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MarriageToday with Jimmy & Karen Evans

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The MarriageToday Podcast is hosted by best-selling author and speaker, Jimmy Evans and his wife Karen. Jimmy is author of the books Marriage on the Rock, Lifelong Love Affair and The Four Laws of Love. MarriageToday is a weekly podcast that is dedicated to equipping families with the teaching and tools they need to succeed in marriage. read less
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Episodes

Can You Love Your Spouse, but Not Like Your Spouse?
Mar 14 2024
Can You Love Your Spouse, but Not Like Your Spouse?
Welcome to the MarriageToday Podcast! Jimmy and Karen Evans here, and in this episode, we're tackling a question many of us grapple with: what to do when you love your spouse but don't particularly like them. Get ready for a candid conversation as we share our personal insights on navigating those moments. We emphasize that it's okay to have times when you're not best buddies, but it shouldn't shake your commitment to the marriage. Join us as we delve into controlling emotions, the distinction between liking and loving, and the power of agape love. Stick around for a special mention of our book, the 'I Will' Devotional, and details on counseling services available through xomarriage.com/help ---------------------- Need Marriage Help?: https://xomarriage.com/marriage-help/ Need a romantic Date? Register here for XO24 Conference from the comfort of your home! :https://www.xonow.com/pages/xo-now-at-home More resources from our team: https://store.xomarriage.com/products/married-into-the-family Grab a copy of our new book: https://store.xomarriage.com/collections/black-friday-exclusives/products/i-will ----------------------- Takeaways It is normal to have times when you don't like your spouse, but it should not affect your behavior or commitment to the marriage. Controlling emotions is crucial in maintaining a loving relationship with your spouse. Liking someone and loving them are not the same thing; agape love goes beyond emotions. The I Will Devotional and counseling services are resources available to help couples navigate challenges in their marriage. ----------------------- Chapters 00:00 Introduction and Question 00:35 The Real World of Marriage 01:31 Loving Your Neighbor 02:01 Dealing with Dislike 03:00 Controlling Emotions 04:27 Actions vs. Feelings 05:23 The Arrogance of Not Liking 06:22 Commitment in Marriage 07:20 Agape Love 08:17 The Naivety of Expecting Perpetual Like 09:45 Sustaining Love 10:43 The I Will Devotional and Counseling 12:13 Closing Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
I Will Sacrificially Love And Serve My Spouse
Mar 7 2024
I Will Sacrificially Love And Serve My Spouse
Welcome to the MarriageToday Podcast! It's Jimmy and Karen Evans, and in this episode, we're diving deep into the heartbeat of a strong marriage: sacrificial love. We're excited to share insights from our new book, 'I Will,' a 365-day devotional crafted for couples. Join us as we unpack the foundation of sacrificial love, the challenge of embodying Christ-like love, and the pivotal role of husbands at home. We get personal about the importance of sacrificial love as the bedrock of any thriving marriage. Stick around for a special promotion of 'I Will' and our heartfelt call to action—whether it's strengthening your bond with our devotional or seeking help when needed. ---------------------- Need Marriage Help?: https://xomarriage.com/marriage-help/ Need a romantic Date? Register here for XO24 Conference from the comfort of your home! :https://www.xonow.com/pages/xo-now-at-home More resources from our team: https://store.xomarriage.com/products/married-into-the-family Grab a copy of our new book: https://store.xomarriage.com/collections/black-friday-exclusives/products/i-will ----------------------- Takeaways Sacrifice is the foundation of a man's love for his wife. Loving like Christ is a challenge, but with God's grace, it is possible to strive for it. The husband's role at home is to sacrificially take care of his wife. Sacrificial love should be the number one role in a marriage. ----------------------- Chapters 00:00 Introduction and Book Promotion 01:00 The Foundation of Sacrificial Love 03:22 The Challenge of Loving Like Christ 06:11 The Role of the Husband at Home 08:56 Sacrificial Love as the Number One Role 10:20 Promotion of the I Will Devotional 11:49 Closing and Call to Action Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
Establishing An Emergency Relief Plan For My Marriage
Feb 29 2024
Establishing An Emergency Relief Plan For My Marriage
