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Integrity: The Courage to Meet the Demands of Reality Paperback – June 2, 2009
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Integrity—more than simple honesty, it's the key to success. A person with integrity has the ability to pull everything together, to make it all happen no matter how challenging the circumstances. Drawing on experiences from his work, Dr. Henry Cloud, a clinical psychologist, leadership coach, corporate consultant and nationally syndicated radio host, shows how our character can keep us from achieving all we want to (or could) be.
In Integrity, Dr. Cloud explores the six qualities of character that define integrity, and how people with integrity:
- Are able to connect with others and build trust
- Are oriented toward reality
- Finish well
- Embrace the negative
- Are oriented toward increase
- Have an understanding of the transcendent
Integrity is not something that you either have or don't, but instead is an exciting growth path that all of us can engage in and enjoy.
- Print length304 pages
- LanguageEnglish
- Publication dateJune 2, 2009
- Reading age18 years and up
- Dimensions0.68 x 5.31 x 8 inches
- ISBN-10006084969X
- ISBN-13978-0060849696
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“[Integrity] lays out a transparent way to be a terrific leader by drawing on and improving your best traits.” — New York Times
“Let Henry Cloud teach you how to live an authentic life. This is a must-read!” — Ken Blanchard, Co-Author, The One-Minute Manager
“Dr. Henry Cloud is an expert in helping leaders see hos their character development is essential to their effectiveness.” — Denis Beausejour, Consultant and former Global Vice President of Marketing, The Procter & Gamble Company
“Dr. Cloud will show you how to produce the results you are looking for in your work and personal life.” — Dr. Phil McGraw, #1 New York Times bestselling author and host of the Dr. Phil show
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About the Author
Dr. Henry Cloud is an acclaimed leadership expert, psychologist, and New York Times bestselling author whose books have sold over 10 million copies. In 2014, Success magazine named Dr. Cloud one of the top 25 most influential leaders in personal growth and development. He graduated from Southern Methodist University with a BS in psychology and completed his PhD in clinical psychology at Biola University.
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Integrity
The Courage to Meet the Demands of RealityBy Henry CloudHarperCollins Publishers
Copyright © 2008 Henry CloudAll right reserved.
ISBN: 9780060849696
Chapter One
the three essentials
my friend, being the obsessive mother that she is, asked me for a favor. She and her husband have two boys, who at the time were nineteen and twenty-one, and at that point in life where they were staring adulthood right in the face. I think she wanted to make sure that it was not they who blinked, so she asked me to perform that kind of end-around move whereby you parent your kids secretly through someone else without their knowing what hit them.
We were having dinner one night when she said, "Would you take the boys out for lunch and talk to them about success? They have been asking a lot of questions about how some people become so successful, and how they make it 'big.' I thought you could help give them some guidance while they were in the asking mode."
"Hmm," I said, "probably not. That's really not my field, success. I don't know much about it, so I wouldn't really know what to say. Why don't you call Zig Ziglar?" I was thinking about all of that literature with principles of success, how to make it big, how to reach the top, etc., and that was just not an area where I spent a lot of time. So, I politely declined, hoping a little humor would get her off this track.
"Oh, come on," she protested. "They are twenty years old. You know enough to give them some things to think about. You have done a lot of things and worked with a lot of successful people. How hard can this be? Just take them out and tell them something. It doesn't have to be that perfect, just give them some things to think about. Push them a little in the right direction."
Feeling that I had been a little dismissive of the idea, I relented. "OK, I'll take them out and tell them something."
"Great! What will you tell them?" she immediately asked.
"I don't know. I'll have to think about it and come up with something."
"Yeah, but what do you think that will be?"
"I don't know," I repeated. "I'll think about it and give them something that will at least get them thinking."
"Yeah, but when you do think about it, what do you think it will be?"
I could see that this was a mother on a mission, and I was not getting off the hook. So, I thought for a moment about some really successful people that I know or have worked with and, off the top of my head, gave her an instant formulation for becoming a successful person or leader, while trying to remain true to my area of expertise as she was trying to morph me into a motivational speaker.
"OK, here is what I will tell them," I said. "People who become leaders, or really successful, tend to have three qualities. Number one, they have some set of competencies. In other words, they know their field, their industry, their discipline, or whatever. If you are Bill Gates, it helps to know something about the computer industry. If you are going to be a leading surgeon, you have to know what you are doing. In other words, you can only fake it for so long, boys. So, get yourself in the library or wherever and master your craft. Get good at what you do. A CEO has mastered a set of competencies in the same way. You just have to get good at what you do, period. There are no shortcuts.
"But," I continued in my miniseminar, "there are a lot of people who are competent and good at what they do who don't get to be leaders or 'hugely' successful. They do a good job, are happy and fulfilled, but they are not the ones that are catching your boys' attention. For someone to get to the level of accomplishment that they are asking about, he or she must possess the second ability. They have to be what I would call an alliance builder. In other words, they have to take their competencies and what they do well and build alliances with others who have competencies and resources and form relationships that are mutually beneficial. As a result, they leverage what they do well to much greater heights than just being 'good' at their job. They create alliances that make things a lot bigger. They forge relationships and partnerships with people like investors, regulators, distribution channels, their boards, city governments, Wall Street, or whoever it is that has the capacity to make what they are doing bigger.
