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Famous Father Girl: A Memoir of Growing Up Bernstein Hardcover – June 12, 2018


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The oldest daughter of revered composer/conductor Leonard Bernstein offers a rare look at her father on the centennial of his birth in a deeply intimate and broadly evocative memoir

The composer of On the Town and West Side Story, chief conductor of the New York Philharmonic, television star, humanitarian, friend of the powerful and influential, and the life of every party, Leonard Bernstein was an enormous celebrity during one of the headiest periods of American cultural life, as well as the most protean musician in twentieth century America. 

But to his eldest daughter, Jamie, he was above all the man in the scratchy brown bathrobe who smelled of cigarettes; the jokester and compulsive teacher who enthused about Beethoven and the Beatles; the insomniac whose 4 a.m. composing breaks involved spooning baby food out of the jar. He taught his daughter to love the world in all its beauty and complexity. In public and private, Lenny was larger than life.

In Famous Father Girl, Bernstein mines the emotional depths of her childhood and invites us into her family’s private world. A fantastic set of characters populates the Bernsteins’ lives, including: the Kennedys, Mike Nichols, John Lennon, Richard Avedon, Stephen Sondheim, Jerome Robbins, and Betty (Lauren) Bacall.

An intoxicating tale, Famous Father Girl is an intimate meditation on a complex and sometimes troubled man, the family he raised, and the music he composed that became the soundtrack to their entwined lives. Deeply moving and often hilarious, Bernstein’s beautifully written memoir is a great American story about one of the greatest Americans of the modern age.

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“A wry and wonderful memoir.... Jamie is in print a warm but unsparing eyewitness: peeking poignantly from the wings as her progenitor glories, sifting through the jumbo pillbox when he starts to fall apart.” — New York Times

Famous Father Girl paints a winning picture of the Bernstein family, especially her parents, the much-celebrated Lenny and the much-loved Felicia, while offering a poignant take on the complexities of growing up as the child of a legend—or, for that matter, as anybody’s child.” — Adam Gopnik

“Bernstein’s jaw-dropping honesty and humor gives us the best example of the ‘growing up famous’ genre since Brooke Hayward’s classic Haywire.” — John Guare

“Seduction might have been his greatest talent, one countered by his daughter’s aptitude for truth-telling. Her memoir portrays a man whose weaponized ego fits perfectly into American celebrity culture, but it’s also a story of how his daughter survived that ego to become her own woman, even as she remains intent on keeping her father’s legacy alive. By preserving his legacy, Jamie honors her father as both a great talent and a complex human being.” — Washington Post

“Jamie Bernstein’s book about her fabled father not only takes us closer to Leonard Bernstein than anything yet published but stands by itself as a beautifully written and unflinchingly courageous expression of love, exasperation, amazement and forgiveness.” — Tim Page, Professor of Journalism and Music at the University of Southern California

Famous Father Girl is unique among classical-music memoirs for its physical intimacy, its humor and tenderness, its ambivalence toward an irrepressible family genius. . . . The existence of this well-written book, with its poignancy and its shuddery detail. . . is a mark of [Jamie Bernstein’s] sanity and survival. In telling [her father’s] story, she got to write her own.” — New Yorker

“An intimate look at the famous, and famously private, musician, whose 7 Emmys only begin to scratch the surface of his musical achievements.” — Vanity Fair

“Readers are taken behind the scenes into what most would consider a fantasy life. There were vacations, Beatles concerts, luxury apartments and dinner parties with famous guests. To many readers, Jamie Bernstein’s childhood will seem charmed. Alas, the family has its issues. Readers may find interesting the (largely) bygone era of extravagance, and and tales of a quirky, yet average American family who got to experience the extraordinary.” — Associated Press

“Yes, Famous Father Girl is a love letter. It is also honest.” — WOSU Radio

“Growing up in the presence of a super famous parent is no easy thing. Jamie Bernstein presents an undisguised and understanding picture of her father, family, and friends. She chronicles her emergence as a partisan of ideals in which they believed. The book is full of inside stories and personal perspectives on the inspiring, spontaneous, and often no-holds-barred challenges of Bernstein’s multiple worlds.” — Michael Tilson Thomas

