It is going to be a long task, and the results will never be "good" let alone perfect. I'm assuming a digital tool like photoshop or gimp etc.
Start by running an edge detection filter over the whole image, to draw a thin black line around every colour transition. You're basically "drawing lines in a cartoon" If this doesn't produce a nice outline, then you might have to do it by hand as below.
Make backup/duplicates of this layer.
Then comes the time consuming part - to carve away any edge-line that shouldn't be there for one image. Save often.
You have an advantage in that the two images are rotated with respect to each other, so the "wrong" image will be slightly harder to perceive.
The point here is to subtly tell viewers which bits are important and which are noise from the other image.
It may help to fade out the outlines by decreasing their opacity, so they act as guides without being too obvious.
I would suggest doing both photos, and always displaying both together. The third composite image makes it a set of three.
Also, enjoy the artistic statement of a blended family photo.
The smaller the image, the better the effect. Good luck !