The crab
June 21 – July 22 for 2024
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Water
Cardinal
The Moon
Sensitive
Seeks comfort
Forgives but never forgets
Only has one boundary, but it is very firm
Takes on other people's problems
Ariana Grande
Frida Kahlo
Marcel Proust
Assata Shakur
Stokely Carmichael
Franz Kafka
Patrice Lumumba
Emma Goldman
Emotional packmule
Caretaker for lost skaters
That one influential elementary school teacher
"Free hugs" booth operator
Metaphorical heart surgeon
A Cancer’s personality is like wading chest deep in a lake of warm water. It feels sparkling and cool while you're in the shallow end, but you know that if you were to dive in, it would feel warm.
The self-awareness of a Cancer is like the tides–constantly moving in and out of focus. Their personalities are layered. Cancers have many moods, some of which are contradictory, but they also have a deep, core self that persists.
Cancers are weighed down by their own sorrows and the sorrows of those around them. They are frequently haunted by grief. It’s hard for them to share their pain with others, and they are often afraid to be vulnerable because they carry a fear that people will use their weaknesses against them. Cancers have learned to hide their pain to avoid burdening anyone else. They pretend they’re okay when they’re not.
Their emotions are like an exposed nerve. Cancers can feel everything. They’re like a tuning fork that vibrates at the slightest provocation. They tend to carry deep grudges because they can’t forget the emotional sting of even a slight.
Cancers are homebodies. Drawn to stability, routine, and the comfort of the familiar, they don't like change. Cancers like to know what is expected. They tend to be less experimental than others. Traditions and the past captivate their imaginations. They love art that reminds them of a different time, old stories and art forms. Predictable environments make them feel comfortable. They like to know what’s going to happen. They like to feel that they’re part of a bigger plan. They don’t like surprises.
This is most relevant to Cancer Venus and Mars, though Cancer Suns may identify with some traits.
Cancers do fall in love easily. They may appear shy and reserved, but underneath this shield is a romantic who suffers from extreme shyness a bad case of the nerves. They don’t fall in love with a person, but with what they’re hoping to find. Cancers are looking for a complete and unconditional acceptance because they feel so unfinished themselves. They are in love with the idea of being in love. This is why they often find themselves incapable of falling in love with the people who actually love them back.
They want to be loved, but they don’t trust that it will last. They want to be touched, but don’t trust the intentions of the person touching them. They want to be protected, but they don’t trust that anyone will protect them. Once they fall in love with an actual person, they will carry those romantic feelings for their entire life. A Cancer is someone whose entire body becomes a vessel for the emotion.
Yes. But more importantly, when a Cancer flirts, they always seems to have a hidden agenda. Cancers are terrible at keeping their romantic secrets. They reveal themselves readily and allow the other person to see behind their masks. They often do this without realizing it. It’s not that they hold nothing back, but rather that they unconsciously impose their moods and feelings on the other person. It’s not uncommon for Cancers to suddenly realize they have told someone about their family history or their feelings on a recent tragedy before even realizing what they’re doing.
Cancers are known to go back to their exes. Their desire for affection can often lead them to look back at their romantic pasts and linger fondly on the memories of the person they used to be with. They’ll find themselves reminiscing about what a relationship meant to them. They may have been betrayed or lied to, but the initial rush of love they felt for the person will always be there.
Yes–Cancers also want to be spooned, but they'll be too shy to initiate it. Because they may also feel that it’s a sign of weakness, they’ll try to push you to do it first.
Cancers can be like a bird that has been caged and hand fed for so long that they begin to believe that they are not capable of surviving in the wild. They can lose the will to fly.
Cancers need a love interest to define them. Their memory is a patchwork of past loves, an impressionist painting of their relationships. Cancers use love as a building block to construct a more concrete sense of self, as their identity is sculpted by people who have made them feel a certain way.
Their role in a relationship is not to dictate its development, but to react to someone else’s lead. They are shaped by their romantic relationships as much as they shape them. Cancers are living, breathing collages of the people who have made them feel special. With each new partner, they become a little more whole.
When a Cancer is in love, they ignore anything negative about the relationship. Because they trust too easily and want to believe the best about everyone, they have a hard time understanding why something feels wrong. They love “nice people.” They can’t understand why everyone isn’t nice. They want to be supportive of everyone.
Cancers need to learn to trust their own instincts and intuition. They need to learn how to survive on their own because being too dependent on someone else will only postpone their healing process.
Cancers are often stubborn. They are often criticized for being harsh on those who they feel have wronged them. Cancers can be slow to forgive. They hold on to past hurts, but that doesn’t mean they wield them. They’re often too self-effacing to bring them up except when they finally erupt. It would be easier if they could just forgive and forget. Cancers want their wounds to be healed, so they bury them. They’re wounded by their own attachment to memory. It is important for Cancers to remember that transformation is not only possible, but is also the natural order of life.
Cancers' need for control doesn't come from a desire for approval from the outside world, but instead a desire to adjust their external environment to reflect their inner world.
Cancers live in a twilight realm where everything is blurred. The border between themselves and others is not clearly defined, and this is mirrored by their external environment. Their home is a sanctuary that is harmonious with their mood and their possessions are a manifestation of their internal world.
Cancers do not demand control out of a need for power, but rather because they feel most comfortable when they’re in charge. They have an insatiable desire to care for others, and believe they can achieve comfort by orchestrating the lives of those closest to them.
Cancers are highly sensitive and very insecure, so they need constant reassurance. This doesn’t have to come from only their lovers–it can also be a close friend or a parent. Cancers need this emotional intimacy or they suffer.
Cancers thrive on the security of close relationships. Strong relationships are the foundation of their sense of well-being. They need to feel loved. A Cancer's soulmate is often someone who has a stronger personality, and who can help Cancer feel more grounded.
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