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9/10
Very beautiful and compelling, but perhaps not for every one.
philip_vanderveken3 December 2004
I had absolutely no idea what to expect when I watched 'Hable Con Ella'. All I knew was that it was directed by Pedro Almodovar, who is considered as one of the biggest talents outside of Hollywood. Well, he certainly has some talent. A talent to make movies that are not always easy to watch, but certainly thought provoking, beautiful, compelling and stylish.

'Hable Con Ella' tells the story of two men who are in love with a woman in a coma and how they both handle this in a different way. They meet each other in the hospital with a beautiful friendship between the two men as a result.

Pedro Almodovar is some kind of artist who likes to paint with words and images. As a result you get a beautiful tale about obsession, love, friendship and desperation, which may not be to everybody's taste because of the bizarre subject, but which certainly touched me. It's very original and I would recommend it to everybody who isn't afraid to watch a movie with a special subject. I give it a 9/10
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8/10
A powerful piece of work
Nazi_Fighter_David16 November 2008
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In spite of being driven to the top rank of art cinema directors with his critically acclaimed sensation "About My Mother," and being unlike other directors of equivalent status who have been chosen to work within the rootless world of the international co-productions, Almodóvar has remained instilled in the rich culture of his native Spain…

In "Talk to Her" the two main protagonists are men, unusually for Almodóvar, whose films have been notable for a succession of powerful and striking female roles… Benigno is a male nurse who is employed to care for a dancer (Alicia) in a coma after a car accident… At the private clinic he meets Marco, a journalist who is in love with Lydia, a female bullfighter also in a coma after being gored by a bull… They become friends and Benigno persuades Marco that he must talk to Lydia, even if she cannot hear (therefore the title). But then we lean that the likable and amiable Benigno has raped Alicia, the woman who is in love with her…

European art cinema has a great tradition but an uncertain future in the world increasingly dominated by Hollywood… Almodóvar is an ornament of European culture which proved that the form still has much to say about the human condition and can say it with charm, elegance, and attractiveness
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A fine, disturbing work of art about selfish "love."
nlloyd5018 September 2003
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I had a hard time getting around this movie right after seeing it. Something was not quite right, something disturbing. But after sleeping on it I think I have it figured out.

I know people read these to find out if a movie is good or not. It is good. It's an effective piece of art which has an interesting and original inner voice. It's thought-provoking.

But it doesn't leave you with anything to hang your hat on. You are not going to come out relating to the characters or situations. Not right away, not until you've digested the whole and figured out what part of it is universal to you.

*spoilers galore*

The key to Marco & Benigno's relationship is that they both don't listen to women - the title of the film can throw you off this trail a bit. They don't listen - and they don't want to.

Marco didn't want to know that this woman wasn't really in love with him. After all, he swept in when she was on the rebound and he "knows desperate women" by his own admission - or does he not really know them, rather, always swoops in like this? That would explain a lot - he has a hard time with normal relationships. He likes a girl on the rebound, or desperate for some reason. He doesn't really want to cope with real love, he just want s his own thing. -

He is selfish. This is not the way one loves. Love is something that is not for you, it is for the one you love.

Does he then gain anything from his friend's problems & suicide? I don't know. But I think in the end that he doesn't. Maybe this is why it is a disturbing film. He is back to crying at this experimental dance. He has already gone back to traveling around on his own instead of leading a life with people. He is back to getting involved with a girl who has problems (girl coming out of a coma counts, I'd say).

Meanwhile, his friend Benigno is the ultimate in "doesn't listen." He idolized this girl from afar, then found the perfect relationship when she couldn't communicate at all. But she was (communicating) - she was saying *nothing* at all, and he was projecting for her. He knew that, in fact, but that didn't matter to him.

Finally, he rapes her under the pretense that she has actually been communicating with him, in the way he wants. Rape is, of course, the ultimate in selfish love. It is an act which defines how "selfish love" is really an oxymoron - it's not love at all. He feels his half of the relationship is enough to make a whole. This is the ultimate loner, I'd say. And we know he never learns, never grows, nothing. He ends up committing suicide. The ultimate in despair.

One might say that Benigno was "good" b/c he had cared for this girl all this time. But that is not what "good" is. He is not caring for her out of dedication to his profession. He is not caring for her out of love. He is doing it b/c he needs it for his own selfish purposes - that is how he feels love. I suppose b/c that is what he had with his mother.

So there is a reason, seemingly - his mother. That would be too easy, though, to just let him slide b/c of that. And to do so, one would have to project something not in the film - we never actually know what the relationship was with this mother.

So then, it's not black & white, but still definite, I think, all reasons aside, in that he is not "good." In fact, I think he has severe problems.

And Marco relates to him...

