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A Mad Men Epilogue: Choose Your "Ending"

I was thinking about the ending and reading people's comments. Here's what I came up as headcannon.

Scenario #1:

Don takes time at the retreat to reflect on his life and his traumas. He develops a close relationship with Leonard—one of the first people in Don's life that he wants to get to know and help genuinely. Don stops trying to "move forward" blindly in life and listens to Leonard's life and issues. He offers genuine encouragement to him and tells him that, in spite of Leonard's feelings of inadequacy and no self-esteem, that Leonard has accomplished more than he ever could—that Leonard has a family that Don wishes he could have again and that Don admires Leonard as a real figure of masculinity and a proper, caring father—something Don never had.

Don shares his life story with Leonard and the rest of the retreat visitors and begins coming to terms with the people he hurt and why he did it. He begins foregoing alcohol slowly and his mind becomes clearer. After spending some more time reflecting at the retreat, he decides to return to New York to begin his work making amends with everyone he mistreated. He seeks out Dr. Faye Miller and apologizes to her for the way he behaved and thanked her for helping him overcome his first major hurdle: the fear about his past. He shares his experiences at the retreat with her, though she remains icy during the encounter.

He apologizes to Peggy for not treating her like a person while at SCDP and for thinking that money was the solution to everything. He thanks her for all the work she did and shares his experiences in the retreat with her and Stan. This encounter, completely unexpected and unlike Don, amuses both Stan and Peggy and inspires them to come up with a commercial for Coke where people from all over the world are singing.

Don tracks down Rebecca Pryce in England. Don cashes out his partnership shares and sends her an extremely large portion—telling her that she was right about all the investment that Lane had made for the company. He understands if she won't forgive him, but wants to acknowledge the sacrifice that Lane made.

Don then tracks down Salvatore, who he remembered while he was at the retreat. Don finds him working in a small studio. He is now divorced and apprehensive at seeing Don, but Don apologizes privately to Salvatore for firing him at Sterling-Cooper. He offers Salvatore a job in the large art department at McCann. Salvatore is intrigued and flattered, but declines the offer. Don gives him his card, telling Salvatore to call him if he ever needs anything in the future.

Don then dedicates himself to rebuilding his family. He seeks out a therapist that he can speak with and begins the path to addressing his traumas. He purchases a small home near where Sally and Betty live and begins seeing the children deliberately as much as he can. Instead of leaving them in front of the TV, he insists on having Bobby and Gene play outside with him. Sally's relationship is more strained, but Don explains everything about his life and his childhood to her. He recounts the things he had to endure in the brothel as a kid and asks Sally to forgive him for not behaving appropriately like a father should have. He tells her that he understands if she doesn't want to be around him, but that he will always love her and be there to support her—especially in light of Betty's illness. Sally in non-committal but expresses appreciation for the effort and the door is left open for the possibility of a good reconciliation.


Scenario #2:

Don feels a false enlightenment in the retreat and doesn't address any of his past issues. While at the retreat, in his state of shallow blissfulness, he imagines a Coke commercial where people from around the world are singing. Feeling cured, he departs back for New York and asks for his position back at McCann, who are understandably suspicious about his stability. However, when he pitches the Coke ad, the creative executives are intrigued and agree to let Don back in.

The commercial is a success and is nominated for a Clio. Unfortunately, the fame and praise overcomes what little stability he had after the retreat and, like a rocket reaching its apogee, Don begins his inevitable decline. He begins drinking and philandering more. At first, he's able to maintain a façade of control at McCann, but it rapidly unravels and people at work begin to notice his distasteful behaviors. The Coke commercial becomes Don's last great work. Already on a short leash, the McCann executives see Draper as far too unmanageable an asset for such a large corporation and let him go.

For Don, with no job and no prospects, his life unravels more and more. He manages to secure a position at another large ad firm who aren't too familiar with his antics. Unfortunately, his life is now unraveling and he isn't able to produce the quality work that he used to be able to do. Moreover, age is catching up with him, and now at a firm where none of the creative know him well, they begin to snicker behind his back about the soused man, chasing girls pathetically. Slowly, the luster begins to fade from Don Draper. He clings on to his job at the ad firm through the mid-1970s, but the economic downturn is not kind to the advertising market and Don is let go.

Meanwhile, Betty has died and Don only has brief, cursory contact with his children, who are much closer to Henry and his family now. Some time in mid-to-late 1970s, Don suffers a health scare that turns up cirrhosis. He takes what jobs he can now. By this time, he is on his fourth divorce, all his exes younger than the previous, and his finances are depleted. Back to scraping by as he was in the 1950s, he enters his 50s in poor health and continues crumbling away. All his work accomplishments are now footnotes and forgotten. McCann and all the other firms had plenty of Clio nominations without him and a new cadre of young talent have taken over and eclipsed any memories of Draper than anyone might have had.

