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7 Reasons Dating A Younger Man Is A Smart Choice | Treena Orchard | YourTango
But of the romantic experiences I've had, I've found there are amazing benefits to datingyounger men that may get looked over. The ones who float my boat the most are usually 10 to 15 years younger than me, fit, good looking, and smart.
Contrary to the image of a cougar hunting her unsuspecting prey, they come to me in a steady stream of matches à la Bumble or Tinder. And they do so because I’m older.
Where do we find these men? What else are they interested in besides sex? And why are they the smart choice for older women?
Here are 7 surprising reasons why datingyounger men is a smart choice for many older women.
1. There are more of them.
Because young men have grown up with smartphones and tech more broadly, they use apps to date — and so should you! There are literally millions of young men on dating platforms of all varieties, languages, and sexual interests.
In contrast, guys between the ages of 35 and 45 make up a smaller pool because they are married, in monogamous relationships, or reluctant to date digitally.
They also mention animals, the environment, and fashion, which I’m interested in, too. Whereas guys my age seem driven to be seen as young, hence the abundance of extreme parachuting photos and words like “vigorous” and “youthful” in their profiles.
Lots of men on dating apps say they’re into fitness, but the young ones seem more committed to it. This is evidenced by their profile pics, most of which are taken in front of a mirror (think: “gym rat”).
The gym is essential to modern dating, school, and work. These things are important in my everyday life, too, except it’s yoga over the gym, and as a university professor, school is work.
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And they are not just eager to learn new moves, they seem equally interested in learning how to better understand women sexually.
5. They have less baggage.
Younger guys have fewer or less-complex personal issues compared to older men, and they are less demanding of my emotional energy.
They don’t run away when I share difficult experiences and talk about managing various life challenges. In fact, they often use these moments to discuss their own issues and how they want to enrich their lives (i.e., career, wellness, travel).
6. They're really into me.
When I ask my dates why they are into older women, they say that the sex is usually fantastic, we know what we want in life, we’re interesting, and we tend to have our shit together. Amen.
Being desired is satisfying and feels especially powerful in a culture that demeans women as we age. And, let’s be honest, the hot teacher fantasy is alive and well — cue the Van Halen and apple emojis.
Treena Orchard is an author, dating expert, and wellness mentor who wants to help you live your best life and create long-lasting relationships! For more information on how she can help you, visit her website.