The Meaning Behind The Song: A Love of Your Own by Howard Hewett
As a music teacher and a lifelong piano player, I have always been drawn to songs that encapsulate the essence of love and its many complexities. One such song that holds a special place in my heart is “A Love of Your Own” by Howard Hewett. I first stumbled upon this beautiful melody during a casual jam session with some friends, and from the moment the first notes filled the room, I was captivated.
Released as part of Hewett’s album titled “It’s Time” in 1994, “A Love of Your Own” is a heartfelt ballad that explores the significance of giving and receiving love. The lyrics speak volumes and offer profound insight into the nature of relationships.
“The sooner you give, the sooner you get to have
A love of your own
The longer it takes, the better you come to know
A love of your own, ooh”
These opening lines set the tone for the entire song, emphasizing the importance of vulnerability and taking chances in matters of the heart. Hewett encourages listeners not to be afraid of giving their all, as it is through love’s reciprocity that one can truly experience the joy of having a love of their own.
“Now don’t you be afraid, to give your heart
You never know till you try it, yeah
Don’t deny it to yourself”
In these lines, Hewett acknowledges the fear that often accompanies vulnerability. He urges individuals to overcome their apprehensions and embrace the possibility of finding love. The song’s message reminds me of the countless times I’ve encouraged my students to step out of their comfort zones and approach music with an open heart.
“Don’t be afraid, just walk right on in
The door is standing open, you know I’m always hoping”
Here, Hewett uses the metaphor of an open door to symbolize the opportunities that await those willing to give love a chance. Love, like music, requires an invitation to enter one’s life. Hewett’s words resonate deeply with me, as I often see my students hesitating at the keyboard, unsure of their abilities. Through this song, I convey to them that embracing their talents will open doors to beautiful musical experiences.
The chorus of “A Love of Your Own” emphasizes the steadfast pursuit of love:
“For, A love of My own, to shelter me from the cold
A love of My own
A love of My own you’re never too far behind
A love of your own”
These lines highlight the longing for a love that provides solace and comfort. The mention of being “never too far behind” indicates that love is always within reach, if one remains persistent and hopeful. As a music teacher, I often find myself paralleling this sentiment to the perseverance required in mastering an instrument.
The song concludes with a powerful message:
“You’ve got to keep looking till you find
A love of your own”
Hewett’s closing words serve as a reminder that love is a journey, and it may take time and patience to discover the kind of love that truly belongs to you. I share this sentiment with my students when they feel discouraged in their musical pursuits. Just as finding the right love takes time, so does finding your own unique musical voice.
Overall, “A Love of Your Own” by Howard Hewett resonates deeply with me as a music teacher and piano player. Its poignant lyrics and enchanting melody capture the essence of love’s journey and the intrinsic connection between music and matters of the heart. This song serves as a reminder to both my students and myself that love, like music, requires vulnerability, perseverance, and an unwavering belief that we all deserve a love of our own.