Perhaps it's hopeful in that ultimately it lays the blame on the characters themselves and doesn't say this is some bigger, unresolveable problem. But from what I saw, it's still pretty depressing.
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When a man loves a woman (and she doesn't know it)...
george.schmidt25 November 2002
TALK TO HER (2002) **** Javier Camara, Dario Grandinetti, Leonor Watling, Rosario Flores, Mariola Fuentes, Geraldine Chaplin. Filmmaker Pedro Almodovar once again creates a cinematic masterpiece in his ongoing quest to bring together the war of the sexes as a harmonic convergence this time in a somewhat surreal matter involving a male nurse (Camara) and a tough yet sensitive journalist (Grandinetti) who form a unique friendship when his girlfriend, a bullfighter (Flores), is gored and sent into a coma landing her in the hospital where Camara is taking care of his ‘beloved' (Watling), a dancer, who he has fallen in love with her when he (in a sense) was stalking her. Love, sex, desire and social ills fall into one heady mix of melodrama, soap opera fodder and a sprinkling of comedy as well as a memorable foray into silent cinema with `The Shrinking Lover' (think of an NC-17 version of `The Incredible Shrinking Man') that actually serves as a Greek chorus as to the happenings occurring. Controversial, bold and audacious in its execution yet ultimately haunting, harrowing and altogether human (and humane). One of the year's best films.
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10/10
Almodovar at his Most Serious.
nycritic5 November 2005
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There is an interesting feel in Pedro Almodovar's HABLE CON ELLA. The film starts and finishes in a theatre, and two characters who eventually meet and create a bond are sitting in close proximity of each other, moved by the drama playing itself on-stage. Javier Camera and Dario Grandinetti play Benigno and Marco. As TALK TO HER begins, they are both watching a play about two women, both mimicking each other's actions, both looking disheveled and with white night gowns. What neither of them know is that they will meet through the most unlikely of ways.

Javier is a loner, a man who lost his mother and has an ambiguous sexuality, who works as a nurse in a hospital. He spies at Alicia, a young dancer (played by Leonor Watling), and we see his desire. He bumps into her on the street, walks her home, and notices her father is a psychiatrist who consults from home. So he sets a session in which he sort of declares he is a homosexual, while Alicia takes a shower. Before he leaves he takes an object from her room, not before he bumps into a naked Alicia and makes up a flimsy excuse as to why he is there. However, he will lose her to an accident which will leave her in a coma.

Marco is a reporter assigned to interview the famous bullfighter Lydia (Rosario Flores) right at the moment she is going through some tough moments since her ex-boyfriend, another toreador called "El Nino de Valencia" (Adolfo Fernandez) has left her the object of media fodder. They become close, but a fateful match with a bull leaves Lydia also in a coma, hovering between life and death in the hospital where Benigno works and takes care of the also comatose Alicia. Marco, while taking care of Lydia, wonders if his interview could have broken her concentration and led to her situation.

It's here when Benigno and Marco meet, and their meeting becomes the fulcrum of HABLE CON ELLA. Benigno opens Marco to the idea that love needs not have a response to be true -- he confides his love for Alicia -- and one sequence is truly disturbing: Benigno's fantasy sequence in which a shrinking man penetrates his wife's vagina, shown in black and white, betrays what can amount to a pathology, and its eventual denouement, something I won't reveal, creates a series of events that accelerate both the moral of the story. Love sometimes can create actions we would deem as monstrous, even when we may not see them as such. Almodovar handles his risky material with incredible taste -- it is rare to see this kind of subject matter on screen -- but Almmodovar makes it seem natural even when at its core, such love can be frightening.
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9/10
About men
rbverhoef16 March 2003
This is a film about men and their emotions. One man has a relationship with a woman, the most famous female matador in Spain. He cries over the most strange things. The female matador gets in a coma. The other man is in love with a woman, he has only spoken to her once. The man is a male nurse and when the woman gets in a coma he is the one to take care of her. Some people around him thinks he is gay so he is allowed to take care of her, see her naked, touch her. The two men get to know each other while waiting at the beds of their loved ones.

I will not reveal what happens with the two women, or with the men. The way the subject is handled is great. In one way we see the two man devoting their lives two women. In another way we see the creepy part of that. For example we know the male nurse is in love with the one he is taking care of, and as I said, he sees naked every day. The woman seems to be an obsession, the man seems to be obsessed. We have sympathy for the men anyway.

The acting is good, a very intelligent story and a great direction makes this film one of the year's best. In the end you will have a strange feeling, and a good feeling as well.
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The Manifold Fluidity of the Dance
tedg2 March 2003
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Spoilers herein.

When a film's reason for being is to build layers, the opening shot must be a promise, an anchor in the shifting seas of perspective and a springboard for the narrative. In twenty seconds, I knew that this time Almodovar had spent more time on structure and less chasing intuitive sprites because of that opening shot. It is beautiful intelligent and rich, as many moments here are.

Life as a ballet, a bullfight, a film, a song, a mentored trip, a lesson, a therapy session, a killing of the snake, and care of the comatose - each of these referring to all and any of the others, most explicitly. The amazing thing to me is that nearly all these layers are developed lushly and without irony as if they each were the root, the generator, of the others. You probably already know this, as it is pretty obvious.

