DRESSING TO IMPRESS: YOUR GUIDE TO COCKTAIL ATTIRE FOR WOMEN & MEN

Maybe you've just received an invitation to an event that specifies a cocktail dress code, or you're already somewhat familiar with the term but aren't quite sure which garments qualify.

Ahead, we cover cocktail attire basics for women and men, complete with styling tips and some very important dos and don'ts.

What Is Cocktail Attire?

Though it's technically inspired by the type of clothing typically worn to an evening cocktail party, this style is appropriate for other occasions as well. In fact, cocktail attire is perfect for semiformal weddings, business events, happy hours, fundraisers and other dressed-up celebrations. Cocktail attire is chic, sophisticated and polished—but not full-on formal. 

Whether you're figuring out what to wear as a guest to a summer wedding or planning an outfit for an upcoming work event, dressing in cocktail attire will help you feel confident and put together. Women can go one of two ways for cocktail ensembles: separates or a dress.

• Dresses: For cocktail dresses, opt for well-fitted styles that hit anywhere from midthigh to ankle. Some classic cocktail-dress silhouettes include A-line, sheath, wrap, empire and slip, but you can of course step outside of these bounds—as long as the dress reads as stylish and elegant.
• Separates: For separates, you can go with either pants or a skirt on the bottom. A fitted pantsuit is a cocktail attire classic that's easy to throw together. You could also try wide-leg pants or cigarette pants with a stylish top and blazer, or a dressy medium-length skirt with a pretty blouse.

Generally speaking, try to avoid casual fabrics like cotton, linen or spandex and instead opt for more refined textiles for a chicer look. And don't forget shoes and accessories to round out your outfit. An elegant crossbody bag or clutch will do the trick, and both statement and minimalist jewelry can complement your ensemble, depending on the look you're going for. As for shoes, pumps, kitten heels and dressed-up flats are all excellent choices for cocktail attire.

When an event calls for a cocktail dress code, that means you've got permission to look a little more polished and put together. The idea is to look dressed up without going full-blown black tie. This generally translates to wearing well-fitted slacks with a crisp button-up. For a slightly dressier take—which you may want to do for weddings—opt for a tailored suit with a blazer.

A coordinated tie is optional here, but if you feel like it pulls your outfit together, go for it. If it feels too stuffy, you can simply remove it. The same is true for a blazer. We suggest bringing either piece if you're unsure and then making the final call when you arrive at your event.

Dark colors are generally the go-to choice for men's cocktail attire (think navy, black or charcoal). However, opt for a lighter color palette—and breathable fabrics like linen and jersey—during spring and summer, particularly for beach weddings or other outdoor events. As for shoes, always wear a closed-toe semiformal style, such as an oxford, loafer or derby.

Cocktail Attire Etiquette: Dos & Don'ts

Cocktail attire straddles the line between formal and casual, which—we know—can make it a little tricky to navigate. When in doubt, err on the side of formal. In general, though, you should avoid the following:

• Street clothes like T-shirts, shorts and jeans
• Ripped jeans and other clothing
• Wrinkled garments
• Ill-fitting clothing
• Sneakers, flip-flops, sandals and casual boots
• Extremely short dresses or skirts
• Revealing or overly tight garments (if you're looking to add some va-va-voom, pick just one feature that lends that vibe and aim to keep the rest of your outfit more subdued)
• Overly dressy clothing like floor-length ball gowns, voluminous silhouettes, haute couture and tuxedos
• Wearing white or other very light hues like cream, silver or pale pink for cocktail dress codes at weddings—especially women, as their outfit may compete with the bride's dress (a major fashion faux pas!)

Keep the above tips in mind, but remember that some fashion rules are meant to be broken—and showing off your personal style is always welcome!