Margaret has taught both college and high school English and has a master's degree in English from Mississippi State University. She holds a Mississippi AA Educator License.
Sexuality & Love Quotes in Anne Frank's Diary of a Young Girl
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ShowPrior to her family's move to the Secret Annex to hide from the Nazis, Anne Frank lives the typical life of a teenage girl. She writes of turning away young suitors: 'You're probably a little surprised to hear me talking about admirers at such a tender age. Unfortunately, or not, as the case may be, this vice seems to be rampant at our school. As soon as a boy asks if he can bicycle home with me and we get to talking, nine times out of ten I can be sure he'll become enamored on the spot and won't let me out of his sight for a second. His ardor eventually cools, especially since I ignore his passionate glances and pedal blithely on my way,' Anne confides in her diary.
She admits to curiosity about male-female relationships, however. Her friend Jacque seems to have a bit more information about sexuality, and she enlightens Anne on a few matters. Jacque tells Anne where babies come from. 'Where the ingredients go in is where the finished product comes out!' Jacque says.
Anne writes, 'Jacque and I found out about the hymen, and quite a few other details, from a book on sex education. I also knew that you could keep from having children, but how that worked inside your body remained a mystery. When I came here, Father told me about prostitutes, etc., but all in all there are still unanswered questions. If mothers don't tell their children everything, they hear it in bits and pieces, and that can't be right.'
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After some months at the Secret Annex, Anne begins to become interested in Peter van Daan. Peter, who is a bit older than Anne, is the son of the other family living in the Secret Annex.
After time spent with Peter, Anne gushes to her diary: 'We talked about every imaginable thing, about trust, feelings and ourselves. Oh, Kitty, he was just as I thought he would be.'
Anne hopes the relationship will last. 'Whenever he looks at me with those eyes, with that smile and that wink, it's as if a light goes on inside me. I hope things will stay like this and that we'll have many, many more happy hours together.'
Anne and Peter have several rather frank conversations about sexuality. Anne writes, 'I was with Peter yesterday and, somehow, I honestly don't know how, we wound up talking about sex. I'd made up my mind a long time ago to ask him a few things. He knows everything; when I said that Margot and I weren't very well informed, he was amazed.'
Peter explains to Anne how contraceptives work, and later he displays the cat's sex organs for her to examine. 'This is the male sexual organ, these are a few stray hairs, and that's his backside,' Peter says. 'If any other boy had pointed out the 'male sexual organ' to me, I would never have given him a second glance,' Anne says. 'But Peter went on talking in a normal voice about what is otherwise a very awkward subject. Nor did he have any ulterior motives. By the time he'd finished, I felt so much at ease that I started acting normally too.'
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Anne's father, Otto Frank, believes that she may be spending too much time with Peter. He says that things would be different if the young people were not isolated from everyone else. Otto advises his daughter about her relationship with Peter. '. . .You must be the one to show restraint; don't go upstairs so often, don't encourage him more than you can help. In matters like these, it's always the man who takes the active role, and it's up to the woman to set the limits. Outside, where you're free, things are quite different.'
Eventually, Anne becomes convinced that her father has offered good advice, but she and Peter remain close friends while they live at the Secret Annex.
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Anne Frank has her share of admirers before she and her family are forced into hiding at the Secret Annex. Her first serious relationship, however, occurs when she becomes interested in Peter van Daan, the son of the other family living in the annex. Anne learns about sexuality primarily from her father and from Peter. She is comfortable speaking frankly with both. Though Anne hopes for a long-lasting relationship with Peter, her father, Otto Frank, eventually convinces her that it is best to avoid encouraging Peter's affections.
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