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Is this an accident waiting to happen?

So me and this girl have been on and off for about 4 years. we are currently together and im starting to see one of my closest friends give off signs that he wants her. Sometimes we joke around and he says "you know I could really have her if I wanted to" this just makes me feel uneasy. And besides the fact that they speak literally everyday when im not talking to her is a bit odd. I jokingly got my friend mad one time and he said that he would spread a lie about me saying that I would cheat on her. When we recently got back together she told me he said that he was disappointed in her and she could've done better. She went out of her way one time to go all the way to his house which was an hour away just to go braid his hair. IN HIS HOUSE. It got late and she said she slept over there but it wasn't nothing serious. Do you think I should keep it going and let things come to fruition? or should I just end things now? She says she has never viewed him in a way like that before but I think he does. I do love her but it's getting kind of hazy on whats actually going on. I need advice guys.

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