Mary Dudley Obituary (2022) - Colonie, NY - Albany Times Union

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Mary Dudley Obituary

Dudley, Mary Elaine COLONIE Mary Elaine Dudley, 84, passed away at her home on Wednesday, October 26, 2022. Born in Albany, she was the daughter of the late Theophilus "Mac" and Genevieve Cook McNay. Mary was a softball manager for many years for Colonie Girls Softball. She enjoyed gardening, playing card games, trivia (especially Jeopardy!), reading, day trips, yard sales, bowling, family dinners and General Hospital. Mary trapped, had spayed or neutered, and rehomed or released dozens of feral cats and was recognized by Friends of Animals for her efforts. Mary worked as a waitress and sous chef for a number of local restaurants, most recently for the Kuhn Senior Center in Colonie. Mary is survived by her daughters, Kathleen "Kate" Bergeron, and Jennifer and Karen Dudley. In addition, she will also be missed by her grandchildren, Jeremy, Austin and Logan Dudley and Evan and Connor Bergeron. She is also survived by five great-grandchildren, Brianna, Alexis, Lucy, Mason and a baby girl due in February; and several nieces, nephews and cousins. Mary was predeceased by her siblings, Larry and Tom McNay and Jane Zeh; by her lifelong friend, Shirley Lochner who passed in September of 2021; and William Dudley who was a great dad to his three daughters whom were often told, "You kids are my reason for living." The family would like to recognize her special son-in-law, Bruce Bergeron, who she loved dearly and who was so helpful to her throughout the years. Also, much gratitude to Tracey Noll, who went above and beyond with her love and support in every aspect. Calling hours will be held on Wednesday from 4 - 7 p.m. at New Comer Cremations & Funerals, 343 New Karner Rd., Colonie. A funeral service will be held on Thursday at 10 a.m. in the funeral home. Interment will follow in Calvary Cemetery. In lieu of flowers, memorial contributions may be made to the Community Hospice, 445 New Karner Rd, Albany, NY, 12205 or an animal rescue organization of your choice. To leave a special message for the family online please visit NewComerAlbany.com

Published by Albany Times Union from Oct. 30 to Nov. 1, 2022.
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I'll remember Mary anytime I see a garage sale, because we shared some good times when Karen and I tried to offload our stuff! I'm glad she's no longer in pain and know she's in Heaven with her loved ones.

Donna Millet

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November 1, 2022

Karen and Jen I am so sorry to hear about your mom. I have so many childhood memories that include all of you and our Colonie Girls Softball family. Thinking of you and you are all in my prayers. Love Dippy! aka Tracy (Kennedy) Davey. <3

Tracy Davey

November 1, 2022

So sorry for your loss. Your mom will be missed by many. She was a great soft ball manager as my daughters Suzy and Dawn were on her teams, we had a lot of fun. Prayers for blessings and comfort for your family.

Mary Ann Secor

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October 30, 2022

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