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Similar books about troubled/alienated women

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Some of the books I have loved recently include: My Year of Rest and Relaxation by Ottessa Moshfegh Milkfed by Melissa Broder Boy Parts by Eliza Clark Earthings and Convenience Store Woman by Sayaka murata Big Swiss by Jen Beagin

Hard to link together all these books concisely but I’d say they all have morally gray, cynical protagonists and a focus on mental illness. Very female-centered perspective in all of them as well especially with some shared themes like body image, sexual trauma and conformity. Dry humor is also a bonus. Anybody have a rec that fits the bill?

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The Bell Jar by Sylvia Plath might fit the bill

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{{Eileen}} by Ottessa Moshfegh is even better than my year of rest and relaxation 

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Eileen by Ottessa Moshfegh (Matching 100% ☑️)

272 pages | Published: 2015 | 15.0k Goodreads reviews

Summary: The Christmas season offers little cheer for Eileen Dunlop, an unassuming yet disturbed young woman trapped between her role as her alcoholic father's caretaker in a home whose squalor is the talk of the neighborhood and a day job as a secretary at the boys' prison, filled with its own quotidian horrors. Consumed by resentment and self-loathing, Eileen tempers her dreary days (...)

Themes: Mystery, Thriller, Historical-fiction, Book-club, Read-in-2016, Favorites, Literary-fiction

Top 5 recommended:
- My Year of Rest and Relaxation by Ottessa Moshfegh
- Animal by Lisa Taddeo
- Sad Janet by Lucie Britsch
- Jillian by Halle Butler
- Death in Her Hands by Ottessa Moshfegh

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Luster by Raven Leilani

You might want to check out The Piano Teacher, by Elfriede Jelinek. It's older - published in the early 80s, but there are some similarities between it and the books you've mentioned.

It has a unique writing style, kind of clinially metaphorical, quite sly. Deeply repressed protagonist, obsessed and repulsed by sex, oppressive psychosexual codependant relationship with her mother. It's not a romp, but it's excellent.

And more contemporary, Nightbitch, which came out recently. I found the first half so-so (parenting puts disproportionate expectations onto women even if they had thought themselves to be in an equal relationship with a modern man! Motherhood is incompatible with art! It's haaaaard to make mom-friends!) but thought the second half was superb, it might be the best first novel I've read in ages. (The opposite of Boy Parts, which I thought was really let down by the end)

Drive Your Plow Over the Bones of the Dead

A bit of a dark read but "My Dark Vanessa" is the story of an adult woman coming (or not) to terms with an inappropriate relationship she had as an early teen with her teacher.

Edit: no humour in this I'm afraid

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It’s just badly written, no craft no effort and titillating. 

The writer is a PhD in creative writing, don't think I'm in a position to say the book is poorly written.

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Doesn’t matter, she is into cheap marketing to push her titillating stuff with agenda sprinkled on it, it does tremendous injustice to the subject. 

Sorry do you have any examples? I really don't know what you're referring to

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Sorry do you have any example of the book being good ? Idk what you are referring to 

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Bunny by Mona Awad

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Already read it I’m afraid! Amazing book though, I love Mona Awad.

Ive only just started it but have you also read her book, Rouge?

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I have not, really liked All’s Well and 13 Ways of Looking at a Fat Girl though and so I’ll add to my list!

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Okay- this one is gonna be waaaay outside the norm but:

The Final Girls Support Group by Grady Hendrix posits a world in which the slasher films of the eighties really happened and the fallout from the so called “final girls” after surviving a massacre.

The main character might fit your bill nicely

I love these sorts of books, and can recommend You Too Can Have a Body Like Mine for like a very unhinged take on the theme involving weird commercials and the protag feeling like her best friend is stealing her life.

On the milder end of the spectrum, Conversations With Friends is very well written and shows a young woman who makes a disturbing amount of bad choices because she has no ability to actually express her emotions properly, but she's less "troubled" than my previous example. At least as troubled as the Milkfed girl, though.

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I love You Too Can Have a Body Like Mine, absolutely batshit crazy book. I’ll have to check out your other rec.

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This may be too intense/dark and not exactly what you were looking for but The Yellow Wallpaper by Charlotte Perkins Gilman. It’s about a woman who is made to „rest“ as her treatment after giving birth and is being isolated by force. As a result of this she loses her grasp on reality and develops a postpartum psychosis. The story is inspired by the author’s real life experience.

Han Kang: the Vegetarian

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Yukio Tsushima might interest you. Writing mostly about young single mothers in post war Japan, alienated by family and society and dealing with many relationship troubles all while trying to raise a child.

Migrations by Charlotte McConaughy

The Damages by Genevieve Scott

Very graphic, but The Wetlands by Charlotte Roche fits the criteria.

Anne Fine’s adult books - Fly In the Ointment, Raking the Ashes

Non fiction, but Three Women by Lisa T-something

I feel like you would like Natsuo Kirino. Grotesque is incredible in particular!

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What Was She Thinking: Notes on a Scandal by Zoe Heller

The Collected Regrets of Clover - Miki Bramner

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The Longings of Women by Marge Piercy,

Ashley Hutson - One's Company

The Main Character wins a lot of money in a lottery and decides to recreate the set of her favorite sitcom show.

Anxious/depressed women is my favorite genre too (:

I recommend: -Everyone in this Room will Someday be Dead by Emily Austin -Interesting Facts About Space by Emily Austin -Ripe by Sarah Rose Etter -Piglet by Lottie Hazel -My Husband by Maud Ventura -The Premonition by Banana Yoshimoto -Motherthing by Ainslie Hogarth -New Animal by Halle Butler -Hurricane Girl by Marcy Dermansky -Nevada by Imogen Binnie -Snowflake by Louise Nealon

Most of those authors have other great books (Moshfegh's Death in Her Hands and Eileen both fit the bill, as does Broder's Pisces and Beagin's Pretend I'm Dead).

Other book I've liked that sound up your alley:

  • No One is Talking About This by Patricia Lockwood

  • Any Man by Amber Tamblyn

  • Beautiful World Where Are You by Sally Rooney

  • All's Well by Mona Awad

  • Green Dot by Madeleine Gray

  • The Guest by Emma Cline

  • Looker by Laura Sims

  • Nightbitch by Rachel Yoder

To flood you with too many suggestions, Goodreads has some nice lists for what you're describing:

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  • The Inhabited Woman by Gioconda eBelli

  • My Brilliant Friend (series of four books) by Elena Ferrante

  • Cantoras by Carolina De Robertis

  • Snow Flower and the Secret Fan by Lisa See

  • Swing Time by Zadie Smith

  • A Room of One's Own by Virginia Woolf

  • Girl, Woman, Other by Bernardine Evaristo

  • Violeta by Isabel Allende

Mrs. Caliban by Rachel Ingalls!

Sorrow and Bliss by Meg Mason. Baby by Annaleese Jochams if you want alienated and very weird.

The World Cannot Give by Tara Isabella Burton

Astrid Sees All by Natalie Standiford

A Touch of Jen by Beth Morgan (this splits a pov with the boyfriend)

This Mournable Body by Tsitsi Dangaremba. It's the third part of a trilogy but can be read as a standalone as well. The descriptions of the protagonists anxiety really got under my skin.

Motherthing by Ainslie Hogarth might be up your alley. It was one of my favorite reads last year.

Maeve Fly by CJ Leede and A Certain Hunger by Chelsea Summers are also solid. They’re both about serial killers.