“Making her literary debut, broadcaster and filmmaker Jamie Bernstein offers an intimate, gossipy, and candid memoir of growing up the eldest child of renowned conductor and composer Leonard Bernstein (1918-1990). . . . A cleareyed portrait of a spirited, and troubled, family.” — Kirkus

“[In Famous Father Girl,] Bernstein paints a fascinating picture of the dizzying magic that Leonard Bernstein brought to his music—and the complexity to his home life.” — Publishers Weekly

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In a deeply intimate and broadly evocative memoir, the eldest daughter of revered composer-conductor Leonard Bernstein offers a rare look at her father on the centennial of his birth.

The composer of On the Town and West Side Story, chief conductor of the New York Philharmonic, television star, humanitarian, friend of the powerful and influential, and the life of every party, Leonard Bernstein was an enormous celebrity during one of the headiest periods of American cultural life, as well as the most protean musician in twentieth-century America.

But to his eldest daughter, Jamie, he was above all the man in the scratchy brown bathrobe who smelled of cigarettes; the jokester and compulsive teacher who enthused about Beethoven and the Beatles; the insomniac whose composing breaks at four a.m. involved spooning baby food out of the jar. He taught his daughter to love the world in all its beauty and complexity. In public and in private, Lenny was larger than life.

In Famous Father Girl, Bernstein mines the emotional depths of her childhood and invites us into her family’s private world. A fantastic set of characters populates the Bernsteins’ lives, including the Kennedys, Mike Nichols, John Lennon, Richard Avedon, Stephen Sondheim, Jerome Robbins, and Betty (Lauren) Bacall.

An intoxicating tale, Famous Father Girl is an intimate meditation on a complex and sometimes troubled man, the family he raised, and the music he composed that became the soundtrack to their entwined lives. Deeply moving and often hilarious, Bernstein’s beautifully written memoir is a great American story about one of the greatest Americans of the modern age.

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  • Publisher ‏ : ‎ Harper; First Edition (June 12, 2018)
  • Language ‏ : ‎ English
  • Hardcover ‏ : ‎ 400 pages
  • ISBN-10 ‏ : ‎ 0062641352
  • ISBN-13 ‏ : ‎ 978-0062641359
  • Item Weight ‏ : ‎ 1.47 pounds
  • Dimensions ‏ : ‎ 6 x 1.25 x 9 inches
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Reviewed in the United States on March 16, 2024
Great book, well written, fascinating insight into the lives of a famous family. MUCH more interesting than the tedious movie, Maestro.
Reviewed in the United States on July 7, 2021
I bought this book for a couple of reasons: I am writing an article about Leonard Bernstein and thought this book could give me some additional perspective; plus I've always had some curiosity about Jamie Bernstein, whom I remember hearing about during my own childhood (she was born one year before I was).

Memoirs always have limitations because they are personal recollections structured around what the rememberer regards as important, so as a memoir, this book is interesting and does give a more complicated perspective on Leonard Bernstein. For that, I am grateful that I bought the book.

On the other hand, the parts Jamie Bernstein writes about herself, which I was eager to read, are rather lacking in detail and texture. She has more to say about her father, her family, and various not-so-interesting boyfriends than she says about her own ambitions, causes, triumphs, and failures, and how being a famous father girl impacted them. I wanted more of HER.

The other thing that slightly annoyed me is that, although she fleetingly acknowledges that she has enjoyed tremendous privilege, much of the narrative seems so unreflective, sometimes recounting stories that could be episodes from lifestyles of the rich and famous. Her famous father was not at all humble, but at least he felt guilty enough about his privilege that he advocated for and donated money to important causes.