Welcome to the MarriageToday Podcast! We're Jimmy and Karen Evans, and in this episode, we're diving into the critical topic of having an emergency relief plan for your marriage. Drawing parallels to hurricane evacuation routes, we share personal insights on the importance of being prepared for crisis situations, even those that might seem less severe. We emphasize the impact of emotional decision-making on marriages and highlight the need for help and counseling. From pastors to trusted friends, we encourage you to build a support system and be accountable to others. This isn't just advice; it's our heartfelt call to action—reach out, seek help, and strengthen your marriage. ---------------------- Need Marriage Help?: https://xomarriage.com/marriage-help/ Need a romantic Date? Register here for XO24 Conference from the comfort of your home! :https://www.xonow.com/pages/xo-now-at-home More resources from our team: https://store.xomarriage.com/products/married-into-the-family Grab a copy of our new book:https://store.xomarriage.com/collections/black-friday-exclusives/products/i-will ----------------------- Takeaways Having an emergency relief plan for your marriage is crucial to navigate crisis situations. Seeking help and counseling is not a sign of weakness but a sign of wisdom. Building a support system of godly friends and mentors is essential for a healthy marriage. Being accountable to others and submitting to authority can protect and strengthen your marriage. ----------------------- Chapters 00:00 Introduction and Purpose of the Podcast 00:34 The Importance of Having an Emergency Relief Plan 01:31 Making a Plan for Crisis Situations 02:29 Seeking Help and Counseling 03:27 Availability of Marriage Counseling 04:23 The Consequences of Not Seeking Help 05:23 The Importance of Outside Influence and Perspective 06:21 Creating a Support System 07:18 The Role of Church and Godly Friends 08:17 The Value of Accountability 09:42 The Importance of Submission to Authority 10:12 The Need for External Help in Complicated Situations 11:37 Encouragement to Seek Help and Counseling 12:07 Conclusion and Call to Action Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
Closing Ranks With Your Spouse
Feb 22 2024
Closing Ranks With Your Spouse
Welcome to the MarriageToday Podcast! It's Jimmy and Karen Evans, and in this episode, we're getting personal about the importance of unity in marriage. Beyond parenting, we explore how being a united front impacts every aspect of life—relationships, friendships, and decision-making. Drawing from our own experiences, we stress the benefits of counseling and highlight the pivotal role of communication and shared vision in a thriving marriage. Join us for a candid conversation on why unity is the heartbeat of a strong and lasting relationship. This is not just advice; it's our personal journey, and we're excited to share it with you on the MarriageToday Podcast! ---------------------- Need Marriage Help?: https://xomarriage.com/marriage-help/ Need a romantic Date? Register here for XO24 Conference from the comfort of your home! :https://www.xonow.com/pages/xo-now-at-home More resources from our team: https://store.xomarriage.com/products/married-into-the-family Grab a copy of our new book:https://store.xomarriage.com/collections/black-friday-exclusives/products/i-will ----------------------- Takeaways Being a united front in marriage means being one and not allowing divisions to occur. Parenting requires couples to be a united front and not let their children divide them. Seeking counseling can help resolve disagreements and strengthen unity in marriage. Being a united front extends to all areas of life, including relationships, friendships, and decision-making. Vision retreats can be a transformative experience for couples, helping them align their goals and strengthen their unity. Applying marriage principles and actively working on unity is essential for a successful marriage. Shared finances and decision-making contribute to unity in marriage. Blended families face unique challenges, but being a united front is crucial for the success of the marriage. Resources such as counseling and vision retreats are available to help couples strengthen their marriage. ----------------------- Chapters 00:00 Introduction and the Importance of Being a United Front 01:04 Parenting as a United Front 03:00 Seeking Counseling to Resolve Disagreements 04:28 Being a United Front in Relationships and Friendships 05:25 The Importance of Communication and Unity in Marriage 06:20 The Benefits of Vision Retreats 07:47 Applying Marriage Principles to Real Life 08:44 The Dangers of Separate Bank Accounts 09:43 Blended Families and Being a United Front 12:32 Conclusion and Resources for Strengthening Marriage Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
Stop Confusing Love With Enabling
Feb 15 2024
Stop Confusing Love With Enabling
Welcome to the MarriageToday Podcast! Join Jimmy and Karen Evans as we unpack the difference between love and enabling in relationships. We get real about codependency, sharing personal stories, and tackling tough issues like addiction and boundaries. Tune in for a fresh perspective on love and relationships! ----------------------- Need Marriage Help?: https://xomarriage.com/marriage-help/ Need a romantic Date? Register here for XO24 Conference from the comfort of your home! :https://www.xonow.com/pages/xo-now-at-home More resources from our team: https://store.xomarriage.com/products/married-into-the-family Grab a copy of our new book:https://store.xomarriage.com/collections/black-friday-exclusives/products/i-will ----------------------- Takeaways Enabling is doing something that encourages your spouse to continue in a negative behavior. Codependency is a relationship where both partners are unhealthy and dependent on each other's unhealth. Setting healthy boundaries is crucial in preventing enabling behavior. True love means loving imperfections but not enabling self-destruction. ----------------------- Chapters 00:00 Introduction: Love vs Enabling 00:33 Enabling vs Codependency 01:02 Enabling in Extreme Situations 02:00 Setting Healthy Boundaries 03:24 Negative Behavior and Destructive Relationships04:20Entitlement and Self-Centeredness 05:44 Loving Imperfections but Not Enabling Self-Destruction 07:09 God's Resistance to Pride and Grace for the Humble 08:38 Taking Responsibility in Destructive Relationships 09:33 Manipulation and Enabling 11:02 Knowing Each Other's Past and Recognizing Red Flags 12:00 True Love: Telling the Truth and Taking Action 12:29 Resources and Help for Destructive Relationships 13:12 Conclusion Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
