Who Is Kristen Stewart's Fiancée? All About Dylan Meyer

Kristen Stewart and Dylan Meyer started dating in 2019 and got engaged in 2021

Dylan Meyer (L) and Kristen Stewart attend the 27th Annual Critics Choice Awards at Fairmont Century Plaza on March 13, 2022 in Los Angeles, California
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Though she's been working in Hollywood for years, Dylan Meyer wasn't thrown into the spotlight until 2019 when she began dating Twilight actress Kristen Stewart.

The daughter of Oscar-nominated screenwriter Nicholas Meyer, Meyer has racked up numerous professional credits both as a writer and actress, most recently having worked on the screenplay for Amy Poehler's 2021 coming-of-age Netflix film, Moxie.

Meyer first met Stewart on a movie set in 2013 and the pair reconnected years later through a mutual friend, sparking a whirlwind romance.

"The day that I met her, it was like all bets were off," Stewart said during an appearance on The Howard Stern Show in November 2019.

In a February 2024 interview with Rolling Stone, Stewart explained why Meyer is the one for her.

“I found the right person because I can be so obsessive about what I do. And luckily my girlfriend, my partner, we are into the same s---” she said. “We have taken the things that we’re spending our time on and interlocked them, and we’re so much f------ smarter and stronger together. And you’re just like, ‘F---, that is the best.’ ”

So who is Kristen Stewart's fiancée? From Instagram tributes to getting engaged, here's everything to know about Dylan Meyer and her relationship with the actress.

She is a screenwriter and actress

Dylan Meyer and Kristen Stewart attend the CHANEL and Charles Finch Pre-Oscar Awards Dinner at the Polo Lounge on March 26, 2022 in Beverly Hills, California
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Following in the footsteps of her screenwriter father, Meyer works as a film and television writer.

Meyer has writing credits on films such as 2015's Loose Ends and 2016's XOXO, which stars Modern Family's Sarah Hyland. She also worked on eight episodes of the comedy series Miss 2059 from 2017 to 2018. Most recently, Meyer (along with Tamara Chestna), wrote the screenplay for Amy Poehler's 2021 coming-of-age film, Moxie.

While she is primarily a screenwriter, Meyer also has experience in front of the camera. Her acting credits include the short films The Death and Return of Superman, Wrestling Isn't Wrestling and Jem Reacts to the New Jem and the Holograms Trailer, as well as an episode of the TV series Homemade, in which she appeared alongside Stewart.

In May 2023, Meyer joined the ongoing Writers Guild of America strike.

"You may not know this but we (the writers) have struck because The Man is trying to get us down," she wrote on Instagram. "Without writers, your movies and tv shows will suck. Trust. Our fight for fair wages is so important we’ve been forced to walk around and wave signs about it - and we need your support! If you love stories tell the studios to value the storytellers!"

She first met Stewart in 2013

Though they didn't begin a romantic relationship until years later, Stewart met Meyer on the set of a movie in 2013.

During an appearance on The Howard Stern Show in November 2019, Stewart explained that she and Meyer first crossed paths on set and later reconnected through a mutual friend.

"I met her years ago on a movie and I hadn't seen her in six years, and then she rocked up at a friend's birthday party, and I was like, 'Where have you been, and how have I not known you?' She's been living in L.A. alongside my life somehow but not ever converging," Stewart said.

And as it turned out, the two had a lot in common. "We're both from L.A. and we really love L.A.," Stewart explained. "We both felt like trolls as kids. We're like so similar but different. She's a writer. She's brilliant."

She confirmed her relationship with Stewart on Instagram in October 2019

Kristen Stewart and Dylan Meyer
Dylan Meyer Instagram

Rumors about a romance between Stewart and Meyer began swirling in August 2019 when the pair were photographed kissing on a street curb in New York City just one month after Stewart and her ex-girlfriend Stella Maxwell, who broke up in December 2018, were spotted kissing in Italy.

Meyer finally made things Instagram official by sharing a black-and-white photo of the couple kissing on Oct. 27, 2019.

"Find me under the covers hiding from the happiness police. 🖤," she captioned the post.

She proposed to Stewart

In an interview with Howard Stern on Nov. 2, 2021, Stewart revealed that she and Meyer were engaged, and that the screenwriter was the one to propose.

"It's not a given that I would be the one, you know what I mean? Like, with two girls, you never know, like, who's going to fulfill what weird f---ing gender role thing and we don't do that or think about it in those terms," Stewart said.

