Producers of TLC’s hit reality series 90 Day Fiance are looking to put a new spin on their “finding love off the beaten path” theme with new show Love After Lockup. The series will document couples in which one (or more?) partner is currently behind bars, but soon to be released.
i’m sorry i don’t condone DV but gabby is annoying as hell!!! she already spent all his money on bs then she being toxic asshit on his first day out the halfway house & he been super calm this whole time.. he probably just reached his snapping point
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They just seem like they don't even like each other. The money that is long gone is the only reason they stay together. The whole walk home was just them provoking each other
I was just telling my husband the way they were walking home and fighting was like watching sloths cross the road!
It reminded of high schoolers. Both are immature.
I agree with sentiments that 2 things can be true and that neither is a justification for the other. Gabby suspects chris of cheating but instead of having a civilized conversation and deciding if this marriage can actually work for them, she’s jerking him around and acting like a spoiled brat.
This doesn’t excuse Chris beating her. I can say i hate Gabby without saying she deserved to get beaten. There are a lot of people I disagree with or piss me off..doesn’t mean I have the right to go around hitting them.
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He def had resentment over the money. I was not expecting that. I winder why he gave it away was he just feeling like he was not ever getting out? I would be frudtrated too but once you give someone money it is what it is. They were an odd couple…
I think he gave her the money expecting her to use most of it on things like an apartment and a car, building a life that he would be sharing when he got out. I don’t think he ever planned on being faithful to her, but I do think he expected to have a home and life together. And FTR they’re both immature, garbage humans who treated each other abominably. And physical violence born of anger is never justified.
No one should ever physically abuse anyone Chris is wrong in what he did!! I also think Gabby was mentally abusing Chris last night. I think she was wrong in the way she was treating him. She likes to play games.
Yep. They’re both garbage. I can’t even say they deserve each other because that can come off like I’m justifying it. They deserve to be alone — and need to work on being better people before they attempt a relationship with anyone. But that’s probably not going to happen anytime soon, unfortunately.
Edit: typo
push people to their limit and dont be shocked for the results.
that’s all i was tryna say!
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This. Why is everyone so focused on her spending the money. His dumb ass gave it to her.
He did and I just do not get why…some maybe but all? All I can think is he never thought he was getting out.
yes every time i see him on screen i think about it. he literally left nothing to himself he gave his mom and gabby ALL his money i can’t seem to get why. i think he just got so much that he thought if he gave it to his gf & mom they could take care of themselves and leave him some for when he comes home. he was antsy to spend it/give it away but it’s not like he could order anything in there.
And didn’t his mom also spend half?
That is what they say. It would be nice if mom thought of her son and didnt spend it…or put a downpayment on a house w his name on the title…
didnt he say prison was like a party and told the viewers how to make hooch out of tomato paste and something else? both her and family should have KEPT some for HIM, they are all selfish
Def have some regerts too. Edit: for regret.
As a woman I will say. That some of us can be very emotional, mentally abusive. Which in a way can be worse than the physical.
I mean two things can be true. Chris did a terrible thing and absolutely deserves whatever happened to him, however like he was physically abusing her, she has also been verbally and emotionally abusing him since he got out. He seems to be internalizing this from what we can see. I dont really like the stigma that because he is a man that that should not affect him. Let's not act like one is worse than the other. They are both very very bad. She seems to enjoy bringing people to heel. Idk what cause their horrific DV incident but im seriously doubting that it was because of one isolated thing. He should have never hit her because their relationship should have never got to the point where that action got into his head.
My wish is that when two adults act like this and call it "love" they smarten up and realize it gets better. It leads to two healthier people.
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Remember he like that ish.
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Absolutely no excuse for this man beating this woman... Walking away would have been his best option. Now he will reap what he sows.
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Exactly... Be the bigger person and move on.
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And so will she.
Nothing warrants her to be beaten to a pulp.
No excuses for physically assaulting someone like that. Grow the fuck up and stop making excuses for these pathetic men that beat women
Gabby is garbage and no one is saying otherwise but violence should only being used if someone is actually being harmed. Violence is to defend yourself or others. You don’t get to beat someone’s face in because they make you mad; you leave.
she truly is ! cant stand her
You refer to a snapping point as if everyone has one. As in if you push someone enough they will beat the shit out of you and that is not true. That is not the first time he has hit her or hit a woman I guarantee. YES she is annoying but nothing she could have done could have pushed him to that point if that was not already in him
everyone does have a snapping point.
I can agree To disagree tho. If someone touches my child inappropriate I will beat the dog shit outta them. Just saying, people do have breaking points. But nevertheless I don’t agree with what he did, like someone said above walk away. Someone touching my child is something no one should walk away from but THIS situation he 100% should have.
These are different situations and I’m totally lost about how you could even be comparing them. Protecting your children from violence is different than just being mad about some bullshit and attacking someone.
Agreed they are but the reply was to someone about people having breaking points. It was an objective observation about the statement made. Our perspective is just that our perspective which cannot be forced upon anyone else. Read my comment thoroughly and maybe you will understand maybe not
I can read and comprehend, people responding in a way you don’t like doesn’t mean they didn’t understand.
Can y’all stop saying ‘I don’t condone DV but…” because that means you actually do condone it since you’re making excuses for abusive men
Many people in my life have pushed my buttons and provoked me but I have never physically assaulted anyone!
well that’s on you. i beat people up🤷🏾♀️
My mom grew up in the 50s/60s and this is 100% something in that era says. She's told me before, that a woman can push a man to hit her. We gotta get out of that mindset, that a person can verbally cause physical violence.
The victim blaming of Gabby and fat shaming of Monique is really disappointing on this sub 😞
I’m fairly new to Reddit and one thing that I have always heard about Reddit is how the users are very anti-bullying, anti-body shaming, etc etc… and then I joined this sub and… was like wha lmao
In general that has been my experience but I feel like this season has really brought out the worst in this sub!
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Exactly. I can't believe some of these comments. Victim blaming needs to stop. It doesn't matter what she did. It doesn't justify him assaulting her.
I'm not going to pretend she has fallen from the lap of God either! she's far from innocent and i wouldnt be surprised if she doesnt have a rap sheet either , have you seen some interviews with her? she talks of knives, etc. The girl is psycho
Yes!!! This! This excusing and enabling abusive men, like women have to be on their best behavior so men don’t “snap,” is so misogynistic. This is why domestic violence from men towards women is rampant in The United States. 1 in 3 women will experience intimate partner violence in The US. That is what is just reported and most DV goes unreported. Violence against women is a serious public health crisis. No matter how toxic and angry a woman gets, men have no excuse to beat women. It’s about power and control. Women who excuse abuse are part of the reason it is so prevalent.
I think there’s more to her attitude (especially if it ended in a severe case of DV). Like yeah she is a bitch but we are seeing images that have been edited, but I’d dare to say there’s stuff that she is not talking about. She clearly looks like she is battling an internal dilema like do I stay, or do I go? She wants to check out but probably thinks that she can’t because she already put her address for his probation and also, she is like we just got married. But definitely I don’t think being a bitch, or having an attitude means you should get your a** beat.
its more play stupid games win stupid prizes. The man just got out of jail including almost one year of solitary and she keeps picking at him. No one is saying he was right to hit her but what did she think was going to happen?
So just victim blaming with more words? You sound like the type of piece of shit that defends a cop shooting a shoplifter.