Taking the risk to forgive
Feb 8 2024
Taking the risk to forgive
Welcome to the MarriageToday Podcast! In this episode, Jimmy and Karen Evans delve into the crucial theme of forgiveness in marriage. They highlight the consequences of not forgiving, the dangers of bitterness, and the challenging journey of forgiving infidelity. The hosts stress the importance of grace, discuss rebuilding trust after betrayal, and underscore the long-term effects of unforgiveness. Wrapping up, they encourage couples to keep short accounts, seek help when needed, and recommend their book, 'I Will,' as a valuable resource for daily devotionals in marriage. Don't miss this insightful conversation on the transformative power of forgiveness in relationships. ----------------------- Need Marriage Help?: https://xomarriage.com/marriage-help/ Need a romantic Date? Register here for XO24 Conference from the comfort of your home! :https://www.xonow.com/pages/xo-now-at-home More resources from our team: https://store.xomarriage.com/products/married-into-the-family Grab a copy of our new book: https://store.xomarriage.com/products/fighting-for-the-soul-of-your-child ----------------------- Takeaways Forgiveness is essential in marriage and should be practiced daily. Unforgiveness can lead to bitterness and negatively impact the relationship. Earning trust after betrayal takes time and consistent behavior. Seeking help and counseling is important for resolving relationship issues. ----------------------- 00:00 Introduction and Importance of Forgiveness in Marriage 01:18 The Consequences of Not Forgiving 02:35 The Daily Practice of Forgiveness 03:59 The Impact of Unforgiveness 05:22 Forgiving Infidelity 06:54 Earning Trust After Betrayal 08:43 Grace and Forgiveness in Marriage 10:06 The Power of Forgiveness 11:03 Keeping Short Accounts and Seeking Help 12:27 Conclusion and Resources Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
Is The Law Of Priority In Your Marriage?
Feb 1 2024
Is The Law Of Priority In Your Marriage?
Welcome to the MarriageToday Podcast! Join Jimmy and Karen Evans in a candid discussion on prioritizing marriage. They share their own journey from the brink of divorce, highlighting the vital need to re-prioritize. Advocating for marriage as the most important human relationship, second only to one's connection with God, they stress placing it above work, hobbies, and even children. Tune in for insights on handling in-law dynamics and modeling a robust marriage. Jimmy and Karen encourage couples to address priority violations, fighting passionately for the integrity of their relationship. A short, impactful episode on putting marriage first. ----------------------- Need Marriage Help?: https://xomarriage.com/marriage-help/ Need a romantic Date? Register here for XO24 Conference from the comfort of your home! :https://www.xonow.com/pages/xo-now-at-home More resources from our team: https://store.xomarriage.com/products/married-into-the-family Grab a copy of our new book: https://store.xomarriage.com/products/fighting-for-the-soul-of-your-child For all links mentioned in the episode & more XO content, visit: https://linktr.ee/marriagetoday ----------------------- Takeaways Marriage should be prioritized as the most important human relationship, second only to one's relationship with God. Putting marriage before other commitments, such as work, hobbies, and children, is essential for a thriving relationship. In-laws can sometimes pose challenges to a marriage, and it is important to set boundaries and prioritize the spousal relationship. Modeling a strong marriage for children is crucial, as it provides them with a sense of security and sets a positive example for their own future relationships. Addressing violations of the law of priority and fighting for the integrity of the relationship is necessary for a healthy and thriving marriage. ----------------------- Chapters  00:00 The Importance of Prioritizing Marriage 01:01 The Four Laws of Marriage 02:26 Jealousy and Prioritizing Marriage 03:25 The Foundation of a Secure Relationship 04:53 Love and Prioritizing Marriage 05:50 Putting Children Before Marriage 07:14 In-Laws and Prioritizing Marriage 08:40 Modeling a Strong Marriage for Children 10:06 Healing and Communication in Marriage 11:35 The Law of Priority Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
Providing A Climate For Total Openess
Jan 25 2024
Providing A Climate For Total Openess
