小朋友屬慢熱、文靜、觀察型的過來人家長請幫幫忙！ - 小一選校 - 教育王國

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	1346

發表於 12-11-5 17:37 |顯示全部帖子

有感主動積極醒目型的小孩是最易突出自己，想請教過來人家長，如小朋友較慢熱、被動和觀察型，小一面試可以如何突破，讓老師也察覺到這類小朋友也有優勝的地方？文靜觀察型的小朋友，是否也入到好的直資或好的私校？可以分享一下嗎？謝謝！

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發表於 12-11-5 22:21 |顯示全部帖子

回覆：小朋友屬慢熱、文靜、觀察型的過來人家長請幫幫忙！

聖方濟各, 考筆試

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發表於 12-11-5 22:50 |顯示全部帖子

回復 silverbell 的帖子

Seen quite some cases like this, quiet and passive kids are very disadvantage in the interview game. Lucky draw is still the last resort.

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	678

發表於 12-11-5 23:15 |顯示全部帖子

不同學校喜歡不同類型小朋友, 純個人感覺高主教, St Paul Boy's, 英華, SFA 喜歡乖巧小朋友, 另外, 我估計宣道也是.

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發表於 12-11-6 08:07 |顯示全部帖子

回覆：小朋友屬慢熱、文靜、觀察型的過來人家長請幫幫忙！

YW收乖但要主動。其實被動慢熱唔係問題，只要面試時有禮守規，一步一步跟指引去表現能力就得。

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	2644

發表於 12-11-6 09:12 |顯示全部帖子

This year most private/DSS school would have first interview testing the academic ability of the children so your kid will have a chance. However you have to do something to improve the situation otherwise there may be problem in 2nd interview.

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發表於 12-11-6 09:16 |顯示全部帖子

momama 發表於 12-11-6 08:07
YW收乖但要主動。其實被動慢熱唔係問題，只要面試時有禮守規，一步一步跟指引去表現能力就得。

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認同。英華收受教型同乖乖仔。但表達能力也要好的。所以不願開口或不健談的也輸蝕的。

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發表於 12-11-6 09:23 |顯示全部帖子

回復 silverbell 的帖子

小兒正正是你所提及的性格，在某些學校面試真的會較其他人遜色，特別是在群體互動中，毫不顯眼。但只要這些孩子懂得禮貌、懂得耐心等候，又在面見中願意作答，亦會有欣賞他們的學校。去年，我亦有和你一樣的擔心，但最後兒子也有數間不俗的學校録取（我個人認為雖不是特別的名校，但以我兒子的程度來説，是相當不錯），如KTS，APS、SFA、音小和數間直資。

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發表於 12-11-6 09:28 |顯示全部帖子

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KTS,APS and SFA不是不錯是非常好！lingling06你真係謙虛，你小朋友好叻呀！

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發表於 12-11-6 10:13 |顯示全部帖子

Eugenepig 發表於 12-11-5 23:15
不同學校喜歡不同類型小朋友, 純個人感覺高主教, St Paul Boy's, 英華, SFA 喜歡乖巧小朋友, 另外, 我估計 ...

I am not sure if a passive and quiet kid will work out well for St. Paul Boys. A kid of my friend is very talkative, active, and speaks English well but has a low academic level (especially in Chinese). For example he doesnt know sentense re-structuring. He applied 10 schools last year and only St. Paul Boys admitted him. His mother said because St. Paul Boys was the only school that didnt test much on academic level during interview. Having said that, this may applies for my friend's case only.

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	678

發表於 12-11-6 11:04 |顯示全部帖子

回復 hadwinboy 的帖子

我也是根據身邊朋友的資料, 再加一些今年的自身體驗, 得出的結論, 不一定是對的.

未考小一前, 出席了多間學校的簡介會, 幫小兒報考的小學, 做了一些matching, 建議樓主明年早點報名簡介會, 以便掌握更多資訊, 不過也有些小學校長簡介會上說的, 跟實際收生的要求有點不同, 宜多聽身邊朋友活生生的實例.

