Cindy Crawford on ‘Survivor Guilt’ of Losing Only Brother as a Child: ‘My Dad Really Wanted a Boy’ – F*XOXO


Cindy Crawford on ‘Survivor Guilt’ of Losing Only Brother as a Child: ‘My Dad Really Wanted a Boy’

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    >”My dad wanted a boy, so the fourth was the boy. And I think that there was a lot of guilt … there’s that survivor guilt of the other kids, especially because we knew that my dad really wanted a boy, and we felt like, well, it should have been one of us,” she continued. “It was so weird for years.”

    >”Just recently, I was doing some coaching through COVID, I actually had time to do real work, and I realized that one of the questions the coach asked me was something like, ‘What did you need to hear at that time that you didn’t hear?’ and **I realized — and my mom wouldn’t have known to say this, she was 26 years old and had just lost a child — but I needed to hear, ‘Yes, we’re so sad that Jeff died, but we’re so happy you are here,’** ” Cindy added.

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