Eventually, the cirrhosis makes it impossible for Don to do any work and he is reduced to living on disability in public housing. What's left of him dies in the late 1980s. Bobby attends his funeral. Gene and Sally do not.

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TL;DR entirely. But 2 out of Don's 3 children not attending his funeral hit me hard.

Realistically, knowing the writing quality of mad men, it would be neither of these, but a complex mixture of both. Don certainly will have a creative decline as he ages, but that happens to everyone. His drinking is definitely going to continue, and will undoubtedly shorten his life, but I don't see it leading to such a doomsday ending. I think Don simply retires sometime in the 70s. He isnt going to find happiness at McCann, and hes always going to be looking out the window at the airplanes. Eventually his quality of work will decline, but not catastrophically. Thats natural as creatives age. Eventually he finds himself a relic of an older age in Advertising unable to relate much to modern sensibilities or culture.

So what does he do? He does what he always does. He retires and finds something else to do. Most likely a lot of travel. His kids by this point will have grown up and will be on their own. He's probably gotten divorced again and without a family or career to constrain him, there isn't really a downside to finally letting his inner wanderer out.

That's something a lot of retirees do. I know the end of the show made it clear that Don wasn't at a point to be able to embrace that, but he still had kids and some gas left in the advertising tank. By the late 70s, i think with his family grown and his career ending, he'll have nothing left to do. And he's certainly not going to just sit around doing nothing until he dies..

So to most people, Don Draper simply vanishes. He probably loses touch with most of the people he knew at McCann, becomes somewhat distant with his family, and ventures around for a while until all his drinking and smoking catches up to him. He dies a hobos death, out on the road somewhere. Maybe even buried in an unmarked grave.

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Cirrhosis and death in the early 80s is exactly what I imagine for Don too. Ending one would be nice, but honestly I don't trust he'd go deep enough in himself to to a life turnaround to the degree he'd need to. And I'd expect a relatively young death for him.

I'm interested in what happpens to Sally after the show ends. I feel like she gets very, very successful in work, but ends up with a coke addiction. Goes to rehab, does a ton of therapy, rebuilds, ends up running an organisation that does something that helps people (maybe working with people with addictions/young women with addictions.) Ends up in a loving longterm relationship with a trans guy who is she fiercely devoted to. But there's a probably a part of her she keeps held back. And she may be prone to depressive episodes.

I also think she's someone who might end up having multiple careers, and might do something screen-related at some point, e.g. directing. But I believe she'd take her own emotional depth, the brilliance she part-inherited from Don, but she'd do the opposite of turning it to advertising, which is surface-level, and want to do something deeply useful.

My ending:

Don continues to take one step forward and two steps back through life for 10 years at most until times change, his powers and reputation decline, and he's no longer worth the patience and regular maintenance.

Now in his 50s, forced into early retirement and drinking every day, Sally and Bobby only see him once or twice a year and Gene couldn't care less because he doesn't view Don as his real dad.

Sally is successful and travels the world, but never settles down because she's avoidant as hell. She can't trust that anyone would be faithful.

Bobby's got a wife and two kids; he's a good husband and father who's a pillar of his local community because he likes helping people.

Don's 1980s are a slow, drunken death. His career may be dead in America, but he literally dies in London after the Brits jump at the chance to work with the legendary Don Draper on what will be his last ad campaign: The Gold Blend coffee romance.

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I can imagine Don in early 80s London. Slimy, and with a smoker's cough.

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To me I think Don’s ending is a mix of both the ones you described. I think after the retreat he goes back to New York and McCann, develops the Coke ad, and wins his final Clio. During this time he apologizes to people like Peggy and other NYC based people. But I do think that after the coke ad his work dips in quality. I don’t think Don goes to therapy but he does go on lots of retreats to chase that creative high that he had in California. I think he either leaves or is let go from McCann in the mid 70s but does freelance work here and there.

While not as effective as therapy would be for him I do think Don gets some benefits from his frequent retreats. He doesn’t drink as much, doesn’t sleep around as often, and tries to maintain a better relationship with his kids going forward. I think he may get married one more time to someone he meets at a retreat but it doesn’t work out and they divorce. I think by the 80s he settles in California close to where the first retreat was. He doesn’t get married again but there is one woman whom he sees on and off again until he passes in the early 90s. His funeral is a small service planned by his on and off girlfriend and sally. Very few people from sterling cooper actually come, Peggy and Stand send flowers but Freddy and Roger are the only ones who actually make it