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What will Allah swt do about someone who Humiliated me

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A few years ago during my final school year when i was 17, i had a girl who used me and constantly dragged me to get attention finally pulled my last straw and stated something so undignifying it gave me a full blown anxiety attack. On a discussion taking place before the exam meaning everyone would be active and watching the discussion within google classrooms where we share a class with boys and girls, one of which of the members was my crush. The phrase being “oh name you cry because boy didn’t give me attention, which wasn’t remotely true, trying to make a rumour not in front of the girls only but the boys too who would spread it which i couldn’t do anything about, since our schools’ policy never allowed us to communicate to the boys unless within the same class. And i never processed it immediately but only a few days after did i get so angry with the comment i threw so much texts blowing up her phone stating what she done to me including swearing at her but she was acting so clueless it made me twice as angry. This was 3 years ago but it still bothers me to this day and whenever i see her at uni, naturally i would want to get revenge as reaction of my hatred for her but whenever i see her i can’t say anything. I look at her and still see she’s so happy, it fuels me with hatred that she humiliated me and still gets to live so happily. No one knows what she done except me and i’m the only one who remembers. I’m not someone who’s easily forgiving either and from time to time whenever i think about this i can’t find peace in my life. I don’t want to be a bad person wanting revenge but i just can’t help feeling so much anger. That’s when i think about it and think what will Allah do for me in this situation because this event still causes me so much suffering from time to time. I just think it’s not fair, i keep thinking will she go without consequence ? I really don’t want to be a person full of hatred and anger but when i think about this specific situation i can’t help it. What will occur to recompensate me?

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Not even a single atom will be free from judgement in the next life. Allah will either punish that person in this world or the next, one way or the other. Now if you decide to forgive them, Allah would reward you accordingly, even if you don’t forgive them, Allah will reward your patience. Allah loves those who are patient.

Thank you for this beautiful insight ☺️

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Abu Huraira reported: The Messenger of Allah, peace and blessings be upon him, said, “The rights of justice will surely be restored to their people on the Day of Resurrection, even the hornless sheep will lay claim to the horned sheep.”

Source: Ṣaḥīḥ Muslim 2582

Grade: Sahih (authentic) according to Muslim

Even if hornless sheep was hit by a horned sheep on earth, Allah Subhanahu Wa Taala will take care of it and give that hornless sheep a justice. If Allah does that even for animals, you think Allah will not hold people accountable for the harm and humiliation they caused upon others? Day of Judgment has its name because this Day, no one will escape justice for anything they have done in their lives.

Thank you for this 

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Ofcourse dear. Please reach out 24/7 in my DMs about anything no matter how small. Even if you don't understand a single verse of the Qur'an, reach out and InshaAllah we will work on understanding it together and benefit from it InshaAllah

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