Altogether, I liked this book and recommend that others read it, but I also hope that Jamie Bernstein revises it and tells us more—and more reflectively—about herself.
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Reviewed in the United States on December 31, 2023
In depth history of the family dynamics of the "Bernsteins". Lots of name dropping without the ego. Just matter of fact for the written but intriguing for the reader since growing up in that Era, I had heard of those folks. I was raised on Children's Youth Concerts. Music was in my DNA. Sad to learn however of the deep use of drugs by her father but then in those days, folks were ignorant of smoking and long term effects of drugs.

I thoroughly enjoyed the last few chapters to see how his children blossomed. Great book.
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Reviewed in the United States on November 14, 2020
I loved this book. It hooked me for many reasons: I'm the same age as Jamie; I'm also a writer, Jewish and from New York so related to many cultural references. I grew up with her father's name a household word. But perhaps most importantly, this book shows JB to be an excellent writer. Her style, language, and sense of humor made the book difficult to put down. I got so involved with the story of her and her family and friends, that I found myself in the proverbial reaction of both laughing and crying.

Considering the world of privilege JB was born into and that inhabits the pages of this book, the writing is wonderfully unpretentious... except for one thing: no one I ever knew from NY ever called their mother "Mummy" -- but I'm assuming it was due to her mother not being from New York that the family called her that. Also, I'd normally have felt some envy, reading about and comparing the details of her life to mine, but I didn't and that's to the writer's credit. I felt like Jamie could have been a friend of mine.

In addition to the emotional connections I felt, I also learned a lot about Leonard, music, and other people, places and things in the music world and other areas of the arts.

I hope Jamie Bernstein goes on to write more books. I'm sure both her parents, especially LB, would love her writing talent. Thank you, JB, for a great read and for all the other important things you contribute to the world.
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Reviewed in the United States on April 7, 2023
This book is in in-depth look at the great composer/director of the 20th century. This book deeply affected me. I am an affectionate of classical music, listen to Sirius Symphony hall every day & regale Preston Trombly discussing directing & LB. The book is part biography mixed with autobiography from Jamie. I could easily have done without the discussion of LB’s sex life. (I didn’t need to know about that.). I would have liked more about collaboration with Sondheim & others.
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Reviewed in the United States on May 10, 2024
So much better than the film Maestro. Great insight to life with Leonard Bernstein.

Top reviews from other countries

Anne Marie Stordiau
5.0 out of 5 stars Even better than the movie
Reviewed in the United Kingdom on January 15, 2024
A candid portrait of the Bernstein family by a daughter who knows about life and music. I enjoyed it so much, unputdownable!
Califrance
5.0 out of 5 stars votre enquête
Reviewed in France on October 14, 2018
Vous pouvez lire mes commentaires (s' ils vous intéressent vraiment) dans la revue musicale Res Musica.
Saweia
5.0 out of 5 stars Großartig!
Reviewed in Germany on October 27, 2018
Leonard Bernstein war ein wunderbarer Dirigent und Komponist und eine faszinierende Persönlichkeit. Seine älteste Tochter Jamie zeigt in ihrem Buch auf berührende Weise, wie viel es seiner Familie (insbesondere seiner Ehefrau Felicia) zugemutet hat, an seiner Seite (und meist in seinem Schatten) zu stehen. Sie holt den Maestro Bernstein vom Sockel, tut das aber so liebevoll, dass man ahnt: sie hätte trotz allem keinen anderen Vater haben wollen. Nebenbei bietet das Buch viele interessante Anekdoten aus Bernsteins musikalischem Umfeld. Für Bernstein-Fans, die „Lenny“ auch menschlich nahekommen möchten, ein unbedingter Lese-Tipp!
S. M. Grant
5.0 out of 5 stars Engrossing!!
Reviewed in Australia on January 22, 2024
Having just watched Maestro, this book was the perfect segue to more intimate detail on Leonard Bernstein - his charisma, the mystery and the man as father, husband and musical legend.
HoldFast
5.0 out of 5 stars Insightful
Reviewed in Canada on August 3, 2018
Well written.