What's more subtle is the relationship to other films in what is becoming a genre: poetic, sexually-motivated, magically cocreated Spanish self-reference. Almodovar seems generous in his appreciation of films by others; after all having referenced layers that stop at the edge of a film is pretty arbitrary. I suppose there are many such leaps but the one I appreciated was to `Sex and Lucia' which I think is the absolute best of this genre. Elena Anaya was the uber-Alice-in-Wonderland in that adventure featuring three `Alices.' Here, she is the hallucinogenic, angelic third of the three sisters, each of whom will be loved by Marco. As with all such Alice-trios, the question is who is dreaming the story. That it could be a character from another, similarly-structured film is especially delicious.

Many reviews note that Benigno is a virgin. Why would this be more trusted information than anything else; why wouldn't he have had two decades of sexual commitment to his mother? And why would we assume the baby is dead?

Ted's Evaluation -- 3 of 4: Worth watching.
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7/10
Offbeat and sensitive melodrama about two men care for women in coma masterfully acted and directed
ma-cortes14 November 2015
Good film including interesting drama , colorful cinematography , sensitive score and nice interpretations by all-Spanish-star-cast . Almodovar successful melodrama about two comatose women and the men who love them , including his ordinary rare characters , twisted situations and eccentric events . Two men Benigno (Javier Camera ,this role is based on Pedro Almodóvar's close friend Roberto Benigni) , and Marco (Dario Grandinetti) share an odd friendship while they care for two women , Alicia (Leonor Watling) and Lydia (Rosario Flores) in very different ways , who are both in deep comas .

Agreeable film full of feeling , outlandish characters full of desire and love , haunting mood-pieces , unforgettable as well as outrageous images , and sense of style . The picture deals with off-the-wall/intense drama , loneliness familiar absurdities , superb scenes , a haunting meditation on love with dysfunctional roles and many other things . Here deals with existences of the four peculiar roles : a nurse , a ballerina , a writer , and a bullfighter , whose fates will flow in all directions, past , present and future , dragging all of them towards an unsuspected finale . A silent segment , played by Paz Vega and Fele Martinez , is awesome with shocking as well as funny images . This strange as well as excessive melodrama could only have been made by Almodovar . The picture is pretty well and turns out to be superior to Almodovar's previous entries such as or ¨Live flesh¨ , ¨The flower of my secret¨ , ¨Kika¨ , ¨High heels¨ , ¨Atame¨ and ¨Entre Tinieblas¨, all of them strong and outlandish dramas . The result is undiluted scabrous flick , plenty of crazy strings of plots and sharp images with enjoyable situations . I liked everyone in the excellent cast, and the male and female actors , especially Leonor Watling , were all very attractive . Furthermore , a notorious support cast such as Lola Dueñas , Roberto Álvarez , Elena Anaya , Chus Lampreave , Adolfo Fernández , Ana Fernández , Jose Sancho , Carmen Machi , Loles León , Fele Martínez and other delightfully played roles . In addition , spectacular dancing carried out by Pina Bausch and her professional dancer group . And a lot of cameos : Cecilia Roth, Marisa Paredes: frequent Pedro Almodóvar actors appear briefly when Caetano Veloso is singing . As usual in most of Pedro Almodóvar's movies, there is a small role for Agustín Almodóvar, his brother and producer of the film, who plays the priest conducting the wedding is the producer of the film . Rousing musical score by Alberto Iglesias , Almodovar's ordinary ; including some marvelous songs . Colorful and luxurious cinematography in Panavision , beautifully photographed by Javier Aguirresarove .

