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My dad mispronounced "diabetes" and completely distracted me from the news of my grandpa's diagnosis.

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My grandpa is 87 years old and is in an nursing home. Unfortunately, we are losing him to Alzheimer's. He doesn't get a lot of physical activity and, because of his Alzheimer's, will often overeat.

He has gained a lot of weight since entering the nursing home and has since been diagnosed with Type 2 Diabetes.

I live about 1,600 miles away from home, so I have long phone calls with my Boomer parents every week or two to catch up. My dad always tells me about how my grandpa is doing.

Well, this particular time I called, my Boomer dad breaks the news to me that grandpa had been diagnosed with Type 2 Diabetes, but my dad pronounced it as "diabetuhs" like Wilford Brimley, which has become a popular meme.

At first I thought he was trying to bring some levity to the situation by mispronouncing it, but then he said it again and I realized he was being serious. Unfortunately, I was so distracted by the fact that he said it as "diabetuhs" again, I had to stifle my laughter on the phone.

I didn't want to call my dad out or make him feel bad while he is trying to manage care for my grandpa, so I haven't said anything about how it should be pronounced.

Unfortunately, now I can't think of my grandpa having diabetes without laughing when remembering how my dad foolishly mispronounced it. I'm sorry, grandpa!

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Your dad wasn't being foolish, that pronunciation is actually an accepted one: https://www.merriam-webster.com/dictionary/diabetes

It's just an 'older' pronunciation and not as common these days. With all the memes, I can totally understand why you'd assume it's incorrect, but it's fine! Just unusual currently.