Welcome to the MarriageToday Podcast! Join Jimmy and Karen Evans as they discuss the importance of total openness in marriage. Introducing their new book, 'I Will,' the couple emphasizes creating a judgment-free space for sharing. Drawing from personal experiences, they highlight the role of honesty, repentance, and graciousness in building trust and intimacy. Be inspired to be each other's best friend, bring everything to light for healing, and seek help when needed. A short, powerful episode on fostering a climate of openness for a thriving marriage. ----------------------- Need Marriage Help?: https://xomarriage.com/marriage-help/ Need a romantic Date? Register here for XO24 Conference from the comfort of your home! :https://www.xonow.com/pages/xo-now-at-home More resources from our team: https://store.xomarriage.com/products/married-into-the-family Grab a copy of our new book: https://store.xomarriage.com/products/fighting-for-the-soul-of-your-child ----------------------- Takeaways Creating a safe place for sharing in a marriage is essential for building trust and intimacy. Avoid legalism and embrace grace in order to foster openness and acceptance in the relationship. Being a spouse's safe place means listening without judgment and providing support and understanding. Confessing and bringing everything to light can lead to healing and growth in the marriage. ----------------------- 00:00 Introduction and Book Announcement 01:31 Creating a Safe Place for Sharing 03:47 The Dangers of Legalism 05:10 Maintaining Confidentiality 06:15 The Power of Honesty and Repentance 07:25 Sharing Dreams and Desires 08:39 Bringing Hidden Issues to Light 09:34 Creating a Climate of Openness 10:30 Seeking Help for Unresolved Issues 10:51 Conclusion and Call to Action Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
Rediscovering Romance: Jimmy Evans' Top Moments
Jan 18 2024
Rediscovering Romance: Jimmy Evans' Top Moments
Welcome Back to the Marriage Today Podcast. Today, Jimmy Evans reflects on some of his favorite moments from the past five years. The conversation focuses on the importance of communication, creativity, and empathy in marriage. It explores the phases of instinctive romantic love and the need to remember and restore first love. The episode also emphasizes the unconditional love of God and the importance of trusting Jesus. It concludes with practical advice on establishing and maintaining priorities in marriage and protecting them from good things out of priority. ------------------------------ Takeaways Communication, creativity, and empathy are essential for a thriving marriage. Remembering and restoring first love is crucial for maintaining romance in marriage. Trusting Jesus and prioritizing a personal relationship with Him is key to being a good spouse. Proving priorities in marriage through sacrifice, time, energy, and attitude is necessary for a strong relationship. ------------------------------ Chapters 00:00Introduction and Purpose of the Show 00:51 Ways to Communicate Value in Marriage 02:16 The Importance of Creativity in Romance 03:13 The Phases of Instinctive Romantic Love 04:10 Remembering and Restoring First Love 05:36 Taking Action to Restore Romance 07:00 The Unconditional Love of God 08:24 Acceptance, Identity, Security, and Purpose 09:22 The Importance of Trusting Jesus 10:19 Establishing and Maintaining Priorities in Marriage 11:36 Proving Priorities in Marriage 13:32 Protecting Priorities from Good Things Out of Priority 18:42 Putting Family First 19:11 Conclusion and Call to Action Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
Celebrating Love: A Nostalgic Look with Jimmy and Karen
Jan 11 2024
Celebrating Love: A Nostalgic Look with Jimmy and Karen
Welcome back to the MarriageToday Podcast with Jimmy and Karen Evans! Today, we're thrilled to bring you a special episode featuring some of our favorite moments of Karen Evans. Join us as Karen delves into various topics crucial to relationships and marriage, sharing insights on essential issues for couples. From improving communication and navigating financial conflicts to balancing frugality and fun, meeting emotional needs, rebuilding trust after infidelity, and setting boundaries with in-laws—this episode is packed with wisdom and practical advice. Get ready to be inspired and empowered as we pull together highlights from our journey together. You're listening to The MarriageToday Podcast, where Jimmy and Karen Evans guide you through the keys to lasting love and connection Need a romantic Date? Register here for XO24 Conference from the comfort of your home! :https://www.xonow.com/pages/xo-now-at-home More resources from our team: https://store.xomarriage.com/products/married-into-the-family Grab a copy of our new book: https://store.xomarriage.com/products/fighting-for-the-soul-of-your-child -------------------------- Takeaways The foundation of a strong relationship is a shared spiritual connection. Open and honest communication is crucial for resolving conflicts and meeting emotional needs. Couples should work together to find a balance between financial security and enjoying life. Rebuilding trust after infidelity takes time, support, and a commitment to forgiveness. Setting boundaries with in-laws is important for maintaining a healthy relationship with your spouse. -------------------------- 00:00 Essential Issues for Couples 01:42 Improving Communication in Marriage 03:02 Dealing with Financial Conflict 05:54 Balancing Frugality and Fun 07:57 Meeting Emotional Needs 09:21 Rebuilding Trust After Infidelity 12:12 Setting Boundaries with In-Laws Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices