between the speaker and the woman they love. Joyce doesn't divulge whether or not these two people are in a committed relationship — and the final stanza only muddles the reader's inferences further. What is clear is that the speaker believes this woman, who "yielded with a sigh" their love, doesn't truly have their heart set on those feelings

A birdless heaven, sea-dusk and a star

Sad in the west;

And thou, poor heart, love’s image, fond and far,

Rememberest:

He would not stay for me, and who can wonder

by A. E. Housman

‘He would not stay for me, and who can wonder’ appears in A. E. Housman’s “Additional Poems”. It taps on the themes of separation and leave-taking.

In this short poem, the speaker describes waiting for “him,” someone they care about, and wondering what could’ve happened in their life if things had been different. The speaker shakes their prospective lover’s hand and the two-part from one another.

He would not stay for me, and who can wonder?

  He would not stay for me to stand and gaze.

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