The Meaning Behind The Song: Sleepover by Hayley Kiyoko
I am a huge fan of Hayley Kiyoko and her ability to create music that explicitly captures the experiences of LGBTQ+ individuals. One of her most popular songs, “Sleepover,” resonates with me on a personal level, as it reflects the complex feelings and emotions that can arise when longing for someone who may not reciprocate those feelings.
Released on March 3, 2017, as part of her album “Expectations,” “Sleepover” tells the story of a lesbian who is deeply in love with her friend. However, her friend remains oblivious to her true feelings. The song delves into the internal struggle of yearning for someone unattainable and the emotional turmoil that comes with it.
The Lyrics
I don’t wanna talk about it, I don’t wanna think about it
I’m just feeling low, feeling low
Even when you’re next to me it’s not the way I’m picturing
I’m just feeling low, feeling low
The opening verse sets the tone for the song, expressing the protagonist’s reluctance to confront the intensity of their emotions. Despite their friend’s physical presence, they still feel a deep sense of loneliness.
You wanna be friends forever? I can think of something better
I’m just feeling low, feeling low
Sleeping here right next to me, but will you ever mess with me? No
In the pre-chorus, the protagonist questions the nature of their friendship. They yearn for more than just friendship and express their desire for a deeper connection.
But at least I got you in my head, oh, yeah
At least I got you in my head, in my head
Sleepovers in my bed, oh, yeah
At least I got you in my head, in my head
The catchy chorus highlights the solace the protagonist finds in their thoughts. Even if their feelings aren’t reciprocated, they still have the person of their affections in their mind.
The song continues with additional verses, a bridge, and a powerful outro, all conveying the deep longing and heartbreak experienced by the protagonist. Hayley Kiyoko’s emotive vocals and the song’s infectious pop sound truly bring this emotional rollercoaster to life.
The Personal Connection
As a listener, I can’t help but relate to the sentiments expressed in “Sleepover.” We’ve all experienced unrequited love or the intensity of longing for someone who may never reciprocate those feelings. The song serves as a reminder that these emotions are valid and that it’s essential to express them, even if it leads to heartbreak.
Hayley Kiyoko’s Perspective
In an interview with Billboard, Hayley Kiyoko explained the inspiration behind “Sleepover.” She aimed to capture the intense feeling of yearning and how it can consume an individual. The song resonates not only with LGBTQ+ individuals but also with anyone who has experienced unrequited love.
“I tried to capture that intense feeling of yearning for someone, and how it just feels like you’re being swallowed by it.”
Conclusion
“Sleepover” by Hayley Kiyoko is a powerful anthem that speaks to the emotions experienced when longing for someone who may never reciprocate those feelings. Through her raw lyrics and captivating melodies, Kiyoko beautifully captures the complexities of unrequited love and the yearning for a deeper connection.
Listening to this song has made me reflect on my own experiences and the emotional rollercoaster that comes with unrequited love. It serves as a reminder that these feelings are valid and that it’s crucial to express them, even if it only exists in our heads.
So, if you find yourself in a similar situation, take solace in “Sleepover” and the comfort it provides in knowing that you’re not alone in your feelings.
Credits
Produced By Hayley Kiyoko, Cecil Bernardy & Jono Dorr
Written By Hayley Kiyoko, Nikki Flores, Cecil Bernardy & Jono Dorr
Release Date: March 3, 2017
Tags
Pop, LGBTQ+