This one-of-a-kind picture was realized in his peculiar style by Pedro Almodovar ; he often uses symbolism and metaphorical techniques to portray circular story lines though here he directs a special melodrama , including his ordinary touches . He won an Academy Award for Best Original screen-play and it was chosen by "Les Cahiers du cinéma" as one of the 10 best pictures of 2002 . Almodovar directs throughout with splendid zip and he usually portrays strong female characters and transsexuals and along his career getting some important international prizes . His first feature film, Pepi, Luci, Bom (1980), was made in 16 mm and blown-up to 35 mm for public release . In 1987, he and his brother Agustín Almodóvar established their own production company : El Deseo, S. A. The "Almodóvar phenomenon" has reached all over the world , making his films very popular in many countries . Oscar-winning Spanish director Pedro Almodovar who made successes such as Labyrinth of passions , Law of desire , Women on the verge of a nervous breakdown , Bad education , All about my mother , Broken embraces , The Skin I Live In , Volver and many others . The latest from acclaimed Spanish director , Pedro Almodovar's I'm So Excited (Los Amantes Pasajeros) competing for the inaugural best European comedy honor during the upcoming 26th edition of the European Film Awards
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10/10
Perhaps Almodovar's greatest work
radonner27 December 2004
There are many who say that "Todo Sobre Mi Madre" is his best film, but now that I've seen both these movies, I give the nod - by a long way - to "Hable con Ella". This is a masterpiece, and not just because of the poignancy of the characters, or the story in general, or the way the scenes are shot - watching the matador get dressed was quite engrossing - but EVERYTHING comes together so wonderfully. The brilliance of Spanish-language films never fails to amaze me, and this is another one in that long line of greatness. There will be times where the viewer may feel somewhat uncomfortable with the characters and their actions, but that does not stop Almodovar from exploring such emotions; indeed, one sometimes gets the impression that Almodovar's entire purpose is to make you analyze your own feelings - and simply does it better than anyone else. Recommended for anyone who can read subtitles.
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8/10
When silence become eloquence and words medicines...
auberus9 July 2004
'Hable con ella' aka 'Talk to Her' (2002) is a powerful cinematic experience…It is not the best Almodovar and the narration is not a pristine one as more affective details could have been added. Yet the movie succeeds on so many levels. Why is that so? An original scenario and a bunch of very good actors might very well be the answer. Very baroque at time, adept of kitsch atmospheres Mr. Almodovar also has a cinematic sense of parody as well as drama. His style became famous out of Spain with movie like 'Women on the verge of a Nervous Breakdown' (1988), High Heels (1991) and Kika (1993). 'Talk to her' is no exception. It is baroque in the topic, kitsch in the atmosphere and dramatic in the output. The movie not only talks about friendship between two men but also about loneliness and wounds provoked by passion. It demonstrates how monologue can become dialogue and how silence is in fact 'eloquence of the body'. In between those silences, Benigno Martin (Javier Camera) and soon Marco Zuluaga (Dario Grandinetti) use words as weapons: weapons against Solitude first, against Death and against Madness…Yes Madness is another theme in this movie but not the 'dark madness', not the 'killing madness', but the type that is so close to tenderness and common sense that it becomes almost normality and that's exactly where Mr. Almodovar succeeds.
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Cinema heaven
Rave-Reviewer6 July 2004
Benigno and Marco are both lonely men, Marco because his lover, a woman bullfighter, is in a coma, Benigno, a thirty-year old virgin Momma's boy, from habit. Both are in love, too (Benigno, a male nurse at the clinic, slavishly tends Alicia, a comatose accident victim, for a living). It is he who gives Marco, with whom he strikes up a friendship, the eponymous advice: talk, and your heartfelt monologue will be more meaningful and therapeutic than any marital dialogue.

Seeing Almodóvar's latest film was one of the most pleasurable cinema experiences I have had for some time. He has over the years amassed the technical skill and maturity to put across quite complex stories in a deceptively simple language. From the shock tactics and punk aesthetics of Pepi, Luci, Bom, y otras chicas del montón (1980), to the Oscar-winning melodrama of All About My Mother (1999), he had already come a long way. Here, finally, was an interweaving of the lives of disparate characters that was not only unabashed in its excess (it always had been), it actually made you care – deeply.

More bullfighting

At first sight Hable con ella looks like being another case study in that famously offbeat, not to say queer, book of life according to Pedro. Almodóvar's scenarios have been no strangers to sex, drugs, and heartrending canción (a particular brand of overwrought singing which knows no real Anglo-Saxon equivalent). In Hable con ella we have bullfighting, a theme he used as an excuse for kinky sex in Matador, given a contemporary treatment in the person of 'torera', Lydia (female bullfighters are indeed beginning to compete in a man's profession). Here too we have the apparently off-the-wall and by now notorious scene from the film-within-the-film, El Amante Minguante, in which a shrunken hero takes refuge in his lover's vagina for protection. But neither is gratuitous gesture: Lydia is designed to counterpoint Marco's almost feminine sensitivity, and the latter sequence, far from being there to shock, is a metaphor to spare us a far more harrowing, and morally problematic, plot truth. The ability to turn kitsch into art is increasingly one of Almodóvar's defining features.

Post-modern?

While he often refers to other artforms in his films (reality TV in Kika, Ruth Rendell in Live Flesh, canción in High Heels), since All About My Mother the technique has become more assured. Where that film was a paean to female suffering, via All About Eve and A Streetcar Named Desire, in Hable con ella we have two men sharing a tear over a performance by the dancer Pina Bausch. Other references are the Brazilian singer Caetano Veloso, who sings at a party attended by (uncredited) Cecilia Roth and Marisa Paredes (from Mother), and Michael Cunningham, whose novel The Hours similarly has a tripartite structure where each section deepens and sheds light on the others ('tunnels in caves'). In other words the post-modernist borrowing is rendered invisible by being absorbed into the drama: it is not post-modern any more.

Almodóvar's choice to make a film about the loneliness and longing of men is a courageous one for a very private celebrity, a gamble to follow what might have been the peak of his career, and one which whets our appetite for what is to come.
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10/10
Talk to Her-Almodovar goes left field-with tragedy and emotion in brilliant fashion!!
MulhollandRob3 February 2003
Rating **** out of ****

Spanish Writer-Director Pedro Almodovar is a filmmaker that always captures strange, and honest moments within his characters emotions-especially women. Such films as "All About My Mother", and "Women on the Verge of a Nervous Breakdown" support this, but in Almodovar's latest film "Talk To Her"--he does something a little different by making men the protagasnits. It's brilliant, unique, and creative filmmaking at its best. However beneath all the brilliance is a lovely, sweet film that is charming in its own little way.

Almodovar crafts "Talk to Her" with a style that is unique in color and tone, and it has behavioral exposition that is far more mature and tonally sustained than anything he's done before. But the plot is insane as anything that Almodovar's has done before, which makes the movie more of a career-peak change, its a masterpiece constructed on the solid foundation of everything he's previously tried and learned. The movie's great, bad-boy conceit is that its two heroes, wounded-in-love journalist Marco (Dario Grandinetti) and naive nurse Benigno (Javier Camara), are hopelessly in love with women they can't communicate with -- and that really gives the two guys something to talk about, as well as a base for the strongest of friendships. Not that their women are intentionally unreachable; both, you see, are in comas.

By the end of this crazy, heart-thrilling tale, Almodovar has delivered us through un unexpecting film of humor, human emotions, specific human connections, remorse, and philosophies. "Talk to Her" is more than just a run of a talked about foreign film, and having Oscar-Nomination potential-it is one of the best movies of 2002.
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5/10
Like so many of Almodóvar's films, its very creepy and NOT for everyone.
planktonrules12 December 2013
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Many, many of the films of Pedro Almodóvar are creepy--and it's a rare one (such as "Volver") that isn't. Some are super-creepy but I can get past that because the films are so well written and directed ("The SKin I Live In" is a good example). And, some are just so creepy and downright nasty that I feel like I need to take a bath after seeing them ("What Have I Done to Deserve This?"). Well, "Talk to Her" falls somewhere between these last two categories--perhaps a bit towards category #3! While exceptionally well made, it is just gross and nasty and, perhaps, might be seen as a weird endorsement of deviant behavior.

The film revolves around two men who love women who are in comas. One is a reporter who has fallen in love with a female bullfighter who was put into a coma after an unsuccessful bullfight. Another is a creepy guy who works at the long-term care facility. I say creepy because later you learn that his prize patient, who he dotes on lovingly, is a woman he was obsessed with BEFORE her accident that left her in a coma. Being with her and taking care of her is his life. However, it gets MUCH, MUCH worse. Later, this creepy little $&@* rapes the comatose woman. Folks learn about this when she ends up pregnant--pregnant and in a coma! There's more--and, in a way, it ends up looking almost like the film is endorsing the rape. Sort of the 'all's well that ends well' plot twist.

As a guy who was a counselor years ago that worked with sex offenders, I found the film pretty sick. Part of this, I am sure, because of the work I did and my experiences (I now feel that therapy with sex offenders is pretty much a waste of time). But part of this is that the film just seems to almost romanticize a guy who is sick and gross and a criminal. See the film for yourself if you'd like. I just think Almodóvar stepped over the line with this one from being entertaining and very well made to being a bit depraved.

By the way, although I am NOT a person who in any way endorses PETA and many of the extremist animal rights folks, I did find it disturbing seeing a bull tortured and killed for the film. Yes, I know bullfighting in legal in many places but it just seemed wrong to use the animal this way. Eat 'em, fine. But slowly killing an animal when it wasn't necessary, I am not fine with that.

Also, at one point, Lydia says her father was only a banderillo. This is a person who works in the bullring and their job is to torment the bull by sticking metal spikes into its back before the matador enters the ring to eventually kill the animal.

Finally, what is with that giant vagina fantasy sequence?! In a surreal or absurdist film it would have been pretty funny but here, once again, it's rather disturbing.
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8/10
Talk to Her
Tweekums7 June 2019
This film from director Pedro Almodóvar is centred on two men; Benigno Martín and Marco Zuluaga. They first meet when they are seated next to each other in a theatre; they don't exchange a word but Benigno notices Marco's emotional reaction to the piece. We then see how Benigno works at a clinic where he cares for Alicia, a ballerina, who has been in a coma for four years. Meanwhile Marco, a journalist, is trying to secure an interview with Lydia, a matador. They become friends but then she is gored in the bullring and ends up in a coma; Marco is told there is almost no chance that she will ever recover. As he visits her he meets Benigno in the clinic. He encourages Marco to talk to Lydia but he doesn't see the point. In the events that follow we discover secrets and events take a sinister turn as we learn more about one of the men.

As one would expect from Almodóvar this film is more about characters than events. The events we do see are there to advance character development and bring the two men together. The two main characters are interesting with Javier Cámara and Darío Grandinetti impressing as Benigno and Marco respectively. Over the course of the film the characters develop in ways one might not expect as we see what a first appears to be tender love is really dangerous obsession. This is all the more disturbing as we are initially encouraged to like the character. The film is shot in a naturalistic way that suits the material. It must be admitted that there is material in the film that will bother some viewers; most notably scenes of bullfighting and a film within the film that includes a scene of a 'miniature man' climbing over then entering a woman's naked body. Overall I'd recommend this to fans of Almodóvar's other films but it certainly won't be for everybody.