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發表於 12-11-6 22:14 |顯示全部帖子

回復 silverbell 的帖子

I've just opened an account and am writing my first post because I've shared the same experience before. I think if you know the "weakness" of your child, you may think of ways for improvement in the coming year. My hubby and I noticed this issue when my girl was three, and we were afraid that it would be a big disadvantage in P.1 admission interviews. Therefore, we've made a lot of effort in order to make her more outspoken. Though she is not a very talkative child, at least she has become more responsive. What we've done is to try giving her more opportunities to face other people and talk to them, e.g. joining our gatherings with friends so that she has to talk more to adults; asking her to order food in restaurants, joining some recitation competitions, etc.We should understand that teachers don't have much time to dig out the kids' talent during interviews as there're plenty of candidates with very limited time. Training for our own kids in advance is important.
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	242

發表於 12-11-7 01:01 |顯示全部帖子

Agree 100%

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	2627

發表於 12-11-7 08:03 |顯示全部帖子

回覆：小朋友屬慢熱、文靜、觀察型的過來人家長請幫幫忙！

阿女就係呢種人，K3都要過咗一個學期先可以放鬆去同班主任相處。老實講，我唔叫呢d做“問題“，亦冇諗住去改佢嘅性格。我當然有鼓勵佢，但只要佢做到禮貌應對就得啦。

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	3042

發表於 12-11-7 08:52 |顯示全部帖子

慢熱、被動和觀察型＝深思屬慮型。
如果子女純綷係：內斂、唔衝動，分析過有把握先做，但一做就有信心地做好件事。我覺得呢種係個人性格，無乜問題。

呢種性格只要將某些事變成常規，令佢明白係必需要做，之後就無問題。
例如禮貌、見到人要叫，甚至上台show and tell or 小一面試，當佢習慣個模式後，明白同pratice得多後，自然就配合得非常好！
我個囡就係咁。
以上係佢班主任K2時教我。
由於佢要經過觀察來肯定自己下一步行動，所以家長要成日說教，講多d點解，同分析整個過程，佢明白後就會放心，做得好好。

相反，家長好多時會將：無自信、害羞、怕輸、唔合群等弱點.....誤以為係被勳慢熱，咁就未必可以對証下藥。呢種就要多加鼓勵，經常肯定佢，唔好乜都幫佢決定，幫佢建立自信。

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發表於 12-11-7 09:30 |顯示全部帖子

回復 lingling06 的帖子

KTS,APS,SFA all are the schools many parents like. If my kid can be accepted by one of them, I will have no regret. Thanks for your sharing. Now, I see some hope in the future.

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發表於 12-11-7 09:35 |顯示全部帖子

回復 Parisienne 的帖子

Absolutely agree. Every type of personality has its own values. Though my kid is not the "leadership type", I appreciate that he is not impulsive, careful, and listen to instructions. The teacher said that he did well in "Talk and show" time. I should believe that the "correct" school will pick him.

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發表於 12-11-7 09:37 |顯示全部帖子

如果人生如戲，都有分台前同幕後。
有d適合台前，有d適合幕後。天生無得逼。
台前醒醒目目，發揮機會自然多，由細叻到大，家長focus的可能又是另一層面，如揀較重德育的學校。
幕後果d無咁顯眼，小班會照顧得好，學校多提供發揮機會，令每個都有平均機會。

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發表於 12-11-7 09:38 |顯示全部帖子

回復 momama 的帖子

Thx for sharing. Once, I thought I have to "change" his characters. Now, I don't think I have to. What I need to do is to give him encouragement and support. If I am impatient with his personality, he can't build up confidence.

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發表於 12-11-7 09:56 |顯示全部帖子

回復 KCYmama 的帖子

Agree that "Teachers don't have much time to dig out the kid's talents in the interview." So, I have to focus on building up his confidence and training his manners and politeness. Thanks for sharing.

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