She continued: "So I was like, 'Wait, well, I'm not the one for sure.' And so I was kind of joking for a bit, like, 'No, I want to be the one to propose, like, I want to be proposed to' and then she just grabbed that bowl and made it happen. It was f---ing so cute."

Stewart didn't share the details about the actual proposal, but she told Jimmy Fallon on The Tonight Show that Meyer "knocked it out of the park."

She and Stewart enjoy outings with friends

Kristen Stewart, Dylan Meyer and friends
Ashley Benson Instagram

In January 2022, Meyer and Stewart made a trip to Disneyland in Anaheim, California with a group of friends, which included Pretty Little Liars actress Ashley Benson.

On her Instagram Story, Benson shared a photo of the group inside the park's Star Wars: Galaxy's Edge section. She later posted another photo on her feed, in which the group is posing in front of Sleeping Beauty Castle wearing matching tie-dye Walt Disney sweatshirts.

"Family trips to Disney," Benson wrote in the caption.

She posts sweet tributes to Stewart on social media

Kristen Stewart and Dylan Meyer
Dylan Meyer Instagram

Stewart doesn't have social media, but that doesn't stop Meyer from sharing snippets of their relationship as well as sweet tributes to her fiancée.

On April 9, 2022, the screenwriter posted a photo of herself and Stewart kissing over a birthday cake in honor of the actress' 32nd birthday, writing, "Another one around the sun and you're out here getting flyer every year. Time looks good on you, dude. Ya know, as they say in the toons, 'awooga.' "

Meyer also shared a Valentine's Day tribute to Stewart in 2022. In the photo, the couple is wearing matching pajamas with coordinating sleep masks that read "dead tired" and zombie makeup. Meyer included the caption, "I'll play dead with you any time, Valentine."

In another post, the couple lay side-by-side on a large rug and Meyer wrote, "awful proud of this hard-working princess."

Kristen Stewart’s Fiance Dylan Meyer Posts Sweet Message for Valentine's Day
Kristen Stewart and Dylan Meyer. Dylan Meyer/instagram

On Valentine's Day 2023, Meyer marked the holiday by sharing three sweet photos of her and Stewart posing together. In the caption, Meyer recalled a fun and exciting night in a casino, finishing the story with, "And even this, the clear peak of my short time on earth, does not remotely come close to how it feels to spend a Monday night in sweatpants with you, valentine."

She supports Stewart's career

Dylan Meyer and Kristen Stewart attend the 94th Annual Academy Awards at Hollywood and Highland on March 27, 2022 in Hollywood, California
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In March 2022, Meyer supported Stewart as she made the rounds as an Academy Award nominee. Stewart was nominated for Best Actress for her portrayal of Princess Diana in Spencer.

The couple made their first public appearance at an Oscars party hosted by The Hollywood Reporter. Later that month, Meyer and Stewart made their red carpet debut at the 2022 Critics Choice Awards before attending the 2022 Academy Awards together.

In October 2023, Meyer was by Stewart's side at the Los Angeles premiere of the Hulu docuseries Living for the Dead. Stewart executive produced the project and serves as the spooky show's narrator.

She and Stewart are working on a film and TV show together

Dylan Meyer and Kristen Stewart attend the 2022 Vanity Fair Oscar Party hosted by Radhika Jones at Wallis Annenberg Center for the Performing Arts on March 27, 2022 in Beverly Hills, California
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In Vanity Fair's 28th annual Hollywood issue, Stewart revealed that she and Meyer are working on a new TV show together in which Stewart will star, and that they wrote the first episode in less than two weeks.

"We discovered a superbrain," Stewart said of the process. "She's a really genuinely brilliant f---ing screenwriter."

She also acknowledged the risks that come along with working with your partner, saying, "You don't want that to affect this beautiful relationship you have."

In June 2023, Stewart revealed to Interview magazine that she and Meyer are co-writing a film script.

"It’s a stoner girl comedy, and it’s really f------ stupid," she said.

She and Stewart are planning their future together

In her February 2024 cover story for Rolling Stone, Stewart opened up about her plans to start a family with Meyer in the near future. As both were busy filming their passion projects, Stewart said they didn't have it in them to have a big wedding, so they planned to simply tie the knot "soon."

As for children, Stewart is excited to have them. However, she said while she's not scared of being a mom, she is nervous about childbirth.

“I don’t know what my family’s going to look like, but there’s no fucking way that I don’t start acquiring kids,” she said. “And also, ideally at some point soon I go, ‘I want to have a kid.’ I really want that to happen.”