These comments are based on watching in Spanish with English subtitles.
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9/10
Talk to Her spoke to me..
StephanieBowman12 May 2010
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The camaraderie of two men caring for women they love in comas is the center of Almodóvar's stunningly poignant film, Talk to Her. After recently viewing Almodóvar's stupendous film All about my Mother, I was anxious to see his subsequent work. While the films stories are unrelated the curtains that fall in the end of All about my Mother are present in the opening scene of Talk to Her; something audiences may not pay mind to if not watching in sequence. The film is filled with art; ballet is woven throughout and in the opening and ending scene. The Mise-en-scène is breathtaking, from intricate matador costumes, to the vivid colors, and a haunting somber score. Reminiscent of Almodóvar style the film ranges from a soap opera to immense tragedy. There is the highly melodramatic scene in which the women matador character fights with a talk show host, yet overall the film has a solemn premise. We see surrealism in a silent film within the film's peculiar sexual symbolism later ensuing in rape. The film captures Spain's time honored masculine Bullfight, yet there is a woman matador; stretching the mind's eye in regard to gender roles; aptly Almodóvar's grand craft. Almodóvar is also known for female cast compilations, yet the director changes course with the two men who share loneliness and pain provoked by passion. We see attributes in the male characters generally deemed feminine, namely: embroidery, crying, nurturing devoting. The bond that in the end unites the two men is that they share these abilities. There are numerous flashbacks which show how the men meet their now comatose women and the evolution of the relationships. The title of the film, Talk to Her reflects a literal meaning as well as broader premise of communication in relationships. "Nothing is simple" says the ballet instructor in the last line of the film, a comment on the complicated emotional paradigm of the story. Almodóvar's script is original and captivating, great acting with daring direction, the viewer is indubitably moved.
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9/10
Stunning, both visually and semantically
Patrick_Allan30 December 2003
On watching "Talk To Her", one of the first things you will notice is the beauty of film-work involved. The colours are rich and saturated, the image is crisp and the camera work is superb. Smooth panning shots and steady zooms guide you safely though s slightly fractured narrative, cutting between the past, present and future on occasions.

This discontinuity, however, isn't confusing to the viewer and is, in fact, far from it. The cast act and speak so clearly that it is a perfect introduction to anyone new to foreign language film and, aside from the minor plot-line of bullfighting, there aren't an abundance of Spanish cultural references.

This film, essentially, is a complex story laid out in an extremely simple form. It is not a film you will forget and, no doubt, will think about a lot after watching it. Also, unlike a lot of critically acclaimed films, you will not be cogitating over the events that took place in the film, you will be asking yourself how they apply to your life and relationships with others. Despite "Talk To Her"'s tragic story, it is an incredibly fun film to watch and discuss with others and a film I am extremely glad I added to my collection, having heard little about it at the time I bought it. 9/10
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1/10
I never liked this director. Now, I like him even less.
Lomedin16 September 2013
I'll tell you a secret: I was born in spain. Thus, I grew up with the name of this director ringing in my ears all the time, since he was so "different" and "special". I couldn't watch any of his movies for long, I find them pretentious, boring and terrible.

Why, oh, why, did he have to receive an Oscar? Alright, for people who don't care about the mainstream, that means little. However, that only encouraged him more, and the Spanish media was ever so proud of him. More ringing in my ears.

Now, we have another piece of rubbish from this individual. One in which 6 bulls are actually tortured and killed FOR REAL. Just for the sake of this **** movie. It seems like the director doesn't believe 35000 bulls tortured and killed every year in spain is enough. He needed more, for the sake of a stupid movie. Or to satisfy his ego, perhaps.

I find the fact of taking a creature life for the purpose of shooting a film simply disgusting. I can tell you: most spaniards hate bullfighting. It's movies like this that give a bad name to the country I was born. And I'm not from Catalunya.
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9/10
Big boys don't cry..
jotix1009 December 2002
Pedro Almodovar's latest film is a welcome change of pace. Instead of making a woman's picture, this is a film that sees the action through the eyes of grown up men.

Benigno is a misfit. How can any hospital employs him to attend a coma patient, is beyond understanding. More so, when the patient is the beautiful and well endowed Alicia? Didn't anyone in management see that they were only courting trouble by letting him be in that ward.?

Marco, on the other hand, is always crying. Any little thing sets him off. His relationship with Lydia, the lady bullfighter, is interrupted by the accident she suffers and that brings him and Benigno to the same hospital at the same time.

Benigno is the one that brings the story to a happy conclusion by leaving in a tragic manner. That means no more tears for Marco, only happiness after having suffered so much throughout the film.

The acting is very good. Javier Camara is incredible as Benigno. He has a deadpan face and he says the most incredible things with a straight face. Dario Grandinetti is also very effective as Marco although the crying at times get to be too much because it happens without reason apparent.

Leonor Watling doesn't have much to say since she's in a coma most of the time. Rosario Flores makes a better impression as the bullfighter. She has a very expressive face.

The film has an interesting look that's very easy to take and enjoy. This is a surprise as Mr. Almodovar chills out after his recent films.
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10/10
Why don't we make films like this?
burgovision31 January 2004
Have you ever noticed that only european cinema, especially french & spanish, seem able to produce this kind of black whimsical film which engages you intellectually and leaves you awakened, intrigued and excited?
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1/10
Is it a "normal" world?
pedrovelazquez6 March 2008
Warning: Spoilers
I wonder only how so many people can talk about love in a case where somebody rapes an unconscious girl. Did I miss something???

