Elvis Was Torn When Lisa Marie Was Born
Nancy Sinatra (daughter of Frank) has said that her friend Elvis was torn "between happiness at his daughter's birth and sadness regarding the inequality and division of privilege in the world." “When Lisa Marie was born, E.P. phoned me to say how he was so moved by the experience,” Nancy has said. "But also he felt that it was not fair she would have all the benefits of being the daughter of a rich and famous dad, while a poor kid would face a life of want. “His heart was so full of love and pain that night,” she admitted. And Priscilla? Of course, she was happy on a certain level, but at 23 she also felt she had had her wings clipped way too soon.The First Few Years Were Tough For Elvis And Priscilla
When Lisa Marie came along, things were already tense between Priscilla and Elvis. David Adler's biography of Lisa Marie, Elvis: My Dad says: “[Priscilla] loved Elvis completely and intended to spend the rest of her life with him, but neither of them had planned to have a child right away. What would this mean for their life together? At Graceland [Elvis' mansion in Memphis], before she was pregnant, life had been an around-the-clock party." Cooks manned the kitchen 24-hours a day. Elvis would spend money lavishly. The couple did what they want to when they wanted to, "whether that meant staying up till 6 a.m. or taking off to Vegas at a moment’s notice. Plus, despite his career highs of the 1950s, it seemed Elvis' 1960s singing career was slowing down. Oh, he made some pretty bad movies, like Viva Las Vegas, but in an era that produced the Beatles and the Rolling Stones, he and his 50s style were made fun of. He had yet to create the outrageous costume-wearing persona of the 1970s. Lisa Marie remembers his taking her to some of his was over-the-top concerts. She loved them big time.Lisa Marie's Memories Of Childhood
According to OK! Magazine: "Lisa Marie remembers her childhood as magical, warm, and loving." When Elvis died in 1977, he was only 42-years old and Lisa Marie was "broken" by his death. Said one "insider": "She didn't see the dark side of Elvis — everything that went on behind the glitz and glamour. All she knew was her dad loved her and she loved him."
Even though she inherited piles of money, she was left devastated by her dad's early death.
As far as Lisa Marie was concerned, there was nothing but happiness at Graceland before Elvis' death. They would swim in the pool together and zoom around the estate in a Go-Cart.
Her granddad Vernon was around a lot. He made himself handy, cleaning the swimming pool and looking after Elvis' collection of cars. In fact, when Graceland did an exhibition of items from Lisa Marie's childhood in 2010, that Go-Cart was front row center.
Elvis did spoil Lisa Marie. In 1975 alone he arranged for her to meet her favorite singer Elton John on her seventh birthday. And that year she also met her future hubby, the 17-year-old Michael Jackson. Elvis did the honors, introducing the two.
Priscilla was fuming. Why? Well both before and after the 1973 divorce "Elvis, had spoiled his only daughter with expensive toys and gifts as she was growing up.."
According to AmoMama, Priscilla was the strict, "bad cop" to Elvis' "do anything for my little girl" good cop. Lisa Marie has said that because her mom was so strict, it hurt their relationship. She puts her hand up and admits that especially after Elvis' death when she went to live with Priscilla in Los Angeles, she was a bit of a tear-away who literally could make Priscilla's life a living hell.
Then it only got worse when Lisa Marie became addicted to opioids and rumors circulated that Lisa Marie's "diminishing financial status" was down to Priscilla.
Let's just say the two aren't all that chummy.
And today? A virtually broke Lisa Marie spends every Christmas at Graceland, remembering the good old days and what she and her dad got up to.