"Even within a company, they have to form alliances with other parts of the company to be successful and move their agenda forward. Otherwise, they are just moving their little piece. There is nothing wrong with that, but again, people who make their 'piece' bigger always multiply it with things outside of themselves. They have to learn to build these alliances if they are going to be 'successful' in the way that they are talking about. If a person who leads sales can forge an alliance with the production group, he can get what he needs on time to satisfy the market. And, the production group can feel like their interests are met at the same time. Alliance building is key to success and leadership. It is more than 'networking,' which is often just a synonym for leeching. Alliances are about creating leverage to take what you do to a multiple.
"Now, having said that, let's get to the real issue that I would want to talk to them about. I would tell them that the people who possess the first two abilities are a dime a dozen. There is no shortage of talented, brainy people who are very, very good at what they do and are able to work the system and schmooze other people to get things done. . . .
Continues...
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Product details
- Publisher : Harper Business; Reprint edition (June 2, 2009)
- Language : English
- Paperback : 304 pages
- ISBN-10 : 006084969X
- ISBN-13 : 978-0060849696
- Reading age : 18 years and up
- Item Weight : 8 ounces
- Dimensions : 0.68 x 5.31 x 8 inches
- Best Sellers Rank: #156,947 in Books (See Top 100 in Books)
- #1,664 in Christian Self Help
- #2,244 in Leadership & Motivation
- #2,578 in Success Self-Help
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About the author
Dr. Cloud is a New York Times and Wall Street Journal bestselling author, and his books have sold nearly 20 million copies. His leadership book, Integrity, was dubbed by the New York Times as "the best book in the bunch." In 2011, Necessary Endings was called "the most important book you read all year." His book "Boundaries For Leaders" was named by CEO Reads in the top five leadership books of its year. Dr. Cloud's work has been featured and reviewed by the New York Times, Wall Street Journal, Boston Globe, Publisher's Weekly, Los Angeles Times, and many other publications. Success Magazine named Dr. Cloud in the top 25 most influential leaders in personal growth and development, alongside Oprah, Brene Brown, Seth Godin and others. He is a frequent contributor to CNN, Fox News Channel, and other national media outlets.
In his leadership consulting practice, Dr. Cloud works with CEOs, Fortune 500 companies and smaller private businesses alike. He has an extensive executive coaching background, and experience as a leadership consultant, devoting the majority of his time working with CEOs, leadership teams and executives to improving performance, leadership skills, and culture. He also has a specialty in high net worth family offices.
His experience includes three decades as a consultant, and as an entrepreneur he started and grew a successful chain of treatment centers in over 40 cities across the western United States. His experience running a business of this magnitude lends credibility to his expertise on leadership matters in the companies with which he works.As a speaker, Dr. Cloud has shared the stage with many business and global leaders and experts, such as Tony Blair, Jack Welch, Condoleezza Rice, Desmond Tutu, President George Bush, Marcus Buckingham, Magic Johnson, Peyton Manning and many others.Dr. Cloud is a graduate of Southern Methodist University, with a B.S. in psychology. He completed his Ph.D. in clinical psychology at Biola University, and his clinical internship at Los Angeles County Department of Mental Health. His philanthropic interests lie in homelessness in the inner city, as well as missions in the developing world. He lives in Los Angeles with his wife, Tori, and their two daughters, Olivia and Lucy. He enjoys golf, scuba diving, boating and fishing.
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I enjoyed the examples taken from business and the personal realm. I could relate to everything he said about the importance of having an integrated character and how, even though you may be a wonderful and nice person, there may be aspects of your character that hold you back in life. These character issues, as he calls them, really do hinder us as humans on so many levels and yet they can be so subtle! It takes a trained eye to see that it's an issue.
I thought the book was great also because it set the standard for what good character looks like. It's easy to brush things off and say they're not important, but he shows how every aspect of our character is important to work on because it can have huge consequences in our lives and, ultimately, we lose.
I will actually really enjoy reading another book on the same topic with examples only from the personal realm to see how our inability to face reality, our lack of trust, our ability to deal with negativity, and our orientation towards froth, transcendence and results would impact our relationships.
I couldn't put the book down. Highly recommend anyone read it who is interested in figuring out what good character really looks like and why we put up with less around us and, more importantly, in ourselves. The message I took away from it was: never stop trying to be the best version of yourself and don't leave any some unturned.
There are many different ways to define integrity. Clinical psychologist Henry Cloud offers a thorough examination of how to examine and improve one's character. His business and personal examples stress becoming a fully integrated person in all aspects of life.
Filled with many practical but challenging principles toward self-improvement. I loved the perspective and approach to examining six dimensions of character outlined by Dr Cloud.
Encouraging and inspirational.
Highly recommend. Check it out.
Focusing on integrity as a kind of courage is brilliant. It explains both the need for integrity, and gives a basic principles for practicing integrity that apply to everyone, no matter what kind of work or life a person may lead. His basic premise could be summed up by saying that if you don't face the real world, the real world will kick your rear.
This book had a profound impact on how I understood myself, the business world, politics, and several other aspects of my life. Importantly, it identified why otherwise intelligent, reasonable, and successful people can make incredibly bad decisions in certain circumstances. If you want to avoid making the same mistakes over and over again, Integrity is a great place to start.