There is nothing that changes that fact.

Love is not a disguise, and love is not about stalking. Please! Do not try to make something beautiful out of that. That is a very strange way of entertainment. Mister Almodovar has a very strange view of the world, but new, different or strange doesn't necessarily mean good. It is not about right or wrong, but raping remains on the side of the world, of which I don't want to be a part of.

Pedro Velazquez
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10/10
One of the best films of 2002
Quinoa198424 May 2006
Pedro Almodovar's Hable con ella (Talk to Her) will likely be one of the best film's I'll have seen from the director, if not the best so far out of (regrettably) only the handful so far. This is the kind of crazy, tragic masterpiece that good directors wish they could try for and just aren't able to totally accomplish, where dicey subject matter is handled with just the right amount of humanity to look on these people without a heap of manipulative judgment. This is a credit to Almodovar's actors, some of them he's worked with other times (the best being Javier Camera as Beningo, a supporting character who's at the part of the aching, disturbing heart of the film). But the film's success is also in how Almodovar does so much with style while sticking close to the essential parts of the story.

Here it's in looking at two male friends, a journalist (Dario Grandinetti) who has a relationship with a female bullfighter who has her own trauma after getting into the arena. The other is Benigno, who as a male-nurse looks after an ex-dancer who's in a coma. The two become close as friends, even as Benigno gets into a situation that has him in way over his head with the, yes, woman in the coma. Some of the dramatic scenes are very well handled in tone, as all the actors make this the kind of connection that draws us into characters that could in lesser hands be almost akin to a soap opera. But there are surprisingly touching scenes amid some keenly subtler ones in the film with these characters that stick with you once it's over (towards the end after Benigno's met his fate between him and Marco is one such scene). The best scenes in the film, however, are those that are given completely to Almodovar's unique use of the camera, and his imagination, as well as combining a very alarming, challenging psychological viewpoint.

The sequence with Beningo's daydream of a silent film, and a very peculiar way to get to know the intimate side of a woman is shown in such a wild, surreal way that it's on par with the insane miraculous nature of Bunuel. Scenes like this could steal the show if there wasn't a dramatic base to cover it. As it is, Almodovar's Oscar winning film has a side that is of the fantastic, but also that leaning to the realm of humanism like Renoir. You can't hate these people, ever, no matter how fragmented or torn apart or just plain wrong they might be. It's a uniquely small, identifiable world where it pops up again for me on lonely nights, wondering what it's like to be Beningo or the bullfighter. A+
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8/10
Talk to Her
jboothmillard26 November 2009
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This Spanish film from Oscar nominated director Pedro Almodóvar (All About My Mother) featured in the book 1001 Movies You Must See Before You Die, a deserved honour. Basically Benigno Martín (Javier Cámara) and Marco Zuluaga (Darío Grandinetti) meet by chance at a theatre, and meet at the private clinic where Benigno works. Marco's girlfriend Lydia González (Rosario Flores), a professional bullfighter, is knocked into a long coma, and as it happens, Benigno is looking after another woman in a coma, young ballet student Alicia (Leonor Watling). While both women are in comatose, Benigno and Marco become good friends, and they are encouraged to talk to the women in hope that they can hear them and awaken. It is obvious that Benigno has a growing passion for Alicia, and he is arrested, accused of impregnating her, and this is not long after he suggested marrying her! Marco is obviously the only person who cares about Benigno's situation, and is willing to let him know what is going on with Alicia. In the end, Benigno sees no way out but to join Alicia in death, but he never lived to see her awaken, as Marco was shocked to see. Also starring Geraldine Chaplin as Katerina Bilova, Mariola Fuentes as Rosa and Pina Bausch as Bailarina 'Café Müller'. It is a very touching love story, all done with great performers, making you believe about how sometimes too much passion can give some false hope, and obviously it all ends in tragedy. Notable moments include the bullfighting sequence, some musical interludes, and the imaginative silent film included, The Diminishing Lover, where a shrunken man climbs into his love's vagina, and never comes out, an impressive romantic drama. It won the Oscar for Best Writing, Original Screenplay for Almodóvar, it won the BAFTAs for Best Film not in the English Language and Best Original Screenplay, and it won the Golden Globe for Best Foreign Language Film. Very good!
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8/10
Strangely fascinating
=G=30 May 2003
"Talk to Her" tells of two men who share a common bond - female love interests in comas in the same hospital. One couple offers a baseline of normalcy with the female, a bullfighter, having been gored with important words left unspoken. The other couple is contrastingly aberrant as the one-sided relationship was spawned while the comatose female was in the care of a sexually immature male nurse who falls in love with her. The story which flows from this premise is intriguingly complex and strangely fascinating. Not the usual Hollyweird film fare, "Talk to Her" is austere and understated allowing the masterful crafting of characters and story to fuel viewer interest with realism in lieu of sensationalism. Not for hype junkies, this much lauded flick is well worth a look for those into foreign films, especially Europics, with psychodramatic overtones. (A-)
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Very much a matter of taste but the reward is that you must use your brain – how rare in a cinema these days! (spoilers)
bob the moo23 September 2002
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Male carer Benigno looks after Alicia day and night as she is in a coma. He talks to her constantly and feels like this relationship is one of the best times of his life. Into this situation comes Marco, who's bullfighter girlfriend has been put into a coma. Marco doesn't want to talk to his girlfriend in this state and is also haunted by something she needed to say to him that she can now not say. He gets to know Benigno as he helps him to learn to talk to the girls, however can an one sided relationship really be love?

I didn't know what this was about when I went to see it and coming out, to be honest, I'm still unsure. The film looks at love and loneliness in the lives of two men, both in different states at different times. It sounds simple but it's hard to grasp – I'm still not sure what it was getting at. Benigno appears to be the likeable one in his relationship with Alicia (despite being a little weird), while Marco appears a little weird and distant when Lydia goes into a coma. However this is switched when it is suggested that Benigno's relationship is not as harmless as it is suggested – then he becomes the weird one and Marco appears to be the one holding it all together.

It's all a bit sad and challenging but is it really all it seems. I too suspect that Marco was prehaps the weird one while Benigno's idea of love really was one of innocence and talking. It is suggested that Marco is a talker and his relationship with Lydia seems to be all him talking and her repressing, also he admires Alicia and admits to looking at her breasts. The final twist in the film where Marco begins to repeat the way in which Benigno falls for Alicia (with more success) also hints that he has had a desire for her and envies Benigno's relationship for her and, now that she out of her coma, wants to have that same relationship by going the same route. This changes the whole tone of the film for me and makes it much more deep.

On the surface the film appears disturbing, eerie and challenging. It certainly doesn't seem very cheerful and is very sad – all the more so by the haunting score. However the strength of it is that it makes you think and it'll create plenty of thought long after it has finished. It is slightly funny but to be honest it isn't really the focus and I found it to be darkly amusing rather than funny.

Cámara is very good indeed as Banigno – he doesn't let him become retarded but he does bring out innocence and naivety. However he also manages to keep him likeable throughout. Grandinetti is intense but it doesn't always come off. He does a good job with a difficult role but he occasionally does that art-house thing of staring into the distance while smoking a cigarrette. The female roles, usually the main roles of Almodóvar, are literally silenced and the film is carried by the two male roles. Almodóvar's direction is excellent – great shots but also very clever shots that will only serve to add to your debate after the film has ended.

Overall this is not an easy film to watch but is worth putting the effort in for the reward of using your brain. On it's surface it seems like the last thing on earth you'd want to see but, if you're willing to think then you'll find this rewarding.
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Two Men, Two Women, Two Comas---See a Pattern?
tfrizzell21 May 2004
Critiquing "Hable Con Ella" (translated "Talk to Her") is a difficult task. It is unlike anything in the mainstream I have ever seen. It definitely benefits from Oscar-nominated director/Oscar-winning screenwriter Pedro Almodovar, but this is one of those movies where you know you like it and you are not really sure you know why. In modern-day Spain a beautiful young woman (Leonor Watling) sits in a coma. She has a kind male nurse (Javier Camera) who looks after her, along with other hospital staff, but something about him is off. Enter female bullfighter Rosario Flores who falls in love with journalist Dario Grandinetti and a whirlwind love affair begins. But naturally bullfighting has its occupational hazards and unfortunately the law of average catches up to Flores. Now she is in a coma, a coma she may not wake from. Grandinetti is totally distraught and upset, as you might imagine, but finds comfort in nurse Camera. They start a friendship that is linked by, of all things, their love for women who are in comas. Camera actually knew Watling (a former ballet dancer) before her terrible car accident and developed a crush on her from afar and then finally met her with mixed results. The fact that Camera may have female-dependency issues (after nursing his late mother for many years before her death) and also may have homosexual tendencies only adds more layers to an already complex story mix. But through it all he continues to talk to Watling, in spite of her condition, in the hopes that someday she will indeed reawaken. Grandinetti tries to accept Camera's views with comatose patients in stride, but his faith is not near as strong in spiritual teachings, medical technology or even Flores. Geraldine Chaplin even makes a long appearance here as Watling's former dance instructor and Almodovar pays homage to the silent film era in the most unusual ways with a sequence that is too hard to talk about or explain (you will just have to see it for yourself and draw your own conclusions). "Talk to Her" works because of its two male leads and because of Almodovar's modern cinematic brilliance in his story-telling. Watling is a stunning beauty and her appearance in the film is something truly remarkable throughout. Flores is the weakest link in a strong chain. I just never had any connection to her character and honestly I felt like she was totally wrong for the venture (the part admittedly is a bit under-developed and bland to start with though). Overall "Talk to Her" is a very strong Spanish product that stands extremely high with the slightly better Mexican product "Y Tu Mama Tambien" (both films were released in 2002). Sometimes when talking does not work, just try talking some more. 4.5 out of 5 stars.
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